"Ubizwa uyise": ilizwi. KuYise engutitshala

Namhlanje imboniselo engathandi iqhubeka kumabali ngamadoda. Pope ithwala inqwelo kunye nomntwana, intombazana encinane iyabaleka ukuhlangabezana Pope, uYise nonyana ukuya kwindlela ngokobuhlanga ibhayisekile. Lithamsanqa ukuba ezi ooyise akho-! Nangona ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala i isengozini.

ingaba eziphilayo kubalulekile?

Izichazi emi ngelithi uyise - indoda ngokunxulumene abantwana babo. Noko ke, kukho usoloko umntu lowo utata wabantwana bakho? Lunikezelo izinto eziphilayo akuthethi umgangatho ngutata.

uyise Real - isikakhulu omthandayo, umhlobo abadala kunye nomcebisi. Yena na kuzo zonke iimeko. Yokuba naliphi na umzuzu ukulungele ukuze usibeke isandla. Ngenxa yoko, ngokwale ngqiqo Pope msebenzi maxa wambi ukwenza umkhuluwa, utatomkhulu, malume, wamema uyise. Igama elithi "ngokuba" uthetha ukuba ngokwayo. Uyise wabizwa. Okanye wabiza uyise. Asinto le Pope zemfuza, kodwa ludlala indima ebalulekileyo lokuqulunqa nokuphuhlisa losapho. Maxa wambi kuba bhetele ngakumbi eziphilayo, uyakuthanda, usikhathalele, kwaye sibonelela intsapho okhokelwa uyise ebizwa. Intsingiselo yegama elithi "uyise" iphathwa kangaka kakuhle kakhulu.

uYise ubizo

Umzali ngamnye unoxanduva kwindawo ethile yemfundo. Umama - oko ngemihla, utata - iholide. Ukuze uphuhliso evumelanayo umntwana kuyimfuneko kunye zeveki, nangeeholide.

ngutata Active ube njengendoda eyomeleleyo, nto kubalulekile ukuba abantwana amadoda namabhinqa.

• Abafana, oku Intshayelelo kuluntu eyindoda, ukuqaliswa "ishishini zomntu", ngumzekelo omhle, Ukufunda izinto kunye notyekelo kayise.
• Kuba amantombazana ukuba umgangatho babantu, umzekelo zengqondo eyindoda malunga abafazi, ukukhuselwa.

Kusondezwa yona ukuba abantwana umbono wabo ihlabathi, ngaphandle imazi. Kwaye akukho nto abathatha kule ndima - umgcini, uyise, umkhuluwa - kokufundiswa kwamadoda kuthetha.

UTata unako ukwenza yonke into ...

Kuphela unina akakwazi kuvunywa le ngoma labantwana. Kwaye yiloo inyaniso. Kuphosakele ukucinga ukuba uyise kuphela emva kweminyaka emihlanu. Unxibelelwano kunye naye wazalelwa nkqu Esibelekweni. Emva kokuba ukuzalwa daddy umntwana uyakwazi ukwenza izinto ezifanayo umama wam, ukongeza lokuncancisa. Ngubani wathi uyise akazange akwazi ukutshintsha ilweyile okanye ukukhwela epakini buyo? Zivuthulule umntwana, funda incwadi, bacule ingoma? Vumela le ngoma ayikho lullaby sikama, kunye ingoma "sawo", kodwa kuya kuba ukhathalelo ubawo wam umntwana, leyo inqubo yokukhula kunye nophuhliso lo mntwana uza kujika bekukhulisa kutata.

"I-Ministry of Foreign Affairs"

Ukuba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni usapho nje ilizwe elincinane, unina - yiyo Ministry of the Interior. Oku kucwangcisa i yemihla ngemihla, ukutya kunye namasiko ehlabathini ezonka.

Pope - kuba iSebe leMicimbi Foreign. Lunoxanduva lonxibelelwano kwihlabathi ngaphandle, kuzisa umntwana ehlabathini, ukunceda ukuba uhambe ngaphandle kwesangqa usapho. Kuzo zonke iimeko ezijoliswe ngenxa kayise - umcebisi ibalulekileyo: ukubaluleka ngutata esebenzayo zibalulekile!

Utata wada edlala eyahlukileyo nabantwana ngaphezu nomama wam. Kulo mdlalo yena omnye aphezulu hayi ngumzali, iyasebenza ngakumbi, yongezwe umoya lo mdlalo. abantwana bakhule up badla ukukhumbula amaxesha zonxibelelwano kunye upopu ngaphezu iiklasi kunye nomama wakhe. Ngenxa yokuba imidlalo noyise yam izele neemvakalelo eziqaqambileyo okuvelayo ixesha elide.

