Lo mntwana ushiye enkulisa - ngubani na ukuba ityala? Ngubani onoxanduva umntwana enkulisa?

Ingxaki abantwana self-care ukusuka kummandla enkulisa ngumba ootitshala eziguqulweyo. Kwaye oko akuthethi ukuba phantse yonke imihla kukho imeko apho umntwana washiya sabaqalayo, kanye kanye ukuba akukho mntu wabona, yaye ke ukufuna luqala emva kwemizuzu 30-40. Kodwa asuse nokuba ngokupheleleyo kwimeko enjalo akunakwenzeka, ngelishwa. Ngubani na obange kule meko yaye njani ukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho nto ngokuphindaphindiweyo?

Njani ukuba kwaqala

Ngoko ntsasa. Umama uvuka iingubo umntwana, ondle, ucoca amazinyo kwaye ikhokelela egadini. Yiloo nto ukusuka udluliselo umgcini usana kunye umyezo kufika uxanduva umntwana. Xa preschools ezahlukeneyo ngayo uchongwe ngendlela yayo; kwelinye - nje ukuze babingelele utitshala ukuba umntwana kwiqela, kwabanye - basayine irejista kwindawo yesithathu - ezinye iindlela abazifunayo. Ngoko ke, kungakuhle ukuba egadini kwakukho imithetho ecacileyo ukudluliselwa usana kumntu onoxanduva (umkhathaleli).

Kakade ke, asizizo zonke preschools babe iingcingo ezenziwe kweemakhishithi esiluqilima zentsimbi okanye emgceni ngokohlobo zodaka. Ingakumbi, nabalindi intercom - nto ingaqhelekanga ngokubanzi, ingakumbi kwiidolophu ezincinane. Mhlawumbi bekuya unogada kube lula kuba nako ukugcina umkhondo kids ezingenayo neziphumayo. Kwelinye icala - ukusuka kwindawo yezobugcisa imbono - lula nangakumbi intakhom emnyango ukuya amaqhosha kakhulu indawo.

Kodwa mhlawumbi, ukuba yonke imithetho ziya kwenziwa, umbuzo wokuba ingaba umntwana wabaleka enkulisa akayi enyuke.

Banike okanye hayi ukohlwaya umntwana?

Akukho namnye abazali nootitshala, ngelishwa, banawo koko isindileyo. Ngoko ke, luxanduva yokuphumeza lokuqala luquka incoko amaninzi kunye nabantwana babo ntoni enkulisa ukusuka egadini ungaya kuphela xa ekhatshwa umama okanye utata, okanye utatomkhulu. Oko kukuthi, abo abadala rhoqo kwinkalo umbono wosana. Nowesibini umangalelwe umsebenzi kolawulo esisigxina phezu kwiiwadi zabo. Ngapha koko, oku kufuneka kucace gca ukuba ayizizo zonke abantwana abathobelayo ngokulinganayo kwaye uzimisele sadikovsky usuku ukuba athule esitulweni okanye ukudlala ngoonodoli, izilwanyana baby, iimoto zokudlala.

Njani ntoni, ukuba uthe waba umntwana eshiywe enkulisa? Oko sele emva kokuba usana waza wabuyela kwiqela, okanye abazali kufuneka benze umama kunye notata ukuzama ukucacisa kuye ukuba unako ukuyenza loo nto, yiloo nto kuphela navuso kakhulu abenza? Vele ubeke ecaleni ecaleni uze uthethe intliziyo entliziyweni okanye spank nzima wazibeka ekoneni, anqunyulwe elithozamisayo, iikhathuni uhamba (ukuba isebenze imemori umntwana)?

Uyakwazi futhi wenza; Andazi ...

Isohlwayo kwenza kuphela ingqiqo phantsi komqathango omnye: umntwana wenza isenzo esibi kakhulu ngabom, esazi ukuba yinto embi, yaye ukuba wenza okubi. Ukuba umntwana washiya enkulisa yaye singaqondi naxa ukuba abe ukuba ngenxa kuyo nayiphi na imeko, ngoko kumvelela yena, kungengenxa. Kuyimfuneko ukuba achaze kulowo ngaphandle kwemvume utitshala ukushiya iqela okanye uhambe, prolazili phakathi imivalo ucingo okanye ucingo ngokwakhe, unako ukuvula isango. Ngobunono zama ukuzoba umfanekiso ngomlomo yintoni enokwenzeka nabantwana, abathe bagqiba ukuba uzimele kakhulu: iindlela ezinobungozi, umqhubi inattention, yemingxuma unclosed, izakhiwo engagqitywanga, uyisekazi ububi kunye umakazi ... Kwaye uqiniseke ukuba alumkise ukuba kwixesha elizayo, xa kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba umntwana uza kohlwaywa (ekukhethwa ukuba nokuba ilizwi elo kulandelwa isohlwayo).

