Secrets wamaphupha; amaphupha oko guy othanda

Ezinye amaphupha kwanzima nokunithela gqabagqaba oku, kodwa, xa ucinga ngayo ngenyameko yonke into eyenzeka ienjini yakho, ungakwazi "ukubamba" eminye imiqathango ubomi benene.

abasisigxina uthando lonke ixesha bakhathazeka. Kwaye ngoko ke umbuzo wokuba yintoni a guy iphupha, ngubani Ndiyakuthanda wacela phantse onke amantombazana, amantombazana kunye namabhinqa. A impendulo ecacileyo lo mbuzo kakhulu yingxaki, njengoko unako kuchaphazela eziliqela. Enye ingcamango echaza into mfo iphupha oyithandayo, uthi: intombazana ngokwakhe rhoqo kakhulu ucinga ngayo, kunye neengcinga zokwenene kunye neemvakalelo malugxininiswe bubuthongo. Ngapha koko, ephupheni sibona sifuna, akunjalo? Apho, kule nyaniso yesibini, ngaba uyamgona kuye, ndamanga, ukubamba ngezandla ... Kwiphupha kokuba iminqweno yakho kakhulu mfihlakalo. Kwaye uvuke, uye uqalise ukucinga ngalo eli phupha, ukuchitha ixesha free ukucinga ngendlela into waphupha it. Ezi zibona ngakumbi ilungiswe kuwe umfanekiso mntu bafuna kuwe, uze emva koko iqala eliphupha kuni rhoqo engakumbi.

Kukho enye ingcaciso ngakumbi oko mfo iphupha othanda. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba loo maphupha kunokuba ngenxa yokuba ube wena ucinga ngalo mntu bafuna, kwaye ngawe. Ukuze ufumanise ukuba yinyaniso na okanye hayi, umntu buza kuphela mfo ngokwakhe, kodwa ngenxa ezininzi kunzima ukwenza. Ukumisa la maphupha, kufuneka nje ukuba bachithe kunye into lalingazi sakhe kangangexesha elithile. Kuhlangana naye (ukuba sele awusele wenze oko), kwaye ke ngoko kusenokwenzeka ukuba uza kuyeka iphupho. Kwaye kutheni la maphupha, ukuba unxibelelwano wakho uya kuba real - oko kulungileyo kakhulu, akunjalo?

Kwezinye iimeko, ingcaciso yoko lo mfo iphupha othanda kungekhona nje kamnandi njengoko engaphambili. Lo isenokuba babizwa ngokuba "namaphupha", nto leyo tufwile ukuba na isiganeko, kwaye mhlawumbi ngeengozi yakho oyithandayo. Ngoko ke kwezinye iimeko ufuna ukumamela ngamaphupha. Kungcono ngabandwendwisi, njengoko batshovo.

Kukho ezinye iinguqulelo, okanye kunoko, "ishedyuli." Sazo santlandlolo Izizathu eyaba guy othandwayo, wacacisa, kuxhomekeke xa ulele (kodwa inyaniso le "shedyuli" isekhona umbuzo enkulu). Ngoko ke, ukuba oko kwenzeka ngobusuku ngoMvulo ukuya ngoLwesibini, ngoko icebisa ukuba waphupha ezinengxaki imvakalelo intlonelo enzulu. Ukuba umfana lowo kufana, waphupha ngobusuku ukususela ngoLwesibini ukuya ngoLwesithathu, oko kuthetha ukuba ucinga ngawe, ukuba ukususela ngoLwesithathu ngoLwesine, ngoko ke, nawe, eza ebuthongweni bakhe. Ukuba mfo uphupha ngoLwesine, ngoko unga ukuba kwavuyiswana - uwine intliziyo yakhe, ukuba ngoLwesihlanu - ngoko wenza naye azive imvakalelo kangako nekhwele. Sleep ozithandayo ngoMgqibelo uthi umntu phezu kwakho ngenxa into buhlungu, yaye ukususela ngeCawa ukuya Mvulo - ukuba into yokuba amaphupha akho amaphupha zentlanganiso nawe.

Amaphupha - eliyimfihlakalo yaye ayilungiseki imihlaba sezingqondweni yethu, nto leyo ukutyhila elizayo ukukhumbula elidlulileyo, okanye iyalele ukuba indlela elungileyo langoku, kwaye eyona nto ibalulekileyo apha - ukufunda ukubaqonda.