Yintoni ubulolo, yaye inayiphi indima kubomi babantu?

Man, njengokuba usazi, kukho ehlangeneyo. Lunokubakho kuphela kuluntu. Ngokuba, ukongeza kwiimfuno ezisisiseko nangoko, kufuneka ukuqonda ngakumbi, ukwamkeleka, no nabanye sisiseko kobukho bomntu. Kodwa ebomini bethu kukho ezifana simanga njenge ubulolo. Le meko nemvelo ukuba ngamnye. Yintoni wedwa kwaye inayiphi indima kubomi babantu? Le meko luvavanywa zobulumko, bengqondo, izazi.

Ngoko ke, ukuba lilolo - oku imvakalelo engaphakathi umntu kwimo ukuphazamiseka kothungelwano lwezentlalo ngenxa yezizathu okanye sicinge. Ngokuqhelekileyo le nkqubo umntu wofika abanamava kwaye kungabangela ukudandatheka kunye nezinye izifo zengqondo. Le nkcazo inikeza bulumko.

Ukususela ngenkulungwane XIX wabulela ababhali zothando abaninzi isizungu ezilinyiweyo njengento yeengcungcu, imvakalelo Phakama, enika, abathile aura lomntu. Ubungqina boku - aphorisms malunga lilolo kaGedolim. Umzekelo: "Ubomi - uhambo kungcono ukwenza yedwa" (J. Adan). Ngawo onke amaxesha, ubungqondi kunye nabantu ezibalaseleyo uzive ulilolo. Kodwa kuyaqondakala. Ngenxa yobudenge ukulindela ukuba kwindawo ekufutshane nawe uya ukuqonda, ukuba ngaba ngexesha elifanayo kakhulu kulo kuye ezahlukeneyo.

Yintoni ubulolo, ngokuvumelana bengqondo? Malunga efanayo naleyo zobulumko. Kodwa kwengqondo kubona oko ngenxa yokuba ezinye iingxaki zengqondo. Ekubeni le meko azifane eyenzeka kuphela ngenxa yezizathu yangaphandle. Okokuqala kwaye kwephambili umgangatho ngamnye, inqubo, ulwalamano kunye nabanye. Abanye uyaqaphela uye ikheswa, xa kunokwenzeka ukuba kukho iimpawu autism okanye umothuko kakhulu, apho umntu uphelelwa ukholo ebantwini. Abanye, ngokuchasene noko, liphuhlisa kukoyika elilolo. Kodwa ke, kwakhona, oku kubangelwa ukungakhuseleki, aba bantu ngamandla uzama ukubonisa bona nabanye nemfuneko zabo indispensability.

Yintoni wedwa ukusuka kwindawo yokucingela yokuhlalisana? Iqwalasela lo mhlola njenge abanawo. Umntu ndisiba ngokwasengqondweni, kokukhona ixhomekeke iimvakalelo bubulolo. Phantsi emhlabeni umntu, nokuba hayi " usamkhathazelani "ngayo. Not ukhathazeke kakhulu malunga nalo mba njengoko ezo ezijoliswe ishishini, uxakeke rhoqo into kwaye ukuveza ngokwayo kumsebenzi okanye zabasebenzi.

Angenwe ubulolo, abantu abadala, xa besakuqonda ukuba umnqweno adle, namandla akwanelanga, uqala ukuba kubonakale ukuba sula ebomini. Young nemizwa yena unyuka, njengoko bafuna ukuba eyaziwayo ekuhlaleni, nabanye. Ukuba ke abenzi njalo, ukuba baye ngabodwa self-impiriyali. abahlala City badla unesizungu kunokuba abantu kwiindawo ezisemaphandleni. Isantya wobomi kwimimmandla metropolitan umntu ayakhathaza ngokweemvakalelo, yena usoloko phantsi koxinzelelo, kwaye oku uhlobene ngokusondeleyo ne lilolo.

Yintoni ubulolo, ngokutsho umntu oqhelekileyo, uyaphi kulo? Oku xa ufuna ukuthetha nomntu, kodwa hayi nge nabani. Kukho umnqweno umntu ukuthatha unonophelo hayi malunga nabani na. Umntu ubona udonga ukungaqondani, kodwa akayiqondi ukuba ikhona kuphela ngokubona kwakhe. Simele sikhumbule ukuba yonke into ezandleni zethu. Ukuba umntu unobubele, kufike abantu, evulekileyo, ehlala ezama ukunceda abanye, ubulolo wakhe soze kunifumana. Kuya kusoloko kufuneka.