Kazakh emsithweni; amasiko nezithethe

Kazakhstan - ilizwe apho kangangeenkulungwane wenza ukuba imbeko izithethe wooyise. Ingenisa kubo Kazakh yomtshato, nto leyo ethatha indawo kwi imeko esekwe kakuhle. Kakade ke, ezinye amasiko lomtshato of Kazakhs engasekho wamkeleke nobomi mihla, izithethe kunjalo ezininzi ziye kuhlala ingaguqukanga. Yintoni abamele?

Kazakh yamsitho umtshakazi

Namhlanje, isithethe yamandulo abantu Kazakh ukufumana umtshakazi ngexesha Smotrin ebizwa ngokuba "Kiz ixolo", phantse ulibele, kwakunye njengoko kulisiko ukuba batshate abazali bakhe. Ngoku abantu abaselula sikhetha iqabane ngokwabo, ukutshata ngenxa yothando. Noko ke, maxa wambi xa iintsapho kunye nabantwana abancinane, wavuma ukutshata ngaphandle kokucela ngokoluvo ngumtshakazi nomyeni. Kwezinye iimeko, izivumelwano ezinjalo zaqukunjelwa phambi kokuzalwa kwiindlalifa, umzekelo, ukuba iintsapho ufuna sendiselane.

Ukukhumbula indlela emtshatweni Kazakh kwenzeka kwixesha elidlulileyo, singasathethi ke umtshakazi. Ilungelo ukukhetha umtshakazi ngexesha Smotrin ( "Kiz ixolo"), ukuba asinguye wonke umhlali of Kazakhstan, sigcine ngayo eAmsterdam amahashe abanezakhono abaye bakwazi ukubonisa izakhono zazo, kwakunye nenzala abazali abazizityebi okanye odumileyo. Lo mfana efuna ukutshata abahlobo bakhe, waya kwidolophana, umiwe amantombazana enomtsalane abaye uwagqibile amashumi oomolokazana. Njengomthetho jikelele, bathabatha umyeni enokubakho nabalindi bakhe, lunozuko.

Ngexesha Smotrin amantombazana lokutshata akhuphisana kunye nezinye kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zobugcisa. Kwakhona Siyihlolile amasoka kunokwenzeka, musa ukuthandabuza, ukuvakalisa uluvo lwakhe. Kudla amalungiselelo ingoma ukhuphiswano phakathi manene namanenekazi - "Aitys". Ukuba phakathi amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana Wabaleka ube yintlantsi, ngoko ke kwakufika ithuba matchmakers, abo babethunyiwe kusapho lomtshakazi.

zikuthembisa

Kwezothando - inxalenye olusisinyanzelo sisiganeko esahlukileyo wedding Kazakh, Kazakh ulwimi lo msitho ubizwa ngokuba "ijinga ngaphandle kwindawo ethile." Indima matchmakers ezihlala luxanduva uyise kunye nezinye izihlobo olusondeleyo of umkhwenyana. Usapho umakoti uya kwaziswa malunga tyelelo yabo kwangethuba, kufuneka ukuba zinike ukutya onesisa (kakade, ukuba bathanda sicelo). Noko ke, phezu komnyango wendlu wentombazana ku-mithetho kwanyanzeleka ukuba ahlawule, njengoko kwisiqingatha sabafazi usapho ngokwemveli ubamba umkhala phambi komnyango, nto leyo isuswe kuphela emva kokuba abanini weendwendwe wamnikela izipho: cuts belaphu zexabiso, imali.

