Nanceba - bububhanxa, okanye kwiingxowa nangokwasengqondweni modernity

Nanceba - a iimbambano, zemibutho ulondolozo, Frugality, nto leyo ikhula ibe uhlobo zeengxoxo. Mercantile esiyibiza umntu lowo ochaphazelekayo malunga inzuzo eziphathekayo, ngokubanzi, yena yedwa.

Ihlabathi yanamhlanje kuzo zonke step ukunikezela ngeenkonzo yaye ngoko nangoko wavakalisa ixabiso labo, abantu ziphantse ukuba benze izenzo wazincama ukuba nanini afune nayiphi na inzuzo ngokwabo.

Nanceba - imfanelo ukuba ngaphambili ezendeleyo abasetyhini abaninzi kunamadoda. Namhlanje, ngoko ziimpawu phantse nawuphi na umntu, yaye akusayi kugwetywa nje ngaphambili. Wafaka le mfanelo iqala sele with "ilweyile", njengoko batshovo. Oko kukuthi, abazali bayoyika ukuba umntwana "oblaposhat" kwixesha elizayo, okanye ayithethi ukusebenzisa onke amathuba ezifundiswayo. Ngokubanzi, ukuziphatha lwabadala isuke yi iimeko ezimaxongo, ngoko ukusa kumkhamo othile, kuyaqondakala.

Ukuze uqonde ngokupheleleyo, makhe siqwalasele umongo "ukuthengwa" le mbono. Le intsingiselo evakalayo njenge "lokuzingca" kunye "ukuthengwa". Ingqiqo ivela kuthi evela iilwimi IsiFrentshi kunye Italian. Kodwa omnye utoliko 'self-interest "ukuthengwa ngolwimi Russian ayiphelelanga. Ukuze idityaniswa a iimpawu ezimbalwa ngaphezulu, ezifana zemibutho ulondolozo kunye Frugality. Qaphela ukuba lokuqala inqanaba uphuhliso kwezi mpawu akhayo abe nempembelelo entle kuphuhliso nobuntu. Kodwa ifomu yabo hypertrophied akusayi kuba nantoni na elungileyo.

Xa abantu ngokubanzi, nanceba - yenye into efuna ukuba kugxininiswe le meko. Njengoko unokuthelekelela, iinzuzo kunokuba ezibonakalayo kuphela. Kwaye ke intsholongwane ukuziphatha kwabantu ezifana kuvela ebuntwaneni, kakhulu kuba kuxhomekeke kuphela iintsapho, kodwa kokusingqongileyo.

Ukuhlalutya langoku elidluleyo kwilizwe lethu, masikhumbule ukuba phambi nootatomkhulu kunye nabazali babesebenza nkqu ingcamango, ayikwazanga ukufumana imali wenze umsebenzi wentlalo simahla. Akukho mntu uthi ukuba Yiphoseni indawo ezimnandi kunye umvuzo olungileyo, kwaye lujoyine emihle. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuba nje inqamla uyoyika kwindlela inkqubo lamaxabiso kwihlabathi lethu itshintshile. Nanceba - it kwakhona isiqhamo yoluntu. Ukuba ngaphambi kokuba sithi ukuba umfazi lowo ufuna umyeni unokumnceda na yokuzingca nokubala, kodwa ngoku khangela iimeko ezincomekayo abasebenza ngakumbi - kwakhona uphawu yezorhwebo.

Masithathe, umzekelo, umfazi wangoku. Ufuna ukutshata kakuhle, ukuba indoda yakhe zuza kakuhle, ndafumana indawo yokuhlala eliphangaleleyo, okanye, ngamanye amazwi, waba ngokupheleleyo "igcwele". Ke yona indoda namhlanje, yena ngokwakhe efuna ukufumana iqabane, eziya kuba non-amahlwempu, abangaxhalabisiyo ekrelekrele. Ukongeza, kufuneka ibe ngumama olungileyo umama omangalisayo wabantwana bakhe. Ngokusekelwe ngasentla, siyabona ukuba zombini Mercantile, oko kukuthi, wonke umntu ukhangela ngokwazo naziphi na inzuzo.

Kodwa kuthekani ibali Cinderella? Ngokwenene iimvakalelo ezimangalisayo bemkile ngenxa owesibini, yaye isicwangciso wesithathu?

Kwathi kanti, yezorhwebo kunokuba yinqobo kumntu ngamnye odale iimeko le ndlela yokucinga. Kaloku, engekamboni ngokwaneleyo bhanya (okanye) ngobomi abazizityebi ezintle, kodwa kule yokugqibela bhanya ezinjalo bakholisa ukubonisa ukuba yintoni na, lo bomi angagcina. Kodwa wonke umntu ukhetha, kwaye kufuneka ahlawule ixabiso yedwa.

Kakade ke, lo nanceba - luphawu elibi, nto leyo Ususa nathi uluntu kunye izikhulu. sikhetha Kodwa, kwaye akukho mntu nto pushes. Ngapha koko, abantwana bafuna ababhetele bona na, ndiwuhlutha nje akuyomfuneko ngayo ... Kodwa phi na umgca eligugu ukuba, abantu, eyohlula robhothi Mercantile, musa sihlala siyazi thina ukuba sihlala siyazi indlela unamathele kuso. Ngoko ke ndicinga ngokuba wena, isigqibo ngokuba wena!