Xa amazinyo yokuqala ukuvela abantwana, kunye nokuququzelela njani mlilo wabo?

Akukho namnye udokotela akaphenduli ngokuchanekileyo lo mbuzo: "Xa kukho kwamazinyo kuqala ? Babies" Ngapha koko, le yinkqubo ngamnye. bavamise ukuqala qhuma phakathi kweminyaka iinyanga-4 ukuya kwi-10. Kodwa ukuba umntwana kwiinyanga 10 ukuba azikho - oko akuyi ngezifo, ukuba kubhaliwe ukuphuhlisa kakuhle, iyasebenza ochwayithileyo. Amazinyo umntwana akhiwa esizalweni, ukuze ukuba luqale zabo, ukuba qiniseka ukuba baphume. Ukuba umntwana wakho kunyaka ubudala, yaye yena engenamazinyo, kufuneka udibane nogqirha. dubulo zasemva kwexesha kuba ngenxa ntshikilelo ukubandezeleka, isifo kakhulu esosulelayo, yamathambo, izifo pathways, ukungondleki, njl Zalisa engekho amazinyo - ngesiphumo izifo yemfuza ezimbi kuphuhliso.

Xa kukho amazinyo wokuqala umntwana, yintoni iimpawu zibonisa ukuba?

Abanye abantwana bagula inkqubo lwaba neengxakana Kuyinto elula ngaphandle abafumana izigulo. Abanye, ngokuchasene noko, ukunikezela kwiinkathazo kubazali babo, ngubani ningaqondi kutheni mixture ekhala abangenazigqibo. Kuxhomekeka ilifa yemfuza, uvakalelo iintlungu, kwaye iimpawu yokwakheka yento ephilayo. Xa kukho amazinyo wokuqala umntwana, ungaqaphela iimpawu omnye okanye ngaphezulu. Kodwa khumbula ukuba asingabo bonke abantwana kusabela ngokulinganayo kule senzeko.

Njani lwaba neengxakana abantwana? ubungqina

• Kalanga, iintsini ebomvu.
• Pipsqueak uyala ukuba adle. Ukuba uthe esifubeni, ngoko akukho uncancisa.
• Ubushushu.
• ukungakwazi ukuzibamba ngokwangasese.
• ukuphazamiseka kokulala.
• Ububomvu emzimbeni.
• izinkcwe maz '.
• Tearfulness.
• Kid osusa emlonyeni wakhe zonke izinto eziqinileyo, etyisa kubo.
• Ixhala.

Ukuba umntwana zonke okanye ezinye zezi mpawu, ngoko ingqalelo uhlobo ekubonakalisweni zabo. Ukuba ubushushu ngasentla 37,5º, kubuhlungu sorhudo kunye nokugabha, qiniseka ukuba kubiza ugqirha ekhaya. Ezi mpawu asenokubonisa ukuba kukho usulelo emzimbeni, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba lisale.

Yintoni enokunceda abazali xa umntwana iinkathazo ezingenakunqandwa zamazinyo?

Ukuba uphawula ukuba umntwana wakho usoloko amangomso into emlonyeni wakhe, luvo, unako lula i Zubikov iinkathazo ezingenakunqandwa zamazinyo kuyo.

• Thenga le ekhemesti umsesane ekhethekileyo exabe, ezele gel. Phambi kokuba walinika umntwana, bathi efrijini. Umkhuhlane iya kudala isiphumo iintlungu neentsini adumbileyo kwabanye ziyayeka ixesha ukuphazamisa imvuthuluka.
• Abanye abantwana ungathanda ukuba ndimanyise uqweqwe isonka, kodwa kulo mzekelo, lumka, qiniseka ukuba umntwana akafuni yayiminxa.
• A nempembelelo entle uzole ube ngamafutha eyenzelwe ngokukodwa ekunciphiseni ukubandezeleka ezifunyanwa umntwana xa kuvela amazinyo kuqala.
• Gentle iintsini umphululela kwakhona kunceda dubulo (iminwe ezicocekileyo).
• Zama ukumnika ingqalelo engakumbi. Ukwanga, pat, ukuba umntwana ebeleni, inkoliso balifake esifubeni sakhe.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba iminyaka emithathu amazinyo ubisi lomntwana adlabhuke bonke mali lamaqhosha mabini. Kodwa kakhulu ndininikile, njengoko umthetho, kuphela 8-10 yokuqala. Nceda umntwana wakho ukuba eli xesha ngaphantsi buhlungu, zikungqinge nto uthando nenkathalo kuye kuni oku kuya kuba lula kakhulu!