Emkhathini isidlo umbhiyozo enothando ngobubele ngexesha lesidlo kuxoxwe ezahlukeneyo ngezihloko hayi ezinxulumene ngqo kwikamva emtshatweni. Kuphela xa sasemini yayisele iza kugqitywa, matchmakers bavumelekile ukuba baye injongo yotyelelo yakhe. Nemiqathango umtshato, ukucwangcisa ubungakanani njengekhazi lazo. Ilungelo lokuthetha pha onke amalungu aphezulu zombini iintsapho. Zikuthembisa, nto leyo landulelwa ngokwesiko yi-Kazakh emsithweni, akakwazi ukwenza kakuhle ngaphandle umsitho obsypaniya "shashu". nokulungiselela abathunywa efafazwe iilekese, cookies, iingqekembe ezincinane izihlobo lomtshakazi, kunye matchmakers bangenza Kwathi iimvavanyo ezahlukeneyo, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwingcaciso-ntetho fun.

Abameli ke somyeni, abeza woo intombazana, kunyanzelekile ukuba "korzhun". Le bhegi, ihonjiswe ezineeribhoni eqaqambileyo, amaso, imali. Ngaphakathi kuyo ibekwe izipho: iziqhamo ezomisiweyo, iilekese, kwilaphu njalo njalo. Ngaphambi kokuba bahambe, matchmakers kunye izipho kubo, kunazo zonke isipho xa oku esiya utata umyeni.

ukubonisa umtshakazi

Umtshakazi elizayo ukuza matchmakers kuphela emva kokuba ndaqhelana izalamane zakhe zonke, ukuba thethana nabo malunga lomtshato kunye-ikhazi. Phambi kokuba kukhululwe abameli umyeni umtshakazi kufuneka anike usapho lwakhe umrhumo umtshakazi, leyo ngolwimi Kazakh ubizwa ngokuba "korimdik". Kuphela emva kokuba le ntombazana ebonisa izalamane elizayo.

Oku kulandelwa emkhosini formalizes ubume intombazana lomtshakazi. Matchmakers kwambatha nangezinto zakhe, abe umthetho, lo msebenzi obekekileyo kwamagxa unina umyeni. Njengoko matchmakers kufuneka anike izipho kwamanye amalungu entsapho, izacholo igolide ubukhulu becala: namaso, bezisa izacholo, namakhonkco.

kalym

ikhazi - into ngaphandle apho ngemihla yamandulo ayikwazanga kuqhutywa Kazakh yamsitho. Izithethe baxelelwa umviwa kuba isandla nentliziyo intombazana langoku 47 eenkomo abazali bakhe. Ngoku lo mthetho waphawula kunqabile ngokwaneleyo ukuba kwingxowa isipho, nto leyo iya kunikezelwa kusapho umtshakazi xa kamasipala, 47 izinto ezincinane. Inani eenkomo, leyo efunisa ukuba umtshakazi kwixesha elidlulileyo, kwakuxhomekeke-ntle iintsapho abajonge ningendiselani. Ngokuba intombi bai badla zihlawulwe ukuya ku-1000, lo gama amahlwempu yanelani iintloko 5-6 ibe njengekhazi lazo.

Ifudusiwe kumhla wethu isiko, njengoko uncedo izinto zokufunda ezinikiweyo ngabazali abo batshatayo. imiyalelo Custom izihlobo umtshakazi ukunika ikhazi yakhe, kuquka iikhaphethi, zokwandlala, neenkamba, njalo njalo. Izihlobo umyeni kufuneka ukhethe imali usapho oselula yokuthenga ifanitshala.

Kucacile ukuba asizizo zonke uthethathethwano uphela umtshato. Ukuba umyeni emva kotyelelo, le matchmakers kunye nentlawulo ikhazi ngesiquphe ucinga ngomtshato, ungabinayo siko isizathu elikhankanyiweyo, kuba imbuyiselo ixabiso umtshakazi akakwazi ukubala. Ngaphezu koko, usapho unelungelo nyanzela intombazana umqhathile mfana umoya ukuhlawula isohlwayo, imali leyo axeliwe ngokwahlukeneyo. Le meko yahlukile ukuba kwemvumelwano ayifikelelekanga nomtshakazi okanye usapho lwakhe. Kulo mzekelo, usapho intombazana kufuneka awuzukuphila ngokupheleleyo kuphela ngentlawulelo ngabo, kodwa ukuze kubuyekezelwe ukophulwa contract ngokuhlawula isohlwayo.

