Ndlelantle le sibini: yintoni sithi

wedding ngamnye ngamnye kwaye kwenzeka phantsi leempendulo elo. Umntu uzama ngqo yonke imisitho zemveli, ngoxa abanye niphambuke kubo. Kodwa inye into ebaluleke kakhulu, nto-ntle ukuya sibini kubazali babo kunye nabantu ababathandayo.

On intsingiselo

Kukho abo bathi: "Kutheni na le nkqubo indala? Ngoku uphulukene ukufaneleka "Mhlawumbi kunjalo, kodwa ntle sibini - oku isiko nje, ukuba kukho uhlobo ubulumko, iingcebiso ezivela kumava bam ebomini ukuba abazali bafuna ukuba adlulisele nakwizizukulwana abancinane. ungathanda kakhulu le ntetho ngokwayo iya kuba cebiso encinane, kodwa aluncedo ukuze intsapho eyomeleleyo yaye yonwabile.

Kwifom

Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuba ntle isibini kubhengezwa njengokuba vesi, kwaye iprozi eziqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, le intsingiselo yala magama kufuneka icace, kwaye - ngqo. Bezama kunye namacebo kule ngobuwena iya kuba nje olungafanelekanga.

Oko kukuthi, ukuba umakoti

Iyafuna siqwalasele ukuba abazali basenokuthi amazwi akhe okugqibela, ukuze angabuyeli ukuba umtshakazi. Ngoko ke, into yokuqala onokubakhankanya - kukuba sisoloko indoda entsatsheni - intloko, yaye umfazi - intamo. Oku kuthetha ukuba kuphela inenekazi ubukele eziko usapho, onika ubomi, ukuba uhlobo umoya endlwini yakhe. Ibhinqa ukhetha yonke imiba ebalulekileyo echaphazela ubomi bosapho. Ngoko ke, lo umtshakazi kufuneka ukuba babe bakulungele ngokupheleleyo kulo. ntle olulandelayo batshatayo esenokubangela umfazi, kufuneka sihlale "wabona" Umyeni wakhe, wamzalela enyundululu kunye nezityholo. Umfazi Clever uya kwenza yonke into ukuze lo mntu ngokwakhe waqonda isiphoso sakhe waza waxolisa.

Abazali nabo babe kancinane zibonisa ukuba kulungile ukuba intombi amthandayo imbeko uyise womkakhe, ngenxa yalo entle kakhulu kwaye nice kumyeni wakhe. Ezininzi namhlanje uphelelwe intsingiselo imiyalelo zilandelayo ezisixelela umfazi oko kufuneka benze umsebenzi wabo ekhaya. zokwenene Modern kucace ukuba iimbopheleleko zentsapho kufuneka kohlulwa ngokulinganayo, kuba omabini amaqabane asebenze. Ngoko xa abazali endala lomtshakazi iza kukhumbuza ngayo, musa aphikisane uye ingcaciso. Kubhetele ukuba ugcine nje cwaka uze nje ukwenza yonke into ngokwakhe. rhoqo ntle sibini kubazali ivela kule ngongoma, njengoko isizukulwana esizayo, okt abazali bafuna ukuxelela abantwana abancinane - .. Le ulonwabo, yaye ngakumbi kwabo ngcono. Kaloku, yintoni enye na onokumxelela? Akukho mfuneko yokuba ziye emva zonke ingxabano, niyitshise ngomlilo kwo. Zonke iingxaki kufuneka isonjululwe etafileni thethwano, ngokuhlangeneyo ngaphandle amanyundululu. Kuphela ke uyobe vi usapho kunye nenzolo.

Into abengayithethayo; kuba umyeni

amazwi okugqibela batshatayo umva, kwaye umyeni. Yintoni enokwenziwa ngabazali bathi kuye? Kakade ke, eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukuba inkxaso eziphathekayo entsapho yakhe ngamadoda. Abazali kufuneka nje ukuba sizikhumbuze oku. Enye ingongoma ebalulekileyo kukuba umntu olungileyo egcina ukuze endlwini yakhe - yena zingaqhawukiyo izitulo okanye nekhabhathi ezivulekileyo. Umyeni ukuze bakhumbula ukuba abahlobo - kulungile, kodwa ngoku loo nto iphambili ebomini bakhe - intsapho. Kakade ke, umyeni wam ngoku umkhuseli, umgcini umfazi kunye elizayo abantwana bakhe, kuba lowo kufuneka ume entabeni.