Kutheni amabhinqa nzima ngakumbi kwi ngxoxo?

Xa abafazi lwesakhiwo kwezoshishino, kuza kwintlanganiso ibe umxhasi, angaqinisekanga bazive bezithembile ukuba uthethwano luya kwenziwa imeko kakuhle kuye. ladies Thandeka abo ngenkuthalo ekulweni umasilingane, ekuqaleni phantsi ngamandla ayo. Iikhastoma Babaqhathanisele nto, ngoko kukholosa amadoda ubukhulu becala. rhoqo iintetho ukuza ngxi okanye aphuke. iqabane Business kuthatha ixesha reflection, uthembisa ukuba sibuye, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo akunjalo.

Ngaba yinyaniso into yokuba amabhinqa abathiyi thethwano?

Njengoko wavuma ngabasebenzi kwiinkampani ezinkulu, Ziyandisukela ukuba ezingxoxweni. Le nkqubo olwasishiya kwaye osabekayo, kukho uhlobo umdlalo ngaphandle imithetho, woyika kakhulu kubo. Madoda, phezu koko, bakhululeke etafileni ngeenxa kunye namaqabane kunye banokuba ngabathengi. Mhlawumbi uya ukumangaliswa, kungekhona ukuthingaza abasetyhini ukuba thethana buthathaka isikhundla sabo xa kufikwa umvuzo. Nangona, ukususela ngowe-1963, umsantsa ingeniso lehla kancinane, enyanisweni, la manani abalingani. Abasetyhini bamkela kancinci kunootata, ingakumbi xa kufikwa kwigcuntswana yobuhlanga.

Izizathu ngobukho umsantsa kwimivuzo

Ngokutsho kweengcali, umba lomvuzo olinganayo buhlobene ngqo ukuthingaza abafazi ezingxoxweni. Lo ngumcimbi onobuzaza kakhulu, ufanelwe isifundo eyahlukileyo enkulu. Amanye manani zibonisa ukuba abasetyhini bakhetha ukuhlala emva amadoda imazwi maninzi ngakumbi, nezinye iinkcukacha zibonisa ngenye indlela. Kwaye ke eliphezulu wabeka usukelo ngokwayo ukuba ukuqala umfazi ishishini, kokukhona ke ukuba uya luzingenele ngokwalo ukuba zithetha-thethane kubaxumi. Noko ke, kule meko, akukho banawo ukusilela.

Iindleko emikhulu

Uya kumangaliswa, kodwa xa kwimeko isiphumo esihle zingxoxo umsebenzi omhle yomqeshwa, umsebenzi wayo kunye nokukhuthazwa iingcamango ezilungileyo akusosiqinisekiso amaholo aphezulu. Kwaye oku akuthethi ukuba kanye abafazi zoshishino siyawubulela umsebenzi wabo ngaphantsi. Bathi nje kangangoko besini ngokomelela, cela ukunyuka kwemivuzo boss yakho,-25% kuphela amatyala okuba ukufumana i affirmative impendulo. "Ngoko ke kutheni beqongqothiwe, ukusebenza iiyure ezili-10 ngosuku, ukuba imizamo yakho ukuba uye singabonwa?" - ngoko ukucinga ethile inxalenye abasebenzi ofisi yaye akafuni aphinde ukuveza ntshikilelo nomqondo.

zengqondo ezimbi malunga abafazi thethwano

Okokuqala, amaqabane amathuba kunye nabathengi ekuqaleni kakubi ityekele thethana, xa besiva ukuba umfazi iya kuvela phambi kwabo. iingcinga Gender basekhona emoyeni nasiphi na isakhiwo ishishini. Amadoda ekuqaleni waqonda njenge ubuntu nkqi, siqinisekile, ngoko bazive abathengi ngakwabo iqondo elikhulu ukuzithemba. Xoxa nabafazi kunzima ngenxa isitampu "interlocutor nzima." Xa umfazi uyeza thethwano, oko nje lula ukuba ukuqulunqa iingcamango zakhe, kodwa ngandlela lihlangana ukuqonda ngaphantsi. Ngoko ke, enoba yintoni na umfazi wathi ekuqaleni alubonwanga esilisolotya 'sokubeka. " Ngoko ke umahluko omkhulu ekuphumezeni isiphumo esihle-thethwano.

Kutheni amabhinqa asikho umvuzo omncinane?

Abaninzi kuthi musa ukucinga ngendlela umahluko pay phakathi kwamadoda nabafazi. Barbary Stenni ipapashe incwadi "Iimfihlelo abafazi ezintandathu", apho ekuqalekeni umfundi anikwe ezinye iimbono malunga kutheni ngesondo wamhle ukufumana ngaphantsi. Omnye kunokuba sokuthandabuza le mveliso, ukuba oko bekuya kuba abona bantu akuyi kuba abafazi yokwenene, iimpawu zobungcali leyo ezineenkcukacha banikwe. Nazi izinto ezininzi nabafazi ebhatalwa abanezifo: bane ukunyamezelana eliphezulu imivuzo ephantsi, ukuba uwajongele izakhono zabo, ukulungele ukuba basebenze ngokuzithandela, ukuba sibonise yentlupheko wabanumzana, uluthiye-thethana.