umakoti dress

Kwihlabathi loomama nokutshata, ethe kukhetho wesinxibo, akukho ngaphandle, kwaye umtshakazi, ngubani na oya kuba umtshato Kazakh. umtshakazi ngokwezithethe kufuneka ebomvu kodwa kule mihla abafazi Kazakh uyakwazi ukukhetha kunye ingubo emhlophe. Ukutyhubela kwisinxibo, ngokuqhelekileyo ukuba ibhatyi zokuhomba velvet ebanzi elide-kunxitywe zamfakamfele, umbala wayo nayiphi na.

Intloko kwisinxibo umtshakazi, ebizwa ngokuba "saukele" - i element ngaphandle apho kunzima ukucinga isiganeko esinjalo, njengoko Kazakh lomtshato. Photo wentombazana, ambethe isigqubuthelo emveli, zinokujongwa ngasentla. Looks "saukele" nje umsebenzi wobugcisa, ngokwesiko uyalela ukuba bayihombise neeperile neerubhi, yenziwe amalaphu axabiso (velvet, velvet). Le amaso ngokunjalo, yengubo, iingqekembe zesiliva zisetyenziswa izinto zokuhombisa. Inxalenye eliphezulu zinokuhonjiswa ngesigqubuthelo sentloko umqadi edalwe iintsiba nenciniba, imiphetho selugqityiwe uboya (impungutye, Sable, ngoboya). Ubutyebi "saukele" singaba izibonelelo zemali yentsapho.

"Saukele" ukhangeleka obutofotofo kakhulu, ukuba ilungelo babubone umtshakazi, bambethe umnqwazi, babemenyiwe nabo kuloo mtshato abahlobo nezalamane bazimisele ukuba anikele izipho ezincinane.

umkhwenyana uyazilibala na iinqwemesha

Hayi nje umtshakazi linyanzelekile ukuba ukulungiselela ngokucokisekileyo Kwimeko enjalo, njengoko Kazakh lomtshato. Umyeni suit ngokwesiko kufuneka zidlule, ngokwemiqathango ubutyebi, nezambatho naluphi na undwendwe. Umntu itshata, kufuneka ume ngaphandle esihlweleni, yintoni esenza ngesigqubuthelo okhethekileyo, inxalenye engentla apho ezihonjiswe iintsiba yesikhova. Kwakhona, isithethe uyaxelelwa ukuba umyeni kwi kumsitho kumtshato kweziqalo kunye izithende, ilahle ingubo yakhe phezu emagxeni akhe ebomvu, ebizwa ngokuba "Chapaev".

Kule mihla Kazakhs sele phantse musa ukunxiba flamboyantly kunjalo, yenza akukho nketho nokuba iziganeko ezifana Kazakh lomtshato. amasiko Modern ngenceba uvumele abantu abatsha ukuba ukwambatha emhlophe ihempe kunye nebrukhwe isuti. Kunqweneleka ngokomthetho isuti ehleli, ngoko ke athungwe ukuya, umbala akuyonto ibalulekileyo. Noko ke, abantu abaninzi musa ukulibala malunga isigqubuthelo wesizwe, igxininisa nobukhazikhazi msitho.

Hayi nje ukhathazeke malunga ilokhwe umtshakazi, nto leyo eya Kazakh emsithweni. Amasiko mxelele ukuba azise "oluncinane", ngoko ngokuba iinkomo umtshato eziya kuxhelwa emkhosini. Isixa-mali kuxhomekeke yokuhlawula amatyala usapho, kusenokuba imvu ezimbalwa, amahashe okanye iinkomo. Thatha nabo kunye nezinye izipho, umzekelo, amalaphu eninzi, iziqhamo, iti. Loo nto inika umdla umlinganiselo womzalwana umtshakazi ukuba unyana-in kuxhomekeke kubungakanani ukuba anikezele iminikelo. Ukuba izihlobo intombazana kuhlala abanganelisekanga ubutyebi izipho, izithethe kukubayeka babonise ukunganeliseki kwabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, lo msebenzi osemqoka bathathe umfazi abazalwana umtshakazi lowo.

