Zindlela ezingaphi iiveki ziya uqale ukususa umntwana xa ukukhulelwa yokuqala elandelayo?

Wonke umfazi okhulelweyo ujonge phambili, kwaye xa usana lwakhe luya kuba nesiphumo. Kunye noomama abaninzi, ingakumbi nulliparous, uyazibuza ukuba zingaphi iiveki ziya kuqalisa ukususa umntwana? Kodwa akukho mpendulo ilula. Zama ukuqonda ukuba ingaba ikhona na imihla kulinganisiwe xa unina uqala ukuva umntwana wabo.

Ngokutsho imilinganiselo kukhulelwa yokuqala, ingane uqala ukuya kwi kwiiveki 20, 17-18 lwesibini, lwesithathu ezilandelayo. Kodwa ngokwenyani ayisoloko idibana kunye nemimiselo.

Ngoko ke zingaphi iiveki lokususa umntwana kuqala? Kuxhomekeka kwindlela ethe amanqatha ongama ngesisu umama okhulelwe. Yintoni eyenza kube nje ukubhitya kwaye ngoko sensitive ngakumbi, lo ngaphambili umfazi nga va iintshukumo yokuqala kwiimvuthuluka zakho. Vice versa.

Isibakala indlela iiveki ezininzi ziya uqale ukususa umntwana kuxhomekeka yena, ngenxa yokuba phakathi abantwana kufuneka nje ecacileyo Sony, uthando yokulala "zinger 'ukuba ukuhamba ixakeke kakhulu.

Yinto eyaziwayo ukuba intshukumo yakhe yokuqala, nto leyo ehlelekile kanye nokuguqulwa, eyenza mixture xa kwiiveki 8-9 sokukhulelwa. Ngale mibandela iziqhamo zisencinci kakhulu, ukuba ndide ndihanjelwe ngunina lweentshukumo bakhe, Kakade, angacingi. Kwakhona okunika umdla ingabizwa ukuba yonke imihla itakane bazibophelele perturbations-20,000, kuba abanye babo baye ukuqhwanyazaemva, kunye ukuthabatheka ngezandla zakhe, iinyawo, neminwe, etyekayo iintloko, kunye neentshukumo okuqubha hiccups, ukukhotha iminwe, kwaye ngaphezulu.

Nangona norm elinikiweyo, umbuzo malunga nendlela iiveki ezininzi ziya uqale ukususa usana, abafazi abaninzi abaye sele ndizale, impendulo kukuba lokuqala uqaphele usana lwakho wiggling kwisithuba seeveki 17-20 zokukhulelwa kwindawo yokuqala kunye 16-18 elinesibini. Abanye oomama ingakumbi onovakalelo bayaqonda iintshukumo foetal abe veki 14-15! Enye ingongoma umdla kukuba wokuqala "shevelyushki" uninzi lwabafazi kuthelekiswa "amabhabhathane ukukhanya enomoya" okanye "yayikukunkcenkceza intlanzi."

Hi ndlela leyi, zingaphi iinyanga yokuhambisa umntwana okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba ngugqirha. Ngaloo mhla, ugqirha uthi kwiiveki ezingama-20 zokukhulelwa ngenxa yokuqala 22 kuba yesibini - le yenye indlela eya kumisela umhla uqikelelo yonikezelo.

Ekuhambeni esakhulelwe iintshukumo baby iya bunzima kakhulu kwaye ngamanye amaxesha unokude abangele ubuhlungu abakhulelweyo. Kodwa kwangaxeshanye, kuba uyazi ukuba ngenxa yezi "shevelyushki" pipsqueak enxibelelana nonina, kwaye kwezinye iimeko kunokwenzeka ukuba bagwebe nobume bempilo wosana.

Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukwazi nje kuphela zingaphi iiveki ziya uqale ukususa umntwana, kodwa kaninzi kangakanani iza kwenza njalo. Kakade ke, njengoko kukhankanyiwe ngasentla, bonke abantwana esizalweni kwenza inani ezahlukeneyo iintshukumo ngokuxhomekeke iyachatshazelwa yabo, kodwa ubuncinane izihlandlo ezimbalwa ngemini umama kufuneka uzive iintshukumo Palsy.

Ukukhulelwa - ixesha yonwabileyo ebomini lomfazi. Kakade ke, phantse zonke sikanina kunye baby ukufihla lijongene neengxaki ezininzi ezinxulumene nempilo kunye nokukhulelwa, kodwa kuyinto ebaluleke nangakumbi, ngenxa ekupheleni kwale ndlela ilinde usana lwakhe elide-elindelwe!