Banike okanye hayi ukohlwaya ootitshala, abongikazi kunye nentloko? Umzali womntwana sele kwaqala ngo egadini

Abazali abaninzi (ingakumbi abo abajongene nale ngxaki phantsi kwengxoxo) lidla ngazo: "Umntwana iphelile enkulisa:? indlela ukohlwaya utitshala". Ewe, kunjalo, ukuba oku kuyenzeka, iphutha ubuxoki ngokupheleleyo komfundisi. Andizange nakugqiba, akazange ubukele, azilumkiswa, akazange ukukhusela, lindikhohlile. Kodwa ... Sonke siyazi ukuba kukho kakhulu abantwana ongalawulekiyo, kuye kube nzima ukumelana nabazali nje kuphela, kodwa ootitshala abanamava olukhulu. Yeyona abantwana abathanda ukukholisa, yenza okwahlukileyo yaye abazange baphulaphule amazwi abadala. Abaninzi kubo bafumana badala kwaye nangoku buzenzela - esikolweni, ekhaya, ethabathela kumzi ... Ngoko ke ngubani onoxanduva umntwana enkulisa yaye ngubani na ityala, ukuba ukubaleka yenzekile? Makhe siqwalasele le meko ezingenamsebenzi ngakumbi.

Ngoko ke, siye sele sitshilo, ukuba uxanduva amabhungane uthole lubangelwa ngootitshala, abongikazi kunye umphathi, kodwa kuphela xa abazali "kuhlala" sana "ukusuka kwesinye isandla." Kukho amaxesha xa umntwana self-unonophelo umyezo, umzekelo, emva kokuba umzali kwaye utitshala ukuba ityala. Ewe, kwenzeka ngamanye amaxesha, yaye nantsi kutheni. Imeko: Pope kufuneka zithunyelwe umntwana enkulisa, okwesibini - esikolweni. Okokuqala, esabela abaselula egadini, kodwa kancinci kunye lesibini esikolweni, akayeki ngemizuzu emihlanu ukuya ukujonga umntwana undresses kwaye aye kwiqela ngokunjalo, yivusa ukuya emnyango igadi, ajike nemikhanzi ukuya esikolweni. Baby, eqala ukuba awusebenze, uthi, umzekelo, ibhatyi ekufuneka zinxitywe egadini, upopu akazange aphume. Mna ndicinga ukuba utata wam balibala nje, kunye ibhatyi wakhe, ixhonti ebaleka emva kwakhe. Kulo mzekelo, umntwana washiya enkulisa hayi ngenxa yokuba nozintyintya kakhulu, yena likhawuleze phezu iingubo zakhe. Ekubeni upopu uye wafumana umntwana kwisakhiwo abancinane, ngoko, Kakade ke, utitshala alazi ukuba eli kid drives. Kakade ke, nokuba wabaleka, wayengakwazi ndiyaqikelela.

Yanye inkunzi ihamba, omnye - ukukhala ...

Enye into, xa, umzekelo, abantwana xa uhamba, imozulu elungileyo, ilanga likhanya ngokuqaqambileyo. A umkhathaleli, endaweni yokuba ukulandela ngokusondeleyo emva kwabo, bethetha naye okanye ngefowuni. Kulo mzekelo, utitshala lwewayini ecacileyo kakhulu.

Kukho, Kakade, kwaye imeko kufikwa apho iliso katitshala ephawula ukuba enye amatakane ukweqa ibe kwisiqingatha-evulekileyo isango, kodwa nje ukubaleka emva kwakhe akakwazi, kuba abanye abantwana ifuna ingqalelo yayo ekhawulezileyo (umzekelo, ngeli othile kuyo iye yawa kakhulu kwaye phezulu bakhala). Ekuqaleni, umsebenzi obalulekileyo lootitshala ngumoya-xhaxheba abantwana kwezinye umdlalo ukuba abazange abanalo ixesha nokunqwenelekayo ukubaleka kwindawo ethile. Enoba kwenzeka ntoni na, simele siqale ukujongana nale meko. Kodwa ukuba iwayini kufunyaniswe ngokupheleleyo, isohlwayo kufuneka balandele ngoko nangoko.

Ebalekela Tyumen

Omnye umzekelo egregious kwenzeka ekuqaleni kwalo nyaka: a washiya umntwana enkulisa. Tyumen - njengoko isixeko apho kwenzeke konke, "odumileyo" lonke eli lizwe. Isicwangciso seminyaka emihlanu-pipsqueak abasindileyo igadi ngexesha iyure cwaka. Kwinqanaba-30 ebandayo, ehamba phantsi ngesitrato okomzuzwana, ade akazange phawula yokucheba umsebenzi. Uye got inkwenkwe kwelo gumbi waza wabiza amapolisa. Lo mfazi wayesazi ngoko nangoko ukuba kwakubanda kakhulu; waba izidlele ebomvu nengqele nezibambo (umntwana kule abandayo malunga neyure).

Umama uye wafumana enforcers umthetho. Yaba abo banika umntwana wakhe.

Kutheni utitshala zange qaphela ukuba umntwana washiya enkulisa (Tyumen ngokoqobo "ndii" ingenzeki), oko akukacaci. Kodwa iye athethiswe, waza wabhala ileta yokuyeka. Bekhuza kwaye wafumana umgcini izimvo kunye nentloko enkulisa.