Ukhetho ngosuku lomtshato

Nokuba ukhetha umhla msitho womtshato Kazakhs naka lusekiwe kwiinkulungwane ezininzi ezadlulayo isiko. Ngokufuthi, oko ngemihla yokugqibela lonyaka ihlobo. Ngeli xesha, siphela i-ofisi yonqulo, ngaphandle ubuninzi iziqhamo kunye nemifuno apho, ngoko eli lelona xesha lifanelekileyo Kwimeko enjalo, njengoko Kazakh lomtshato. Isiko kunye imbali ibonisa ukuba Kazakhs umtshato ukungena awe. Spring kunye nobusika yomtshato ukudlala alufane.

oomolokazana Modern kunye abakhwenyana kuqhubeka ukuba ikhethe ukuba umsitho womtshato ngexesha inyanga le igcwele. Isizathu sokuba esi sigqibo nilukhanyiselo ebusuku, ukuyiphatha xa imidlalo ebusuku kunye nokhuphiswano, nto leyo iminyaka emininzi zizinto mandatory yale holide.

Oku akusoloko kusenzeka ukuthelekelela imozulu, kodwa ke idlala indima ebalulekileyo ngokukhetha umhla lomtshato. Kukholelwa ukuba ngokutshata esingenamafu, ilanga, indoda kwakunye nomfazi akayi ukuba buhlungu, ukuxabana omnye komnye. Nangona yemozulu embi ingqalelo yimpazamo embi, kuba, nakuba kunjalo, Kazakhs amaninzi musa ukunikela ingqalelo.

Ukubona umakoti

Ukubona intombazana ( "Kiz VSAT") - emkhosini sihle apho emtshatweni Kazakh iqala ukususela kwixesha lakudala. Isithethe womzalwana umtshakazi xa uxoxwa kule mini, ukuhleka alile. Joy kufuneka abuyisele into yokuba intombi otshatayo uyalungisa, ukhule entle ekrelekrele. Umthombo lonxunguphalo na imfuneko yokulahlekelwa intombazana lowo ngoku ebango intsapho.

Matchmakers umtshakazi ndemka ekhaya ekuseni kakhulu, maxa wambi kokumka yayo kuvela kwelanga. Isithethe ayikho ngengozi, ngokuba ilanga ehlabathini jikelele enxulumene ne sisiqalo ubomi obutsha. Usapho yokungafuni intombi ephuma endlwini ngaphandle ingoma ndlelantle yemveli, leyo ibizwa ngokuba "koshtasu ubushushu." Kwakhona inani ibalulekileyo matchmakers, kufuneka ibe limnqakathi. Ngokuqhelekileyo le ntombazana kufika matchmakers 5-7, kodwa abantu mhlawumbi ngaphezulu. Khokela inkqubo master wabantu, ngubani uzibiza "apho bass." Lo mntu umtshakazi kufuneka baphathwe ngentlonelo kubo bonke ubomi babo.

umsitho wedding

"Neka kiyar" - kwisiko, ngaphandle apho kukho ayikwazi kuqhutywa Kazakh yamsitho. Amasiko baxelelwa ukuba enze umsitho womtshato isimemo Mullah. Ngaphambi kokuba le ndoda wabeka isitya ezele ngamanzi, wayaleka ngeqhiya. Maxa wambi amanzi wongeza iswekile kunye netyuwa, ngokutsho inkolelo ethandwayo inika ntsako kushada iyabakhusela uyakrexeza. Emhlabeni mullahs ukuti izalamane nabahlobo bayamenywa ukuba msitho. Yena umthandazo, emva koko umtshakazi nomyeni phambi kwamangqina ukuqinisekisa imvume yakhe umtshato uthi.

