Izizathu sokupheliswa amalungelo lwabazali sikayise: inzaliseko ngokungafanelekanga yenxaxheba yabazali, ukuphathwa kakubi ngokwasengqondweni okanye ngokwasemzimbeni, utywala nokuba likhoboka leziyobisi

Yintoni ibe izizathu ukuhluthwa amalungelo komzali nguyise? Lo mbuzo umdla abafazi abaninzi abangenileyo bebengekho kweyona ndawo intle ngokoMthetho kunye owayesakuba ngumlingane. Lo mthetho IsiRashiya oluninzi ngesizathu sokuba nokohlutha ilungelo umzali umntwana. Ziziphi iimeko na kunokwenzeka? Nendlela ukuphumeza iingcamango ukufezekiswa koko bakwenzayo? Enyanisweni, yonke into ayikho nzima kubonakala. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukwazi ukuba mayicacise ukuba isigqibo sakhe. Kwanele ukuba bahlole Code osapho i-Russian Federation.

Yintoni amalungelo lwabazali

Ukuqala ukuqonda ukuba uhlobo ingqiqo jikelele kuthethwa enika amalungelo lobuzali. Ngenxa kwikota nganye kumthetho IsiRashiya inkcazelo yayo.

Sinokuthi amalungelo nabazali - ukuba luxanduva lwabo umntwana. Kufuneka kuba noxanduva izinto ezingephi, ukuba enze imfundo yakhe ukuba ukunika unyango olufanelekileyo, nto leyo inegalelo kuphuhliso efanelekileyo ngamnye.

Amalungelo ngawo - ngumzali onoxanduva umntwana. Nokungalali lukatata kwenzeka ngokufuthi mva nje. Kwaye kwenzeka ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo.

amalungelo njani idima

Eyona nto kukuba inkqubo phantsi isifundo isetyenziswa ngeendlela ezininzi. Yintoni na? ERashiya, nobaba bemvelo lokwala umntwana engephi ngezi ndlela zilandelayo:

• ziinkundla;
• ngokuzimeleyo;
• ngenxa yokudluliselwa nezibophelelo zawo (ngokuqhelekileyo indoda omtsha ex-ngumfazi).

Amaninzi oko luguqulelo yokuqala iziganeko ezenzekayo. Yaye akukho izibheno ummi kwiinkundla, kunye nomama ezingephi ngenxa ezinye izizathu oko. Makungaze naphantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko ukuhluthwa ngutata? Indlela ukuguqulela iingcinga zibe nto? Ingakumbi xa ngumbuzo womgwebo.

ukusebenza ngendlela engafanelekanga izibopho

I isizathu yokuqala, kodwa hayi kakhulu ukuba uyise unganqamla okanye amalungelo bazisunduze - yindlela yokusebenza engafanelekanga imisebenzi yabazali. Kubonakala ukuba abazali bathathe uxanduva bekhulisa kunye nophuhliso, kwakunye-ntle umntwana.

Ngako oko, ukuba uyihlo ayikwazi ukumelana nezi ngongoma, ungenza kusisusa ilungelo lakhe ukusebenzisa ukukhathalela umntwana. Kodwa khumbula ukuba ukungabikho ingeniso evela ngummi - oko kukuthi akukho sizathu basole kuye yokhathalelo engafanelekanga.

Le nto ibandakanya eziliqela ezinye iinketho. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntwana izilima umphelo ngenxa yokuba upopu akayigcini umkhondo wosana. Okanye xa umntwana indlala, njengoko kayise womntwana lowo akanako luphe ludle. Sinokuthi, notata lingasebenzi izibophelelo zayo, okanye wenza kubo, njengoko kufuneka.

udlame

Ziziphi ezinye izizathu sokupheliswa amalungelo lwabazali sikayise olwenzekayo? Kwinqaku le-69 Code osapho i-Russian Federation kukho uluhlu ngokupheleleyo amatyala apho kunokwenzeka ukuqonda lo mbono. Le ndlela elandelayo kuxhaphakile kakhulu ngakumbi. Sithetha malunga nobundlobongela emzimbeni.

Ebetha umntwana - akukho ibhaxa nje ukuba lokuthintela, uze ngokupheleleyo evinjwa amalungelo, kodwa ityala lolwaphulo-mthetho. Ngoko ke, ngokuba nisuka nokulindwa kuyimfuneko ukwenza isikhalazo kubazali babo. Okanye komnye wabo.

Ngoku ubundlobongela nokuhlukunyezwa ukulungiselela iinjongo zemfundo bezonxibelelwano bukhatshwa sisohlwayo ngumthetho. Kuya emana umntwana. Ukuba abazali bayakhalaza kuye kuqala kweliso nokuqashwa. Emva koko kulandele isilumkiso. Ukuba ugonyamelo usaqhubeka, landela nomqathango amalungelo lobuzali. A indawo yokugcina ziya kuhluthwa kubo.

