Xa crazy-in-mthetho inokuba noninakhulu enkulu: 10 Imiqondiso

Wonke umfazi otshatileyo ingxaki omnye - e-mthetho. Nangona ongazithandiyo, kodwa kunokuba ngumzekelo omhle kunye notitshala abantwana bakho. sayo indelelo kunye nokungakwazi ugcine iingcinga zakhe yena kunokuba lisemgangathweni owamkelekileyo, ukugcina umntwana ngaphandle lembandezelo. Okokuqala, khumbula ukuba yaziswa indoda yakho. Zeziphi iimpawu zibonisa yokuba umama wakho mthetho sivana kakuhle kunye nabantwana bakho?

ukudlala amakhadi

Yena mhle yaye uvakalelwa siqinisekile ngokwetafile yekhasino, usoloko uyakumema ukuba umdlalo wakhe veki nganye. Uninazala nayo iphelelwa ingqondo ixesha xa udlala imidlalo ebhodini.

Kodwa naye uyayazi iqela imidlalo, abathanda abantwana bakho, yaye uya kuhlala uze udlale nabo iiyure. Imidlalo ezifana checkers, yebhingo "weMonopoly", kulula ukufunda kwaye zatsala abantwana kunye nabantu abadala. Umakhulu uyazi imithetho ngaphezu kwakhe nabani na. Akunamsebenzi ukuxhasa ubuqhetseba, ngoko abantwana musa none abanye, ahlala adlala engenamkhethe.

Ukuhlala abaphethwe nostalgia

xa ibuya kwakudala ekhayeni lakho, nokuba izithethe zamandulo ukhumbula phantse lonke ixesha, xa mema ukuba atyelele? It aliyi kwamkela naziphi na oomatshini mihla, nangoku ugcina kwi kwigunjana sityhwentywe emanzi kunye ilweyile ezahlukeneyo nomyeni wakho unyanzelisa ukuba ungasenza openers - into engenamsebenzi ekhitshini.

Musa ngoyaba iindlela zayo, kodwa musa ukulibala ukuba uhlala kwinkulungwane xxi. Kunjalo, ugogo yakho uhlawula ingqalelo elikhulu indlela ebonakalayo indlu. Kakade ke, ukuze babingelele onke amancedo impucuko, akukho mfuneko, kodwa akukho sizathu ukuxabana kuninazala, onganqweneli nto imbi kuni, yena kanye, njengoko bathi, indoda enye ukwakheka. Umntwana wakho ifumana takwabipa ezininzi kangaka, ukutya ekhaya-okuphekiweyo kwaye ezinye yabeka izinto umdla, eyenziwe ngezandla zabo, singasathethi ke zokudlala 'ngezinto zakudala ". Kholwani ndim, ukuba akukho embi kangako.

Yena uyazithanda izilwanyana

Ewe, unyoko wakho umthetho iikati amathathu, inja, lokhwalimanzi, i-parrot kunye Umvundla anoboya - kwifama encinane ekhayeni lakhe. Ngalo lonke ixesha ukuza kusityelela kuye, nina akukho lula ukufumana nayiphi na indawo ukuze siphozise ingqondo, kuba omnye curls yezilwanyana esisigxina phezu kwentloko. Ukuba uhlangabezana njani nazo zonke izidalwa? Kwaye cinga nje bayo ixabiso lokutya zonke izilwanyana!

Kodwa inazo izinto ezintle. Xa abantwana ukuya kwiholide uninakhulu, babe bedlala nezilwanyana. Bafunda ukuba athwale uxanduva. Uninazala owonithemba nabo umsebenzi oluxanduva ethile, ukuze abantwana bakho baza kufunda indlela ukuthatha unonophelo ezi ntsana ezinoboya okanye ezinamaphiko.

Waye yengathandi malunga nemeko yakho impilo kunye nempilo abazukulwana

Umakhulu - njengendlela therapist. Nantoni onokuyithetha okanye onokuyenza (kwaye uya) zihlalutywe. Kodwa musa ukumangaliswa, ngokuba ngegazi lakhe, oko kuthiwa umsebenzi wakhe.

Kodwa iya kufika ke imini xa okwishumi elivisayo kuza kufuneka inkxaso kunye nengcebiso, kuba ngelo yobudala kontanga engaphephekiyo, ibiwe sasemini ezigcwele ezinokusongela okanye ukubetha. Apha babushka- "therapist" baya kuba nako ukusebenzisa iitalente zabo, kufanelekile ukuba ukusombulula le meko njengobuchule.

Umnqweno ukuba abazukulwana ngaphezu kwabo bonke

Layinika ube yimpango usana kunye neempahla zabantwana efanelekileyo likaThixo ngemini, xa satshata unyana wakhe. Buphi na ke umlilo emehlweni akho? Yini na ukuba yokukhanya okuvela ulonwabo njengoko unina-lokulindela? Ewe, wena ukulungele ngexesha elifutshane lokucinga malunga uceba ukukhulelwa, kodwa andifuni ukuba balobe izinto zabantwana iminyaka embalwa ngaphambi kokuba kuya kuba ekulungele ukungena imo kway.

Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba sithethe nto ucinga ngayo. Ewe, yena akanamdla ufuna ukuba okanye hayi ezi zinto, yaye uthembisa ukuba ngolona hlobo, ngo-mthetho nemincili kakhulu, ekhangele phambili wemvula lentsapho. Oku kuya kukunika ezahlukeneyo kakhulu zezifundo ngokubanzi ngexesha xa umntu wakho omncinane uya kuzalwa, ezinye apho Asizanga sive nokuva. Ngoko ke thatha nje ezi zinto ngoncumo uzigcinele de ube ukulungele.

emqondweni wakhe abanokudlala ekuthethelelayo

Umakhulu yakho zesikolo endala. Yena Ayithandi ukuchitha imali engaphezulu. Izama ukusebenzisa izaphulelo kunye neebhonasi, uhlale uyazi apho yonke into fresh kakhulu kwaye azibizi. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ukuba uqhuba wena uphambene.

Kwelinye icala, xa abantwana kunye nomakhulu wabo, baya kwazi ukugcina, indlela behlise kakuhle nabathengi phi, kanjani. Ziyakwazi ukufundisa indlela yokusingatha kakuhle imali. Mhlawumbi kuya kukunceda ukulondoloza penny extra, yaye wena?

Bookworm - its not embi kangako

Yena - okanye utitshala, okanye umhlala-phantsi. Uhlala inqaku encwadini, kube ngokuqhubekayo uyamluleka igrama yakho. Ngokuba yakho ku-mthetho ubonakala umhlala grumpy. iminyaka ushiye isikolo emininzi eyadlulayo, akunyanzelekanga ukuba sikhathazeke ngoko balindelwe ekupheleni kwale zesiqingatha sonyaka. Esi simo sengqondo-in-mthetho nje ikudika.

Kodwa into entle kukuba - umkhapheli lobuqu simahla umntwana wakho, onokuwatshintsha umnxeba nangaliphi na ixesha. abantwana bakho naloo makhulu krele ukumelana etafileni phinda ngempumelelo! Kwaye bonke abanye abantwana unomona zonke izakhono unyana okanye intombi yakho, kwaye zonke enkosi kumama wakho umthetho.

"Mama Good" syndrome

Yena ngumama wakhe, ukuba zikroboka endlwini, yaye akazange walatha unyana wakhe omnci, ukuba benze ntoni, nini ukuya kulala, ukwenza abahlobo kunye nabani na. Akukho ulawulo ayizange, wayekho, ngoko ukuthetha, idemokhrasi kunye nenkululeko yokuzikhethela. Yintoni ze nobuganga ukuxoxa nabazali babo kwakuyinto eqhelekileyo kule ntsapho, nako ukuthetha nasiphina isihloko thina. Kodwa awufuni ukuxoxa ngamaxesha zabo nzima e-mthetho, okanye ukuba aphume naye.

iin- Ezo kumlungele na umntwana wakho. Yena uya konwaba gqitha ukuba umfumene ke umhlobo, kodwa uza kusebenzisa ukuba abe ngumlindi. Ukususwa umntwana uxanduva ngqo emxinwa ngokuhamba kwexesha - its not embi kangako, kodwa ukuba inkululeko ezahlukeneyo ukuya kude kakhulu, uya kusoloko kukho ukulungisa nilizise phantsi kolawulo loo meko. Qhubeka ukuqinisa imithetho yayo yokuziphatha, kuba oko kuya kuba kuhle ukuba umntwana wakho. Hi ndlela leyi, uya kukwazi ukuthatha ixesha ngokwabo, okoko nje kuya kuba ecaleni usana lwakho.

baby enkulu

Kuyinto olwahluke, uye izimvo zalo, abathanda inkululeko, kunye nabantu abaninzi ababezalelwe-1960. Zonke kakhulu, e-mthetho uhlala nenqwaba. Ngokoluvo lwakho, ukuba isimahla kakhulu ukukhetha indlela yobomi. Kodwa nantsi eyona nyaniso: noxolo nothando - umba wokuba bonke zibonwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Wena okunene wamangaliswa ukuba umyeni wakho ended up yalwa umsebenzi onesidima, kungekhona umsebenzi kuqhankqalazo anti-imfazwe?

Eyona nto inkulu kukuba unembali enkulu ukuba uxelele abantwana. Ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna ukudlala igubu njengoko ikuba, uninazala bekuya kuba fan yakhe enkulu. Kuya kusoloko cala kwaye yena uya kukuxhasa, akunamsebenzi nokuba yintoni kid yakho ufuna ukuhlola.

aphelele-mthetho

Mhlawumbi ngumama wakho mthetho - enguzwilakhe, kodwa musa ukulibala ukuba ukhule ndabaphakamisa indoda yakho. Kodwa Ngethamsanqa kuwe, izakhono zakhe lugqithiselwa (ngendlela elungileyo) kid yakho. Ngokubanzi kwi-mthetho kunokuba iqabane lakho isohlwayo xa kufikwa ukukhulisa umntwana, Kakade ke, ukuba usivumele kuye. Ngubani na owaziyo, ungase uthabathe ezinye izakhono zakhe kunye nomdla.