urhulumente walo ukuba ngexesha lokukhulelwa abasetyhini ayikwazi kuqhutywa Kazakh yamsitho. Amasiko Siyaleza ukuhambisa umsitho, elinde ukuba ukuzalwa komntwana. Kule mihla oko kudla bekungenjalo ngokuthe ngqo, ngakumbi xa sithetha kwiinyanga zokuqala zokukhulelwa, xa sisenako ukuzimela.

evalelisa mkhosi

Ngokusebenzisa umtshato, intombazana kufuneka khe ngokusesikweni ndlelantle kakhokho, umsitho ubizwa ngokuba "koshtasu". "Koshtasu" - yinxalenye ebalulekileyo sisiganeko ezifana Kazakh amasiko yomtshato kunye nezithethe leyo nangoku ayikatshintshi abantu Kazakhstan. Umtshakazi athi savalelisa ngokweemvakalelo kubo bonke, ngaphandle kokukhetha, amalungu entsapho: unina, uyise, nabazalwana, noodade, kunye nezinye izihlobo abahlala kuloo ndlu.

Kwakhona, yena uzuyenze ingoma ntle, kunye athe wabonakala siveza ukuzisola kwakhe. Umtshakazi kufuneka abe nosizi ngale nto ukuba wazalwa inkwenkwe nentombazana, apho le nto kufuneka ukuba ashiye ikhaya usapho, ngoxa abazalwana bakhe banokuhlala kunye nabazali babo. Kwakhona uthembisa ukuba kungekudala ukutyelela usapho, izalamane anqwenela impilo entle nolonwabo.

Asimele silibale omnye amasiko umdla, apho sinxulumana mkhosi njengoko Kazakh lomtshato, nto leyo edla iimpawu amalungu ukumangala bezinye iintlanga. Umtshakazi ayikwazi ukuvela endlwini ngabazali bam 'ukuba unyaka emva kokuba betshatile. Oku kukuqinisekisa ukuba inkqubo ukunyenyisa kwikhaya intombazana entsha ezilula kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Noko ke, oku akuthethi ukuba umtshakazi kunyaka wonke akayi kuba nako ukuhlangabezana kunye nabazali kunye nezinye izalamane. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba intlanganiso akazange athabathe indawo endlwini kayise, ngoko, ngokubanzi aziyi kuqwalaselwa ukuhlukunyezwa.

Endlwini umyeni

Kwenzeka ntoni emva kokuba luphelile betshatile Kazakh kunye nendlela nabaqheleneyo umtshakazi kunye nendlu entsha? Ukufika amantombazana kananjalo sandulele yonke komthendeleko, umsitho obizwa "Kelin tusiru". Ngokutsho ngokwesithethe, yonke ilali kufuneka athathe inxaxheba bebingelela umtshakazi. Okubangel 'umdla kukuba, umtshakazi wagqiba ukuba ayinyuse baya emnyango wendlu, apho uya kuhlala kunye nomyeni wakhe. Yena ndatyala usekude kuloo lali, ekuyeni lentombazanyana kummelwane wayo elizayo. Ukuba ampheleke umtshakazi endlwini, ukungavumeli ubuso bakhe evulekileyo.

Musa iphele siko, kuxhomekeke Kazakh emsithweni, imisebenzi leyo ikushiye abasemzini. Umtshakazi embundwini womnyango kufuneka nakanjani niwele unyawo lwasekunene, kungenjalo ubomi bentsapho engahambanga kakuhle ukususela ekuqaleni. Azihlali endlwini yakhe wabukela abafazi ndihlanjwe kunye iilekese, bathi siyavuyisana. Oku kulandelwa itheko ezintle kwaphela, leyo wamema bonke abahlobo. Esi sidlo uhamba andibaweli emnandi, ukhuphiswano. UMtshakazi bonisa iindwendwe kwangoko, ixesha ichithela endlwini kuba screen okhethekileyo.

