Ukuphelela: ngubani na?

Ukuphelela: igama elithi

Abanye abantu bayabuza: ukugqibelela - ngubani na le nto? Ukuze wenze oku, umele ufumanise omnye ingqiqo: (. Nemfezeko French - nemfezeko) - Ukufuna owadalwa akhuliswe bume esiba umnqweno ukugqwesa yabantu zonke izenzo zakhe kunye nokuziphatha. Ngokufanelekileyo, siphelele - umntu na perfektsiionizm yinqobo kuye. Uyohlwaywa ngabo yethuba kunye nemfuneko ukugqibelela kwindawo yokuqala ngokunxulumene kuye. iisayikholojisti abaninzi, Noko ke, bakholelwa ukuba ukugqibelela - alanele, kodwa ingxaki sina ukuba kudala phantsi ukuzithemba bomntu, kwakunye nefuthe elibi kwindlela ekuqhutywa ngayo. Olwela akaboni i "kuthetha yegolide", uye ukuzibaxa izinto ezimbini kuphela: ezimbi yaye okona kulungileyo - bawo. Yena akanako ukubona zingwevu, kukho emnyama namhlophe kuye. Ngokuba kuye kukho kuphela yonke "bumnandi" yaye "enhle" hayi "bumnandi" Lena efanelekileyo. Ngamanye amazwi, ufuna ukwenza yonke into ngokugqibeleleyo, ngcono kunabanye, okanye ungenzi nto konke konke, yaye bathembele ngokupheleleyo. Uthe isicelo kubuthathaka uncedo.

Siphelele - ngubani na?

Ingaba umntu othe mhlawumbi ufuna lutho ukuphumeza kunokuba ukuphumeza into ngokupheleleyo. Abo iingcinga zabo wabeka usukelo ngenzala phezulu kuye. Phutha avelana izimvo zoluntu. bemchukumisa yabo ukugxekwa. Phutha badla ukufihla iintsilelo zabo kwabanye. Bayoyika ukuba bazilahle ubuthathaka babo. Ngoko ke, benza yonke into ixhomekeka kuzo ukuba egqibeleleyo. Ukusilela okanye ukusilela ubonisa ukuba konakele ngokwabo. Ngenxa yoko, baziva engento, kwaye ukuzithemba kwabo tsakisi.

Indlela ukujonga ubungakanani apho ukusebenzisa igama elithi "ukugqibelela"? Ngubani na, nokuba banokuyazi njani ngayo?

1) Nawe banoxanduva kakhulu, besoyika ukuba wenze impazamo, wena ingqalelo kakhulu iinkcukacha.

2) Ngaba ufuna ukwenza yonke into kangangoko kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kuhle.

3) uchitha ixesha elininzi ekuphuculeni nantoni na.

4) Umisela iinjongo elililo, kodwa yonke enye into ayikho kunikholekisa.

5) Wena umgxeki ngokuqatha ngokwakhe.

6) Nina ke kabuhlungu basabela njani ukugxeka abanye.

7) Uya kusoloko kumela njongo, milestones awunayo intsingiselo kuwe.

Kuthekani ukuba ukuphelela akusoloko usekela? Khawucinge nje ukuba ihlabathi ngaphandle imisebenzi emikhulu uncwadi zehlabathi, ukupeyinta, izakhiwo, ngaphandle abaqambi inkulu ngokubalulekileyo? Makhe sijonge kuyo ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Siphelele - ngubani na? Le ndoda ubuchule, uMdali, uMdali. YoMdali nje ukugqibelela, okanye umbhali qamba umsebenzi wakhe, unako izakunikezela kwaye bathi, ukubhala phezu itrayi yokuqala, 'ukuza njalo, "okanye" entle nje. " Ngaba xa siyakwazi ukufunda "Faust", "Notre Dame", ukuba Goethe kunye Hugo kuba ukuphelela babeza? Ngaba sicamngca Mona Lisa, kwaye ngoku ukuba da Vinci ange wagqiba ukuzisa bafezeke umfanekiso ngentla ehleka ladies?

Singe singamnikelanga weva "Four Seasons" yi Vivaldi waba ekudlaleni ivayolin wathi: ". Andisayi kusebenza umntu, aze ngokunjalo ke eqhelekileyo" Ngoko ke, ukufuna ukuphelela elungileyo kuphela kwezinye iindawo ebomini bethu ekufuneka ngokwenene ngumnqweno apho balangazelela. Noko ke, ukuze kufikelelwe imilinganiselo ayikho lula kubomi bemihla ngemihla, kuba uluntu apho sihlala kude zimbi. Ngoko ukuba okanye hayi ukuzondla ukukhohlisa ngamampunge? Kufuneka nje ukuba siphile size sinandiphe yonke into encinane?