Ubaba emva 60: zonke "nezimbi" kunye "bawo"

Ubaba emva kweminyaka engama-60 kwezi ntsuku uya kuya kuxhaphaka kakhulu. Kwaye liya ukutshintsha ubuso entsapho. Ukuba abantu abaselula ngaphambili wayefuna ukufumana ilungelo utshatile emva kweminyaka engama-20, abantu abaninzi ngoku ukwakheka wama- i "iseli zoluntu" ngomhla oya kulandela kamva. Ukuba ngaphambili ubudala uyise wakhangela engenangqondo kancinane xa kuthelekiswa ne "noogxa 'zabo iinkomfa zabazali nootitshala, kodwa ngoku lo enzonzobileni angabekwa ngaphezulu. Abantu icebo lokuba sibe ooyise emva kweminyaka engama-60, abe inani iingenelo. Baye uzinzo kwezemali, amava atyebileyo kwaye ixesha elininzi free. Akukho mathandabuzo ukuba iya kuba abazali elungileyo. Noko ke, kukho kolu meko kunye neengxaki, uninzi lwazo kuthathwa ingxaki kwimpilo yenzala.

lokuzala

Ngokungafaniyo abafazi, uphelelwa ngamandla ukukwazi kumitha emva kweminyaka 45-48, amadoda abonisa nokuphungulwa ukuchuma ngokuthe ngcembe. Ngokomzekelo, phakathi kweminyaka eli-41 ukuya 45 ukuchuma ezilahlekileyo ngepesenti 7 kuphela. Emva kokuba le ntlokoma yoba ngcwele yegolide ezala oyindoda bawayo ngokukhawuleza. Oku kubangela inkxalabo abantu siceba ukuba oobawo kwi ubomi icandelo kamva. Studies kwicandelo nomchamo ngo-2011, abonisa ukuba izifo yenkqubo genitourinary, ingozi leyo kwanda ubudala, kungakhokelela ekubeni isisu kwi sibini.

Impilo emzimbeni yosana olungekazalwa

Ecinga siyinzala, amadoda ubudala emngciphekweni impilo yabantwana babo olungekazalwa. Izazinzulu ziye zabonisa ukuba yobudala kube nefuthe ukukhula komntwana esibelekweni. Ngenxa yoko, xa kuthelekiswa nonyaka-45 ubudala, 48 ekhulwini zooyise oneminyaka engama-60 ubudala nayo ingxaki yenzala ifile emva kwexesha. Le ngxelo yabangela magazini "Health vavanuna va", ibonisa ukuba ezinye iingxaki: umngcipheko enobunzima obuncinane, ukuzalwa ngaphambi kwexesha, kwakunye ukwehlisa yobudala sokukhulelwa yosana olungekazalwa (prematurity).

zempilo yengqondo

Abantwana abazelwe ooyihlo abaneminyaka, sengozini enkulu yokuba ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Ngo September 2008, i-AMA Psychiatry Journal wakhululwa inqaku malunga nokwenzeka kuphuhliso eguquguqukayo ebantwaneni, onabazali amadoda amadala ngaphezu kweminyaka engama-55. Kwiminyaka emibini ngaphambili, omnye inqaku umdla yapapashwa uhlelo enye, ukusuka apho kulandela ukuba kwezinye iimeko umngcipheko wenzala mpilweni bavelise yaye umntu eliqina. Ngoko ke, kwiminyaka umntu omdala kwama-40 banda izihlandlo 6 zinako ukuba uyise womntwana Autism.

Uphando lubonisa ukuba umngcipheko kabini rhoqo emva kweminyaka elishumi. Ngoko ke, ukuba ngaba uceba ukuqala nzulu inzala kwizigaba kamva wobomi, kufuneka silindele zonke iziphumo ezinokubakho. Ethelekiswa noontanga babo, abantu bazalwa kooyise abadala ukubonisa ipesenti ephezulu lamatyala ngesifo sengqondo, kwakunye ephantsi amandla engqondo. Kubonakala ukuba indalo wenza konke okusemandleni alo umvuzo ophile kuphela abantu abatsha.

uqeqesho

Sasidla ngokuthetha malunga neengxaki, bafumana ukuba nikhule kuko. Noko ke, kule ngutata kade zinezibonelelo ezahluke. abantu abadala ziyakwazi ukumelana kakhulu, bona babe isigama, amava ubomi obulungileyo kunye nobulumko. Bayavuya ukuncokola nabantwana babo, baze badlale indima ebonakalayo ekukhuleni kwabo. Ayayiqonda neziyolo ngabazali kunye nenzala yabo ukusebenzisa ixesha lakhe nanceba. iingcali zonyango bathi kwinqanaba nonyamezelo ukwanda amiliswe umdlalo ngedrophu kancinane izinga testosterone emzimbeni iinkunzi (malunga 1 ekhulwini ngalinye zikhukula ngonyaka ngamnye wobomi).

Noko ke, maxa, awela ukudangala. La madoda baqonde ukuba xa itakane eya esikolweni okanye ukuya ekholejini, baya kuba mdala kakhulu ukuba kunikwe umntwana ingqalelo ngenxa. Kodwa ke yokuqaphela buhlungu kuneengenelo ezithile. Amaqhawe ethu khange sizilibazise iinzame okanye ixesha ukufumana umntwana wakho ukuba ukudlulisa ulwazi ngokupheleleyo kunye namava.