Lo tata negalelo kulwazi ebhegini kakhulu ehlabathini, ngokusebenzayo uphuhliso lengqondo, kokuba idubule ubuchule kunye nomfanekiso- ngqondweni.

Exemplar

Uyise, njengoko utitshala, kufuneka ihlangane iimeko ezithile kwaye ube ngumzekelo omhle umntwana. Njengoko yaziwa, kukho uqeqesho olusebenzayo kunye kwisixando sokwenziwa. Eyokuqala ibandakanya kwizenzo, okwesibini kubonisa indlela yokuziphatha kwabo. inkxaso UMSI esebenzayo, zongeza kuyo.

Kule nkalo ibe ngumzekelo, kakade, waza wabiza uyise. Intsingiselo yegama elithi "isampuli" ithetha ongumzekelo omhle.

Umzekelo, utitshala ayiphumelelanga uya kuba nguyise, owathi, lokugoqa nyana ukudlala imidlalo yekhompyutha, ayidlalileyo kubo emehlweni umntwana.

Ekuqaleni kubonakala abantwana daddy ungenza nganto. Sikhule kunye ukubona umahluko phakathi kwamagama kunye nezenzo, abafana bedanile, uyise lulahlekelwa sisidima. Oku kubonakaliswa ukuba abantwana bakhule ngaphandle igunya kayise phezulu, ezisengozini bazikhethe, nantlonelo abantu abadala, kwaye ngaphezu koko - nezikreqo nkqu mthetho.

Sons ngokukhawuleza basebenzise ipateni kayise yokuziphatha. Xa amakhwenkwe, ebonisa tinyiketela kakhulu kuyise, bekhuphela ukuziphatha uyakwazi ukuthatha kwiifom ezininzi kakhulu. Ukuya yokuba abantwana abaselula akhulule iminqwazi zabo esitratweni ngoFebruwari kuneqabaka kuba uTata hatless. Uze umgwebele itakane kuba kuthetha ukuba bamazi ilungelo ukuxelisa uyise. utata Kulungile ukuthwala umnqwazi.

Intombi yam ayifuni sixelise Pope, kodwa zisekelwe yokuziphatha kabawo yeyona izimvo zabantu kweli hlabathi, wongezelela umfanekiso "ekunene" umntu esebenzisa le ngqwalasela kamva ebomini abadala. Xa intombazana yaphakamisa ubawo onesidima, umyeni wakhe, iza kuba yinto kukhumbuza upopu.

isakhiwo amandla

Ukuba imfundo lukanina ngokweemvakalelo ngakumbi, oko mayibhekiswe inkqubo, ngoko UTata ngakumbi ihlupha, siyavakala kwaye ngokwesiseko ngqo kwi isiphumo.

Utata Nantso ilizwi, kwaye maxa wambi nkqu khangela uqeqesho. UTata ngqongqo ngakumbi, kuba lingaphantsi bangenwe iimvakalelo. Pope ngenkani kunye ngaphantsi bhetyebhetye ngaphezu unina. Kwiintsapho ezininzi, upopu na igunya ukohlwaya kwaye kudla enegunya ngaphezu unina. Kodwa oomama kufuneka akakhutyekiswa, ngenxa yokuba, sinegunya elikhulu, uyise ze ithwale kakhulu uxanduva. I Pope inxulunyaniswa amandla negunya, nokuba upopu, bezise umntwana ehlabathini, yenzelwe ukumkhusela kweli hlabathi ngokwalo.

Umntwana, esimaziyo thina uyise - umntu omthandayo uya ndixelele ngayo iingxaki kunye naboni. UYise bafundisa boyise ukoyika, ukufikelela kwifomu efunekayo elibonakalayo, uyibophelele kwiqhina uze ubeke iyunithi ukuthatha ikarati. Ngoko ke nakuyiphi na imeko ukuba akayi kuvumela besihleka okanye amabinzana ehlazweni abhekiswe umntwana. Nokudelela kungaba ngunobangela phantsi ukuzithemba, kunye nokuphelisa ukusuka uyise sana, ukuvela nzima ngakumbi ukuba babelane iingxaki.

UMkroli umama happy

Bathi le nto zintle utata ukunika abantwana babo - ukuthanda umama wabo. Mhlawumbi akavumelani, ngokuba uthando yomfazi kuthetha ukubandakanyeka entsatsheni, sinomnqweno kwaye sijonge iindlela ukuze enzelelele umsebenzi onzima ngokufundisa kwisizukulwana esilandelayo. Kwaye akukho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba unina omzalayo uthanda uyise nokuba ebizwa - igama elithi "uthando" akatshintshi.