Isiko ukuvulwa ubuso

Uphume kwesithethe lomtshakazi - isigaba esilandelayo emthendelekweni, njengoko Kazakh lomtshato, izithethe kunye nembali ukuba babuyele iinkulungwane. Umtshakazi ubuso bakhe nesigqubuthelo, kungarhoxiswa ukuba njengeendwendwe sekuphakathi komthendeleko, ngalo eli xesha, nexesha lokufumba bonke abantu wamema lo mkhosi. Lo msitho lokuvula ubuso wentombazana bukaThixo ibizwa ngokuba "betashar" yena lusoloko kunye iingoma yemveli. Okulandelayo, umtshakazi wadibana ngokusemthethweni kunye nezalamane yomfazi, ngentlonelo uyayiphulaphula zabo neminqweno zempilo kunye nolonwabo, iingcebiso lobuhlobo. Emva koko, indoda esandula kubalwa kunye nomfazi ekugqibeleni iguqulelwa iyunithi eyahlukileyo yoluntu.

Kukho amaxesha xa umtshakazi wayengenalo ilungelo ukubakho emthendelekweni, leyo kuphetha ne-Kazakh yamsitho. Amasiko nezithethe nomtshakazi banamhlanje engasekho kunyanzeleka ukuba ulinde ubusuku lomtshato kwigumbi langasese, ngokuhlala phantsi kweliso elibukhali unina umyeni wakhe. UMtshakazi mihla ubukhulu becala ukuba mnandi iholide nabo.

anika umdla

Ngaphezulu kuchazwe malunga nendlela umtshato waseKazakh obanjwe ngayo, iifoto ezithathwe ngexesha leemithendeleko zemikhosi zingabonakala kwinqaku. Nangona kunjalo, akuzona zonke iinkcukacha ezithakazelisayo kwiintlobo ezinjalo ezidweliswe. Ngokomzekelo, bambalwa bayazi ukuba emva kokuba amantombazana abe ngumtshato abathathela iminyaka engama-13 ukuya ku-14, kwaye abafana baqatshelwe ukuba baqokelele umtshato ngo-14-15. Ukudalwa kwintsapho enjalo kumncinci kwakubonwa njengeluncedo, ngokwemigaqo yokuziphatha, abantu abatsha babengenalo ixesha lokwenza izenzo ezihlazo.

Umkhuba wasendulo awuzange uvumele ukuba ube ngumyeni nomfazi kumfana kunye nentombazana eyayingowentsapho efanayo. Akumangalisi ukuba amaninzi ama-Cossacks namhlanje ayazi kakuhle kakhulu ookhokho babo, baqhelana nezihlobo ukuya kwisizwe sesixhenxe. Kwakhona kuqwalaselwa iminyaka yobudala abafuna ukudlala umtshato. Kuba umtshakazi akavumelekanga ukuba abe mdala kunomyeni iminyaka engaphezu kwe-8. Indoda ingadala kunomfazi ozayo kwikominyaka engama-25. Ngoku iithintelo ezinjalo zijongwa ngaphantsi kunexesha elidlulileyo, nangona kunjalo, azikhohliwe ngokupheleleyo.

Olunye uhlobo olunomdla oluthandayo olwenziwe ngamasiko, ngaphandle kokuthi umtshato waseKazakh awukwazi ukwenza. Ilungelo lokwenza i-toasts linikezelwa kuphela kwiintsapho ezidala, iintlobo ezincinane kumthendeleko womtshato uthathwa njengento yokuhlambalaza.

Le ngcaciso enomdla kakhulu malunga nesiganeko esinjalo njengomtshato waseKazakh. Amasiko, izithethe, iifoto - eli nqaku linalo lonke ulwazi malunga nale mcimbi.