Ingaba godparents yokuba indoda nomfazi? Masiqonde

Nikela ukuba godparents - loo nto luphawu lokuba zibonakaliswa bafanele ukufundisa umntu omtsha, weza kuphela sini, ukuziphatha kobuKristu. Oku kuthetha ukuba abazali elizayo inkolo yakho ayikho kwamathandabuzo. Kodwa ngokuya, inani godparents ukuba umntwana abe isikhubekiso phakathi kwabazali kunye nebandla. kufuneka Bangaphi kubo? Ingaba godparents yokuba indoda nomfazi abe nomntwana omnye? Abazali zokomoya kuba ngumntu njani?

Umbuzo ngulo, ingaba kukho uthixo-indoda nomfazi ngaxeshanye, iingqondo liwuthuthumbisa ka-Orthodox abantu noonobangela mpikiswano, nkqu kwiiforam zonqulo kunye neengxoxo-mpikiswano phakathi nababingeleli. Ngokutsho kwimithetho Orthodox, ukuba kwisiko yayigqalwa nigqibela yonke imithetho, omnye kuphela ekwazi umzali ngokomoya - kuba iintsana iinkunzi kukuba owayemele, kunye namantombazana - Ummeli ngokulandelelanayo. Lo mngcelele yesibini Akunyanzelekanga ukuba, oko kuphela xa isicelo yabazali.

Ababingeleli Orthodox utshiwe mpikiswano kwi sifundo. Ngokuqinisekileyo ayikwazi kuphela ibe Ummeli kunye noyise womntwana. Ngokwembono abachasi yomnqamlezo ukuya indoda nomfazi abatshatileyo amaqabane yokwenene emva komtshato iyunithi enye, kwaye ukuba zombini umnqamlezo - into engalunganga. Kodwa ayikwazi ukuba njengomqobo kubo elubhaptizweni abantwana ezahlukeneyo ukusuka usapho efanayo. Abaxhasi into yokuba isibini esitshatileyo unokuba godparents, isibheno yokuba i Sinodi oyiNgcwele wenza iingcaciso kwi ummiselo ka December 31, 1837 Bona sifunda ukuba breviary of owayemele enye kuphela ngokunxulumene godson isini, ukuba asikho isizathu sokukholelwa godparents abantu ekho ngenxa yayo nayiphi nomini ngokomoya, yaye ngoko ningabaleli ukuba atshate omnye.

Kuyenzeka ukuba aseke impendulo umbuzo wokuba ingaba kukho godparents yokuba indoda nomfazi, ngolu hlobo lulandelayo. Ukuba umtshato wabo ebhaliswe kuphela kwi-ofisi yobhaliso, waye wamiselwa ibandla, ngoko mhlawumbi, umbingeleli zeCawa Orthodox babengayi ukuchasa le sibini sele abamkeli ezimbini ngobhaptizo, ngenxa imithetho zebandla, umtshato wabo akukho nto zibambene nayo ezulwini. Kukwasebenza kwanjalo kuyo ezi meko zilandelayo apho abazali kuba ngokomoya - indoda emikhosini yenkolo nomfazi angangena emtshatweni emva kokuba ebhaptiziwe, kwaye sihlale kunye godparents.

abazali Modern, Kakade ke, sifuna godparents zazikufuphi kusapho godson yakhe, uze ukhethe abamkeli inani abahlobo okanye izalamane. Avareji yenani godparents kumsitho - ezimbini indoda nebhinqa. Ayifane ngubani oyilawulayo inkcubeko enye umnqamlezo. Isizathu soku ayikho kakhulu kwi zokomoya njengoko kwi aspect eziphathekayo. Christening kubeka phezu imisebenzi yokomoya yabazali kuphela zonqulo zemfundo, kodwa umbandela - umzekelo, kufuneka ndivuyisane umntwana yokomoya leholide, elithetha ukunika izipho. Kakade ke, ingqalelo ngempumelelo ngakumbi owayemele okanye ummeli, ngcono ukwenzela umntwana.

In emaphandleni ngombuzo, nokuba ingaba kukho godparents yokuba indoda nomfazi, le meko nokuba lula. Amaninzi kwiindawo ezisemaphandleni ukuba nazo nkqu isithethe abane okanye ngaphezulu Kum. Kukho ikhethiwe ezitshatileyo ezimbini okanye ezine, yaye andizange ndinikhathaze ngakufuna nto ngezinto ezinjalo - ukuba yinyaniso na okanye hayi, ngokwemiqathango unqulo. Kodwa ke ukuba ngaba imiba Orthodox ebalulekileyo kuwe, kungcono, kakade, ubonane umbingeleli, uze ukhethe godparents. Kwaye kungcono ukukhetha kubo sipaji nentliziyo. abantu ngokwenene zonqulo, nditsho ngaphandle kokuba godparents ze isiko, soloko inkxaso umntwana wakho ngephanyazo onzima ziyithumele endleleni, nokuba baya kuba indoda nomfazi, akukho kubaluleke kangaka. Ukuze umntwana kunye neqabane lakho godparents ziya kuba umnqamlezo ngokuzenzekelayo.