Nokuba kukho into efak

Le mbono "ubuqhawe" intlondi ezisetyenziswa parlance eziqhelekileyo ukubhekisela sengqondo ezingalunganga yamadoda ngayo amabhinqa. Uninzi besini wamhle bathi ukuba ngenxa nokukheth'icala okuchasene nabantu ukuba ubuchule babo abakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi okanye bafikelele kwinqanaba eliphezulu umholo. Ndifuna na okanye hayi? Ukuze siphendule lo mbuzo, makhe siqwalasele ingqiqo ubuntshovu, kuquka amadoda, kwaye uzame ukuqonda ukuba okunene ayithobe amalungelo abasetyhini lwenzeka kula maxesha siphila kuwo.

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Ngokutsho isichazi-magama, loo nto ichazwa ngcinga ubuntshovu, nethe ngalo ngoluvo walo ongundoqo ukongama olunye uhlanga ngaphezu kwabanye ukuze ukuthethelela ukucalulwa kwezinye izizwe.

Igama le nto iphuma igama isosha UNapoleon Bonaparte - Nikolya Shovena. Ngokutsho legend, amajoni wahlala enyanisekile kukaNapoleon kwanasemva linjengokubhukuqwa yakhe, yaye ukulungele ukuba alwe nayo nayiphi na abantu kwicala soMhlekazi.

Isini ubuntshovu, ekwabizwa ngokuba ngokwesini ichazwa njenge inqubo apho aye avunywa amalungelo engalinganiyo amadoda kunye nabasetyhini.

Oku kubonakala kwinto yokuba kumgangatho esisigxina ngqongqo iindima ekuhlaleni ukuba amadoda nabafazi okuthiwa kufuneka athobele.

Umzekelo, kukho zithetha njani ukuba umfazi ufanele ube buthathaka, yaye loo mntu - eyomeleleyo. Xa yokuhlangana kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane umntu ukuba badlale indima ebonakalayo, yaye umfazi lowo ulindele kuphela, ukuba lo mcimbi. Ukongeza, kukholelwa ukuba umvuzo abasetyhini ikwa-10% ngaphantsi kwe umvuzo zabantu phantsi kweemeko ezifanayo kunye nezibophelelo.

Ngu zokubonisa ngokwesini maxa wambi nkqu zibandakanya isibakala sokuba nxamnye izohlwayo ezinjalo azisebenzi amabhinqa, njengoko isigwebo sentambo okanye ubomi entolongweni. Kwakhona, uninzi alwela yokulingana ngokwesini sisiphango ukuba abafazi umhlala phantsi ekuqaleni kunabantu, nangona eliphezulu sobude ubomi.

isiphelo inokufunyanwa kwezi zibakala ukuba ukungalingani ngokwesini kugxininiswa kuyo. Asenokuziva Abantu ngquzulana ngayo amalungelo abo ayikho ngaphantsi kwe abafazi.

efak kuluntu lwanamhlanje

Le iingcinga ngasentla yokuziphatha inkunzi nemazi nje Iisampulu, ilungiswe inkcubeko. Guqula isithethe, ideology kunye neenjongo, kwakunye neendlela zokufikelela kuzo. Ukuba ekuqaleni imigangatho engqongqo kwinkulungwane yokugqibela kumiselwa ngokupheleleyo ngehambo amadoda namabhinqa, eluntwini mihla Russian, abantu bafumene inkululeko kakhulu ngakumbi obubonakala. Akukho namnye ebona intombi, lowo kunye namadoda (kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ngempumelelo ngakumbi kunabo) yenza umsebenzi kwishishini oyile negesi, okanye entsonkothileyo efanayo.

abafazi abaninzi abavumi kumaxabiso usapho egameni yophando kunye nokukhuthazwa iingcamango ezintsha. Hayi sex njalo ngobulungisa kwi "sibukela" emva ndoda inkokeli.

Phantsi kwale mvelaphi, ubuqhawe, okanye isimo ngokumalunga abasetyhini ngokuba "yesibini-class" iyabuna ngcembe ukuya kwisiqalo.

Kakade ke, kusekho abantu abathi ukuba inenekazi ayikwazi abe yinkokeli elungileyo, kodwa izimvo Akwaba nje ngoncumo. Zininzi yemizekelo yintoni umfazi ukwenza umsebenzi brilliant, ume phambi inkampani enkulu. Ngenxa yoko, i-CEO kunye enye moya likhulu lizwe - umfazi, kwaye uninzi abasebenzi bakaRafa lweshishini ukuluphatha ngentlonelo lokwenene.

Kukhuphiswano abasetyhini, amadoda aqale azive abasweleyo ngokwasemalini ezihlelelekileyo. Abantu abaninzi bakwazi ukufumana indawo yabo kuluntu, xa bejamelene kunye noludumileyo ababhinqileyo. Ingaba yintoni unobangela ekuthiwa njalo-ubuqhawe apha? Kwiinzame ukuzuza ngandlel 'zintshula phakathi amanenekazi esebenzayo abakwizikhundla eziphezulu, amanye amalungu oyindoda womelele liyasuswa umphefumlo ngoncedo iingxelo nzima-ukushaya nxamnye nabo. Kodwa ngaba kubalulekile ukuba sinikele ingqalelo kuyo?

Enye ingxaki ebalulekileyo kukuba amadoda nabafazi Ndinephupha ubomi lula yaye bonwabile, nto leyo kunokwenzeka kuphela xa loo mntu ngokuvumelana ngokwako. Nokuba baya kwenza ukuba ukulingana ngokupheleleyo abantu ngakumbi, Bulelani ngempumelelo ngakumbi kule - oku umbuzo ophambili. Kunye nezinye izingxoxo ngokuba ngubani na kubaluleke ngakumbi: indoda, nokuba yinkazana, nje musani bafanelwe ingqalelo.

Abantu abahlala kwiimeko yokulingana ngokwesini, wayekhangela ukubuyela amaxabiso zemveli, xa umfazi agaye, yaye umntu - i umkhuseli kunye nemali ekhaya. Ingaba ilungile? Ngamnye ayiphendule loo mbuzo, inzuzo kwihlabathi lanamhlanje kukho ithuba for self-ukuzaliseka kuyo naliphi icala.

Kunye nabafazi bayacaphuka "efak ', ngamanye amazwi, uthi amadoda elimsulwa phezu kwabo, ndifuna ukucebisa ukukholelwa bona imisebenzi yabo. Kwaye ngoko izimvo zabanye abantu akumthinteli ukuba wenze umsebenzi, yaye ukufikelela konke uphupha.