Ihluke na imeko, apho uyise - enguzwilakhe basekhaya, udlame emzimbeni abasenkonzweni. Ke unina womntwana unelungelo lokuba uqhagamshelane mandla ezifanelekileyo utata yebhayoloji wenza kube nzima ukunyamekela abantwana ukuba ukuhlasela.

Uhlekisa umkakhe

Kodwa akukho yonke into enxulumene ngxaki. Izizathu sokupheliswa amalungelo lwabazali sikayise zahlukene. Phakathi kwazo nje kakubi nje emzimbeni we umntwana, kodwa phezu unina womntwana. esasibizwa Domestic kuyo nayiphi na imeko, ungakwazi noba anciphise amalungelo okanye uthathe nazo ngokupheleleyo.

Esinye isizathu sokuba umama minor unalo ithuba ukuze bazisunduze amalungelo uyise - yinto lilinge ubomi kunye nempilo amalungu entsapho. Lo mbuzo ibaluleke na isiphumo, kwaye ubukho ukugwintwa. Ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba uqhagamshelane abasemagunyeni abafanelekileyo ukuqinisekisa ukuba utata eziphilayo (okanye sele adopter), ndayihluthwa kwamalungelo umzali.

ukunyhashwa kwamalungelo

Ngokubanzi, eRashiya kukho bade kakhulu ubawo olungileyo okanye unina ofezekileyo ububandezwayo amalungelo lobuzali. Nje musani athobele nemigangatho emisiweyo ukukhathalela umntwana. Umba elandelayo ezaqala kwi-Code osapho i-Russian Federation malunga ngokunqunyanyiswa uxanduva lwabazali, nguye kakubi igunya lakhe.

Ewe, kufuneka bafundise abantwana. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba kuvumelekile ukubandakanyeka kwabo inxaxheba kwizinto zasekhaya. Kodwa ngaphandle gadalala. neemfuno zabantwana kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo. Yaye umzali kufuneka kakubi amalungelo abo.

Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntwana ekwenzeni sicakazana endlwini, leyo kuyise - nokuhlukunyezwa. Kodwa cela umntwana ukunceda, umzekelo, ahlambe izitya - yinto eqhelekileyo. Ngako oko, amandla umntwana ukwenza oko ngokucacile yena akafuni, kakhulu, asikwazi. Imeko engalawulwa ngulo mthetho - inkqubo ebalulekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, zokudada. Kodwa onyanzelwayo ukuba anikele umntwana bhokisi ukuba umntwana akakhathali, akwenze. Esi senzo kwakhona kuthathwa kakubi kwamalungelo lobuzali. Ke ukuba Pope lalifumene izikhalazo, abasemagunyeni ngabalondolozi kuya kufuneka bajonge usapho.

isondlo

-Non intlawulo yenkxaso yomntwana - na esinye isizathu, nto leyo evumela unina womntwana isuswe uxanduva ngokupheleleyo kayise ukuba akhuliswe kakuhle abantwana. izibophelelo Maintenance kuthathwa umsebenzi lwabazali. Ingakumbi xa sithetha ngayo abazali umtshato. Ngokomzekelo, iqabane elinye lonke ixesha abaphila minor. Kwaye athwala imfundo yokwenene kunye nokhathalelo. Ityala yesibini ngokusebenzisa yesondlo.

Ukuba umzali uhlawula uyala ukutshintshela iimali ukuze kugcinwe umntwana, umzali yakhe, ndayihluthwa amalungelo ngokupheleleyo. Kuphela practice ngokuqhelekileyo kuqala ukuzama ukwenza iintlawulo, ngoko umda ilungelo ngumzali. Kuphela phantsi nokuphetshwa umntwana ukuxhasa uyise ahluthwe ilungelo ukusebenzisa kwenkathalo yomzali wokugqibela engephi.

udlame engqondweni

Ngoku oozwilakhe zasekhaya awukwazi ukusebenzisa ubundlobongela emzimbeni. Kuyaqapheleka ngokukhawuleza kakhulu. Kunye nokubetha nebhetri ommi unokuba neengxaki emibi ngaphezu kokuba osweleyo elula kwamalungelo umzali. Ngoko ke, abantu abaninzi bakhetha indlela eyahlukileyo. Yintoni na?

Oku malunga nobundlobongela nasengqondweni. Ukuma, izisongelo, ukuxhaphaza igunya labo lobuzali, - konke oku kunempembelelo elibi ekukhuleni umntwana lowo. Izizathu sokupheliswa amalungelo lwabazali sikayise ziquka nje emzimbeni, kodwa ubundlobongela nasengqondweni. Besiya kuba nzima ngakumbi, kodwa enokwenziwa. Kulo mzekelo, utata kungenzeka ukuba ngokwenene uvinjwe amalungelo lobuzali. Ngokuba kube ubundlobongela psychological ububi ngaphezulu kwe emzimbeni. Mhlawumbi le yenye ezingunobangela eqhelekileyo unyango yabafazi kwiziphathamandla ezifanelekileyo uncedo.

utshwala

Okulandelayo kuza imikhwa emibi. Abazali nto kufuneka ukuba ufake umzekelo ombi ebantwaneni. Kunye nemikhwa emibi ukudlala a joke okhohlakeleyo kunye noyise. Ingakumbi ukuba umntu utyholwa butywala. Nkqu photo kwezinye kutshanje, ebonisa yokusela utywala kunokukhokelela ekubeni ukupheliswa lwamalungelo lobuzali.

