Operation "ngokutsha": indlela ukutshintsha wena?

Kuyenzeka ukuba umntu kunjalo udiniwe isingqisho okanye umgangatho wobomi bakhe, uqala ukuba utshintshe zonke kuyo. A ndlela phezulu le ngxaki, yonke into uhlala iindawo ezifanayo, nokuphucula iziphumo iinzame lungenzeki. Sona kanye ubomi utshintshe nzima. Ngale ndlela le ngxaki, loo mntu uza kujongana enye ingxaki, kwaye umbuzo olandelayo ziza kubakho: "indlela ukutshintsha ihlabathi jikelele?". Ngokucacileyo, oku kwenziwa.

Inye kuphela indlela isa umntu phezu kwalo kuya utshintsho esemgangathweni ubomi. Luquka mbuzo: indlela ukutshintsha wena?

Lo mbuzo kakhulu kunzima: kutheni?

Babuza ukutshintsha, kufuneka uqonde ukuba yintoni na ekufuneka. Ngaphandle ngendlela efanelekileyo, akukho ngxaki ukuba kusonjululwe kwi-100%. Ngoko ke, kufuneka uzibuze: kutheni ndifuna utshintsho? Oku banakho ukuba kulandelwe transfer imikhwa emibi, xa wakhuza edadayo kwimemori ukuba efunyenwe kwabanye abantu, okanye mhlawumbi khumbula iimeko apho balahlekelwe into ngenxa yeempawu zazo zobuqu.

Ukunganeliseki - umthombo hayi kuphela kwizakhiwo, kodwa isitshixo ekusombululeni ingxaki. Ukoyika ukuphinda iimpazamo akayi kunivumela umva kurhulumente elidlulileyo, kwaye ke ngoko, oko kuya kubeka isiseko utshintsho qualitative. Khumbula ukusilela kwakho ukuqonda ezona amathamsanqa kwinqanaba elilandelayo yobomi.

nokubonakaliswa kwentando

Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukutshintsha indlela ngokwabo ngenxa kulungileyo, ngoko mhlawumbi sele usaziwa nesibakala sokuba le "ingqeqesho". Ngoko ke akwenzeki ngaphandle kwemvume yaloo mntu ubonisa ukuba enze isenzo.

Not nakuzibamba - oko kuthetha ukuba bakwazi ukulungisa ngokwayo. Le umzuzu ebaluleke kakhulu ngokutsha ubuntu, ngenxa yokuba, hayi kaloku kwavela ukuthanda ithemba utshintsho into ngamampunge ngaphandle lo mlinganiswa imikhwa ukutshintsha wena - nje iphupha.

Ukuphuhlisa lo myolelo, unga zama oku kulandelayo:

• Dala kuba baziqwebela imithetho embalwa imihla (yiya kulala ngexesha elithile ukulala, ukusebenza ixesha ukwenza imithambo). Yintoni na imithetho - akunamsebenzi, njengoko zithotyelwe osikiweyo.
• Ukufezekisa into: kufuneka ibe kujoliswe zifikeleleke, kodwa ufuna inkcitho amandla.

Ukuba umkhuba ndlela ke uya kutshintsha kuya kuba lula kakhulu.

Nokulahla nemikhwa

Into yokuqala ethi qatha xa ucinga ukutshintsha indlela - imikhwa. Kufuneka ukuba balahle phantse yonke imikhwa, ngaphandle kwabo kuhamba egameni lakho. Ngokomzekelo, kutheni uhambe ngendlela efanayo yonke imihla? Guqula iindlela zakho, iindlela, abantu Cinga nabo yonke imihla. Khuphela ngaphandle zonke i unlockable amatsha kunye namadala kunye.

Xa oku remade ngokwayo kwenye imodeli yokuziphatha, eya kuqhubeka kwinyathelo elilandelayo.

imigomo Ukutshintsha

Ukuba unayo injongo enye enkulu ebomini - ukuyitshintsha, okanye kancinane Lungisa. Oku kuya kunceda ukuba ziqhelane iimeko ezintsha (iindlela ukufikelela usukelo ezindala kunye nezintsha ziya kwahluka), yaye oko kuthetha ukuba ungubani yakho iya kulungiswa.

Ukutshintsha umhlaba

Inyathelo elilandelayo ekwakhiweni ngokutsha yesazisi lunqgukuva. Ukuba sele igqityiwe zonke iingongoma ngasentla, ngoko, ulungele ukufunda ukutshintsha ngokwabo njani nge ukutshintsha ihlabathi.

Ukuze wenze oku revolution, kufuneka i umfutho kwangaphandle: ulonwabo okanye intlungu enkulu. Ngathi umntu: omnye okanye akunjalo, eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukuba imvakalelo nyhani kwaye womelele.

Ungakhetha ngokwakho ukuba ube: ezibonakalayo, yothando, i idealist, indoda kakhulu inkolo, wonqanyulwa, ungabikho Enyanisweni,-sobulumko okanye zinjalo. A lot of iindlela apho unako 'sculpt "ungubani.

Ukubaleka kude kuwe

Indlela utshintsha ngaphandle kokutshintsha wena? Lo mbuzo ekupheleni kweli nqaku ayikho ngengozi. Lose wena - ubuntu bakho ngentonga - lula. Nguwo ke lo ubunzima iphambili kuvuselelwa ngamnye. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba phambi kokuba ukufikelela utshintsho ufuna ukukhetha elinye ummandla ngamnye (ngokunxulumene umntu, umnqweno into), singayi kutshintshwa kwaye iya kuhlala ndlela ngonaphakade.

Ngoko ke, siye kuluhlu iindlela eziphambili yolwakhiwo ngokutsha yobomi bakhe. Nakuba kunjalo, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba impendulo kakuhle lo mbuzo, "njani ukutshintsha ngokwabo?" Ukuzimela kuwe.