Kutheni liphupha umlilo?

Le mba we ukulala ngokwenene into emangalisayo kunye twisisaka. Kukho inani elikhulu iinkcazo ezahlukeneyo kunye ukuyityhila into, kodwa ukuba bangaliboni kuphela nje abanye ebusuku, wena awukwazi. Eyimfihlakalo kunye nenzululwazi, etyhila amaphupha ngendlela yabo. Ngalinye ilungelo lokukhetha ukuba oko kuhle ukuphulaphula, kwaye akufunekanga ngoyaba. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba nkqu izazinzulu abakwazi kusityela izinto zonke ekupheleni. Ngokutsho uphando lwezonyango, kwakusazeka ukuba ubuchopho bomntu isebenzisa amandla ayo yi% 7 kuphela. Mhlawumbi i-93% - oku ukukwazi ukubona ikamva. Ke ukuba benze ntoni xa kukho umlilo dream?

Umlilo - oko kusoloko yintlekele. utya zomlilo kunye ajike ziingceba yonke endleleni yayo. Kodwa ke, enoba engaqhelekanga kwaye eyinqaba, umlilo ephupheni - kuba yimpazamo elungileyo. Kubalulekile ukuba komqathango omnye: akukho amaxhoba. Ngoko ke yintoni dream ngomlilo? Ngoko ke, ebomini bakho, apho kuya kubakho iinguqu ezinkulu, nangenxa ngcono. Oku kuthetha ukuba ukwanda kunokwenzeka emsebenzini, abafowunelwa abatsha 'umdla yaye iluncedo, imbonakalo somntwana, iinzuzo ngequbuliso kunye nezipho. Ukuba sasilala in've ukuwucima umlilo, iphupha nokutyhilwa uMiss Hase ulumkisa ukuba lixesha lokuba uwise yonke into esiyenzayo. Athimba yi umdlalo omtsha? Libala ngayo. Sagqiba ukuya kubethwa ngumoya? Shiya lo mbono. Ingqondo ienjini uzama ukukhusela kwimiphumo nekulindeleke kwixa elizayo. Basenokuba ezinxulumene nempilo, ubudlelwane kunye hlakalo.

Kukho inani utoliko onegunya amaphupha. Hlaziya kubo. Kutheni liphupha umlilo , ngokutsho Freud? A wengqondo ezaziwayo-kakuhle, uchaza ukuvela uthando lokwenene. Ukuziva kuza ngesiquphe yaye kuya nesigqubuthelo entloko. Uya kumangaliswa kwi usondela kanjani omnye njengoko bomntu eqhelekileyo. Phakathi kwezinye izinto, ikamva lakho omthandayo olindele ukuba epheleleyo ukuhambelana ngokwesondo.

wengqondo American UGustav Miller uthi kwindlu etshayo ephupheni - umqondiso wokuba abantwana baya kuba abathobelayo kunye nothando, kunye nabahlobo - othembekileyo okulungileyo. Ukuba usomashishini ebona ivenkile yakhe (ofisi) ngofinyafuthi, umele ulindele isantya elibukhali kuphuhliso loshishino, izahlulo zeshumi zibe ngcono kunye nezivumelwano. Musa ukuzama ukucima umlilo ephupheni. It igcwele iingxaki, zombini kwi ngawe kwakunye ngaphambili ishishini. Ukuba uphupha uyibonile iindonga zalaba, ngoko mhlawumbi, liphoseni zonke izicwangciso zakho, waphelelwa ukholo kuye ngokwakhe, nto leyo neze ikufanele.

Kutheni iphupha umlilo Vanga? Ukuba uyakwazi ukubona indlela umlilo ehlathini kunye umzi, oko kuza a imbalela. Ngokoqobo kwaye kulo lonke ihlabathi. ekugcineni abantu baqonde ukubaluleka endalo kunye nemithombo yayo. ummeli ngalinye uluntu luya kuze kakubi kokusingqongileyo, baya kuyinyamekela lokusingqongileyo, eqonda ubunzulu koko. Abo uphuphe ubona nevumba elibi emlilweni, lo clairvoyant enkulu ukuqikelela Ihlebo embi. Nabagxeki ziya kuba ngandlela zonke ukuba ukusasaza amarhe kunye nezinto ezimbi ngawe. Kubo kuya kuba nzima yaye elide ukuba ayibulale. Ukuba ulala ngemvume ezishushu emlilweni, kuba lilungile. Ngoko inkathazo uya kusoloko abantu usibeke isandla ukunceda, uya kuhluthwa liyaphuma embandezelweni. Ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka amamele kwaye siyavuyisana nabo. Bona - kuphela abaya kuba kuhlukunyezwa embi.

Le ingcaciso esisiseko ngoko amaphupho umlilo. Cinga zonke izibakala ajikelezileyo neemeko. Zibalulekile kakhulu. Ukungabikho okanye kukho ngokupheleleyo isimo kwixesha elizayo. Icebiso: imiso yonke into yokuqala abhale amaphupha abo ukuze bazikhusele amashwa kunokwenzeka. Zakwe - indlela iingqondo zethu, ukuba asincede, ndikunike. Hayi ukuba yamshiya yi indlebe. Nangona nathi thina ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa ke ithuku of self-ulondolozo kunamandla. Eyona nto iphambili ukuba akukho mntu uya kukulibala, yaye aququzelelwa.