Ngokuqhelekileyo namazwi ahambelanayo adlulisele loo mfazi, ukuba indoda yakhe esela kwaye akakwazi ukuyeka. Ke kucetyiswa ukuba ucinge ukuhluthwa amalungelo lwabazali kunye nalowo akakwazi ukulawula indlela emva kokuthatha iziselo ezinxilisayo. Oku kwakhona sizathu esihle. Enyanisweni, ngamaxesha ezinjalo, abemi uyakwazi ukusebenzisa umntwana okanye kakubi unina wakhe emzimbeni. Nokungakwazi ukulawula ukuziphatha xa inti nefuthe elibi kuphuhliso ngokweemvakalelo nangokwasengqondweni umntwana. Le mpikiswano ngamandla, nto leyo eya kukunceda ukulahla uyise ngokungakhathali.

iziyobisi

Indlela ukuze bazisunduze umntu lukatata, nto leyo eye nalo mkhwa mbi? elula kakhulu. Lwanele ukubona ukuba ezi mikhuba likhoboka yingozi kakhulu. Kunye ukuphuza ecacileyo. Kodwa ukupheliswa amalungelo yabazali kwakhona kunokwenzeka, ukuba umzali unesifo ngamakhoboka eziyobisi.

Oku nokuba kuquka ukwamkela ityala elinye iziyobisi. Otywala neziyobisi abakhotyokiswe - abazali priori bonakele. Bona abakwazi ukuba ukunika inkathalo efanelekileyo umntwana. Kwaye ukufumana abantu abanjalo akusingisi kokhona kuxhamle abantwana.

Okunye ngokuya

Ukuba usela umyeni, kungathatha amalungelo akhe lobuzali. Xa uyise womntwana kuthatha iziyobisi, mhlawumbi. Kodwa asiyiyo likhoboka ezinobungozi. Ezininzi ngakumbi. Ingongoma kukuba na izixhomekeki unganciphisa zingabi sawakhathalela amalungelo lwabazali nawuphi na umzali.

Ngokomzekelo, kwiminyaka yakutshanje ngokubanzi ukungcakaza. Akunjalo wokwenene yaye virtual nako kuqwalaselwa. Oosonzuluwazi baqaphela ukuba ukuxhomekeka zobuchwepheshe kunye nemidlalo yekhompyutha kufana nokuba likhoboka leziyobisi. Okanye utywala. Ngoko ke, unina uya kuba isizathu sokucinga ngendlela ukukhanyela makavume uyise ngokungakhathali.

ukuze uxhumane

Yintoni inkqubo ukupheliswa amalungelo lobuzali? Yintoni ekufuneka ukuba ndiqale ntoni oku? Isigaba sokuqala - ukuqokelela of kotshutshiso ubungqina. Emva wafunda intshukumo luqulathe nemiphumo emibi. Ngoko ke kufuneka ukuba ubungqina ngandlel izityholo. Umzekelo, ukuba ukususa ngokundibetha, ukuba kubiza amangqina, ukubonelela Ekugqibeleni ngengqondo umntwana. Xa ubungqina obuqokelelwe, unako ukufaka isikhalazo kwinkundla yesithili. yonke Inkqubo ukuhluthwa amalungelo yabazali ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:

1. Ukuqokelelwa kweentlawulo ubungqina.
2. Ukuzoba up ibango ukuhluthwa amalungelo komzali nguyise.
3. amangqina Isimemo (bengenamdla).
4. Ukuthatha inxaxheba kulingo kunye nabameli beSebe nokulindwa.
5. Idibanisa isigqibo sokugqibela.

Abasemagunyeni enkundla linokubhekisela nje kuphela ngumama umntwana. Ngo-Russia, kunye isikhalazo banelungelo lizayo:

• abagcina;
• trustees;
• izihlobo close;
• ngqo minor unina;
• naliphi na iziko lemfundo;
• indawo yokunakekela ezempilo;
• igqwetha;
• imizimba of trusteeship nokugada.

INkundla yeSithili kuya kufuneka ukuba ubhale isicelo ukuhluthwa amalungelo lwabazali sikayise. Ke uhlala ukuba silinde ukuba intlanganiso. Kwaye ukuba nenxaxheba kulo.

Ukuze okuhlangabezana maxwebhu alandelayo aqhotyoshelwe:

• Ngokuchongwa ocela;
• isiqinisekiso sokuzalwa umntwana;
• ubungqina iintlawulo (photo, ividiyo, izikhokelo zonyango, izigqibo ezithathwe ngokundibetha, njalo-njalo);
• isiqinisekiso somtshato / komtshato (ukuba ikhona);
• iphepha, engqina ukuqeshwa yenkxaso yomntwana;
• nabo amangqina zabo ubungqina zinganefuthe ikhondo lweziganeko.