Iimpawu ezithintela Iholo eliphezulu

Siya kuhamba kuyo yonke le neempawu zolwimi ngokunzulu. I sex wamhle xa ubunzima jikelele abe ukunyamezelana eliphezulu imivuzo ephantsi. Bayazi ukuba unemali ngakumbi, kodwa uyavuma ukuba nindinyamezele umvuzo omncinane, bekholelwa ukuba ngaphezu nto konke konke. Kukho underestimation ngesiqu njenge iiyunithi oqeqeshiweyo eyahlukileyo. Akukho namnye uya kubiza aba bafazi nabo embi, ndisisityhakala, abangafundanga. Kodwa ke, ukuba uye uxolelane Isiphelo sakhe, yaye musa uzame ukuzithethelela kuyo. Ngesizathu esithile engaqhelekanga, Heroine wencwadi uBarbara Walls bacinga ukuba soze ahlawule kakuhle.

Umzekelo, nakangangokuba unakho ngokupheleleyo ababhali okanye ootitshala. Abameli zezi imisebenzi zokuzigwebela ubukho yemivuzo uNothozamile banqwenela ukuba basebenze 'ukuze lo mbono. " Bathanda ukuba yintoni na, ngoko ke niyavuma ukukwamkela imivuzo ephantsi. Amanye amabhinqa bezisetyenziselwa ukuthethelela indawo ofunekayo ephantsi imisebenzi yawo, ekholelwa ukuba amashishini abo kunye neengcali akunyanzelekanga ukuba uhlawule ngaphezulu kwe-avareji umvuzo. Ukuba aba bafazi babe nethuba lokuba ukusebenza ixesha, kodwa umvuzo omncinane, baza kuya kule nyathelo, sikhumbula ukuba umqeshi akayi kunikela kabini.

Kutheni ucele ukuba kuphakamisa nzima kangaka?

Uninzi abalinganiswa kule ncwadi thethwano yintiyo kunye nabasemagunyeni ngokunxulumene ukunyuswa kwemivuzo. Bathi abafuni ukuba zibonisa kwi kukwanda, njengoko ukoyika nemiphumela emibi kakhulu. Umzekelo, ufuna ukufumana imali kwaye angayi kuxelela umphathi wakhe. Ngoko ke masithi ekungenwe ingqumbo yomqeshi. Ngokomthetho, uhlobo ngalunye wenu budla ukutsala ingubo phezu kwakhe. Umqeshi akafuni ukuba ahlukane imali engaphezulu, njengoko ezibonisa ukuba izakhono zakho Nixabiseke. Kodwa ke cinga indlela nangoko wahlukana nawe, uthathe indawo umqeqeshwa yakho ongenamava, wayephumelele nje ekholejini. Ngamanye amazwi, uqinisekile ukufumana intloko endaweni yakho ngaphezu umgqatswa omnye. Bonke aba abafazi baya kubeka phezulu kunye umvuzo omncinane, ngoxa amtyhaphaza emnyango. Eli themba ekwenza abambelele kule ndawo kwaye nto ukubuza.

Intlupheko - akukho mthetho

Zonke ezi ntombi bakholelwa ukuba ubuhlwempu kuhle. Bakholelwa ukuba ubuhlwempu lifike nokuziphatha, nobutyebi - to ukunyoluka kunye vice. I sex bubuhle ngokuphandle bathi imali - embi. Kakade ke, umfazi ukuba uthathe ngaloo msimelelo kwinkampani enkulu, akuyi ukuphuma indlela yabo ukungqina ukuba mbi akukho kunabantu. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, akukho kunye nokungafuni olukhulu thethana okanye ngokupheleleyo masiyeke mbono. Kodwa ngoxa abafazi azingqinelani impumelelo yakhe romanticize ubuhlwempu, labaxhasi elinokwenzeka icala kufuphi ingqondo, ukunqongophala ukumelelana nobundlobongela kunye nezakhono ephantsi. Oku yindlela iintsomi bazalwa isini. Abaqeshi musa ukwazisa umsebenzi yabafazi hola, uze uthi kuwo wonke ngethuba umsebenzi wabo ayikwazi ukwenza nantoni na onengqondo.

Ukungabi ukuzithemba

Kubulungisa kufanele kuqatshelwe ukuba abafazi afakwa iimpawu eziqhelekileyo 'yindoda' ezijongwa ebalulekileyo kuthethathethwano. Ukungabikho ndlongondlongo kunye nokuba mathidala ukujongana ukwenza isiphumo esihle-thethwano kakhulu kunzima ukuzenza. Careerists uqaphele: Ayikho akunakwenzeka ukuba abo Iinjongo kunye ukulola rhoqo izakhono zabo. Musa ukucinga malunga thethwano njengendlela ukwandisa yengeniso. Yicinge nje ukwanda jikelele amathuba akho omsebenzi.