Ukucwaswa kwabasetyhini kwindawo yokusebenzela

Iinkokeli ezininzi zithetha ukuba imbono "yokucwaswa ngokwesondo" ayisebenzisi kwimibutho yabo, kwaye ngokubanzi kwihlabathi lanamhlanje lidlulileyo. Makhe sibone indlela efanelekileyo ngayo le meko namhlanje nokuba ngaba kukho ukucalulwa kwabasetyhini kwikhondo lama-21.

Akukho mfihlo yokuba kuqala bonke abaviwa abanomdla kwizakhono zakhe nolwazi kwindawo ethile, kodwa malunga nokuba khona kwabantwana abancinane, isimo, iminyaka kunye nezinye izinto. Enyanisweni, uninzi lwabaphathi, ukuba kukho ukhetho phakathi kwowesifazane onomgangatho ophezulu weemfundo, kodwa ngubani onentsapho kunye nomntwana omncinci, kunye nomntu ongeyena owaziyo entsimini, kodwa engathwali mthwalo, uya kukhetha indoda. Emva koko, uya kukwazi ukuhlala emsebenzini, ukuqinisekisa ukuvelisa okuphezulu, njengoko akayi kuphazamiseka yiengxaki zakhe, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu, akayi kuba nekhefu lokugula ukuze anakekele umntwana. Kule meko, kunzima ukubonakalisa ukungabikho kwale nkalo kubandlulululwa kwabasetyhini.

Ngokweendlela ezingaqhelekanga eziqhelekileyo, umfazi omhle omncinci kulula ukufumana umsebenzi kunowesifazane onamava. Emva koko, abaninzi abantu bakholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba abantu abancinci yonke indawo bayabiza, ngakumbi kubasetyhini abanomdla obonakalayo. Yaye ukuba sibheka imeko ngendlela engqiqweni, ngaba ngabafundi abancinane abanamava okanye iingcali bafumana njani ukufumana umsebenzi omhle, ohlawula phezulu ngaphandle kweengxaki ezikhethekileyo ? Nantsi omnye umzekelo wendlela ulwaphulo-mthetho lusebenza ngayo kwiimarike zabasebenzi.

Ngokwezibalo, kunzima ukufumana umsebenzi wabasetyhini abasandul 'ukutshata kwaye abazange bafumane abantwana, oomama abangatshatanga okanye abafazi abahlukanisile nabantwana abangaphezu kweebini. Kukholelwa ukuba bonke banikela ixesha elikhululekileyo kwiingxaki zomntu, kwaye kumsebenzi onjalo abafazi abavelisi kakhulu. Amantombazana amancinci ayakufumana kunzima ukuphumelela ukuthembela kolawulo, kuba umntu omdala usemncinci ofuna ukuzonwabisa kunye nemibhiyozo, kwaye umntu onjalo akakwazi ukucombulula ixesha elide lokusebenza.

Okumangalisayo kukuba, kodwa abafazi abaqhawulekileyo abangenawo abantwana bayinyaniso yendalo. Amantombazana anjalo atyathwa ngokuzonwabisa okukhulu, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngezinga lekhono elifunekayo. Kule meko, le meko ichazwa ngokucacileyo ukusuka kwinqanaba leengqondo. Emva koko, umfazi oqhawule umtshato uhlala enesizungu kwaye engakhuselekanga, ngoko ke, uya kuzama ukuzibonakalisa kwindawo yokusebenzela, ukuze agweme ukuxothwa kwangaphambili. Umqeshwa onjalo unokuphucula kakhulu ukusebenza. Kulo mzekelo, unokuqonda ukuba ukucalucalukiswa kwabasetyhini kusekelwe kubudala kunye nemo.

Ukongezelela, abaqeshi banamhlanje baye bazisa indlela entsha. Ukuze baququzelele ubomi babo, baqalisa isigatya esithile kwisivumelwano somsebenzi. Ngokwale mhlathi, intombazana ayinalo ilungelo lokutshata okanye ukuzala abantwana ngexesha lesivumelwano. Akuqondakali kwengqondo - kwilizwe lentando yesininzi, ukulinganiselwa kwamalungelo amabhinqa. Kwaye emva koko kunokuthiwa akukho calulo kumabhinqa?

Kwaye malunga nombono wabaphathi ukuba indoda ihlangabezana kakuhle nangayiphi na imisebenzi? Ewe, amadoda ethu angenza nantoni na, kwaye yinto enhle. Kodwa elinye ibhinqa elinemfundo ephakamileyo kunye namava amava maxa wambi ibonisa ukuba luncedo kakhulu kumashishini. Kukho neemeko apho umgqatswa wesigqatshana samanqatshelwe kuphela ngenxa yokuba kuninzi a mabhinqa kwiqela, ngoko kulungele ukuhlalutya le nkampani enobubele nomntu.

Kukho konke oku ngasentla, kunokugqitywa ukuba ukucalulwa kwabasetyhini kubakho. Le ngxaki yayikho ngexesha lonke. Kwixesha elide, isiqingatha sesibini sabantu silwa ngamandla ngamalungelo abo, ngokulingana kwezesondo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho utshintsho olukhulu kuluntu lwangoku, kodwa luhlala luya kutshintshwa kwaye luyiswe.