Zingaphi iinyanga ukuba ndihlale phantsi intombazana kwaye ndifuna ukwenza oku?

"Yaye intombi yam isele ihleli!" - ziqhayisa abazali, uzibonakalise phambi kwabahlobo. Kwaye uzibuza ngokuzibuza: "Mhlawumbi intombi yam isele ifike ixesha?" Zingaphi iinyanga ndingatshala intombazana? Kwaye ndifuna ukwenza oku? Masiqonde!

Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuqonda xa umntwana wakho ekulungele ukuhlala. Abanye baqala ukuhlala phantsi kwiinyanga ezi-5, abanye kunye neenyanga ezi-7 abazami ukuhlala. Khumbula ukuba wonke umntwana uhlukile. Kodwa yintoni enokuyenza xa bonke abantwana abaqhelana nabantwana abaneminyaka elifanayo sele sele behleli, kodwa okwenu akunjalo? Zingaphi iinyanga ndingakwazi ukuhlala phantsi komntwana?

Impendulo ilula - kungcono ukuba ungahlali phantsi. Umntwana wakho akakhokheli nantoni na? Ukuba u-orthopedist, i-neuropathologist kunye nezingane zakudala akafumananga naluphi na ukuphambuka kwintombi yakho, ngoko ixesha alikafiki. Linda nje kwaye i-crumb ngokwayo iya kuhlala phantsi.

Nangona kunjalo izinga lokuqala lokuhlala kwisihlalo esizimeleyo liinyanga ezili-6-7. Yile minyaka enokuthi ithathelwe ingqalelo impendulo kumbuzo wangeenyanga kangaphi ohlala phantsi intombazana. Ukuba umntwana oneminyaka engama-7 akahlali phantsi, kumncedise ngokuzilolonga okukhethekileyo, kwaye ukhuthaze ukukhwela. Ubume luhlelwe ukuba emva kokukhawulela, ngexesha apho i-musculature yomva ikhula kwaye umgudu uyaqina, ukuhlala kuyo kuya kuba yintlekele kunye nenkqubo yendalo.

Zingaphi iinyanga ndingatshala intombazana? Kungekudala kunesiqingatha sonyaka. Ngokuqhelekileyo ngabantwana abadala basebenzela ukukhwela, oku kuthetha ukuba bazimisele ukuhlala phantsi. Kodwa kungcono ukulinda umzuzwana xa umntwana eqala ukwenza iinzame ezizimeleyo zokuhlala-kwaye bona, ndikuqinisekisa, kuya kuqala!

Ewe, le mibuzo malunga neenyanga kangaphi uhlala phantsi intombazana kwaye uhlale phantsi, umzali ngamnye uya kuziphendulela. Nangona kunjalo, khumbula ukuba ukuhlala kwangoko kufutshane nokuphuhliswa kwesigqubuthelo seengcambu kunye neengxaki ngamathambo e-pelvic kwixesha elizayo, kunye nakumantombazana, kunye nokuphulwa okusemandleni kwi-genitourinary sphere. Ngaba kulungele ukubeka umngcipheko kwimpilo yengane yakho?

Ukuba awukwazi ukulinda ukubona intombi yakho ihleli, unokukhawulezisa le nkqubo ngeendlela ezimbini:

1. Khuthaza ukukhwabanisa okusebenzayo: galeka iingubo okanye amaqabunga phantsi, ubeke umntwana kwisisu nangemitha okanye ezimbini kude naye ubeke into eqaqambileyo. Umntwana wakho uya kufuna ukufikelela kuye, kwaye uya kuqala ekuqaleni, ngokukhawuleza. Unokuqala ukuphinda usele kwakhona kwiinyanga ezine. Emva kwenyanga kunye nesiqingatha, umntwana uya kukwazi ukukhwela kwisitokisi.

2. Yenza i-gymnastics nentombi yakho. Yifake emva, uze uyibophe iminwe yayo malunga neepenki zakho. Ngokukhawuleza xa ebaphatha, mdonsa kuye. Kwiinyanga ezi-4 kuya kuba yincinci yokuphucula, ngomnyaka wesigxina ukuphakama kwanda kwimeko yokuhlala. Gcina umntwana kulo mqathango imizuzwana embalwa uze uyinciphise.

Ukuzivocavoca, ukuhlambalaza, ukubhukuda, ukukhwela okusebenzayo lungiselela umntwana wakho ukuhlala okuzimeleyo. Esikhundleni sokuzibuza ukuba ungalima njani intombazana, yenze iimeko ezinjalo ezenza yona ngokwayo. Ekuqaleni akuqinisekanga, ukuwa phantsi, kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngokunyanisekileyo intombi yakho iya kudlula kwisigaba esitsha solwazi lwehlabathi - kwindawo efanelekileyo. Umsebenzi wakho kukubonelela indawo ekhuselekileyo yokudlala nokuphuhlisa umntwana wakho, ukuze ugweme ukulimala xa uzama ukuhlala phantsi.

Yimpilo!