Indlela ukuzalisekisa umnqweno

mhlawumbi ngamnye kuthi abe umnqweno, lowo malunga esikwaziyo kuphela, uvale amehlo akhe, sibona phambi kwenu dream.

Amaninzi ke umnqweno wendalo onothando, sizama ukucinga, kuba bazizityebi kakhulu ngokweemvakalelo. Kuyenzeka ukuba amanye baphupha malunga nendlela ukuphumelela kwilottery okanye uthenge yakho ilokhwe oyithandayo, kodwa ukufumana ingqalelo abantu abanomdla sifuna kakhulu ngakumbi.

Xa kunjalo, ngaba le ndlela ukuze kuqaliswe sinomnqweno mnye, nokuba ucinga ntoni na. Ndingathanda ukuba alumkise ukuba, ebhekisela kumntu ethile umnqweno wakhe, thina nje asikwazi kuphosakele ukucinga, njengoko kuya kuba ngcono ukuba kuthi, kodwa ukuzama ukuba ndizinyathele ukuthanda abanye. Kwaye loo nto elungileyo.

Wenza ntoni na nendlela ukucinga umnqweno?

Mhlawumbi kufuneka baqalise ukuqonda isimo, oko kukuthi ukuqonda ukuba yintoni kanye uyakwazi ukutsala iimeko ephuhlisa ebomini bakho. Abo bantu baye benza umsebenzi omkhulu kangaka phezu kwakhe yaye bakwazi ukuqonda imeko yabo, eyona kufutshane kwimpumelelo.

Ke kaloku, ukuba ngokwaneleyo kakuhle yenzelwe ngabunye baze isikhundla sakhe ebomini, kufuneka ukuqulunqa umnqweno wentliziyo yakho ngokucacileyo. Bekuya kuba echanekileyo xa nangoku akuyi kuphazamisana abantu bolunye uhlanga iingcinga zenu, shiya imeko iphela kwaye "isigqibo" yintoni ofanele uyenze. Ngamana Siyathembisa uthando lwakho onwabile - oku ubudlelwane ukuba ubuze leyo, mhlawumbi ufuna ukuba akhulule indawo ukuhlangabezana iqabane lakho umphefumlo lokwenyaniso? Beka ithemba lakho amandla aphezulu!

Imiphumo ayilunganga aliqulunqileyo umnqweno ngamanye amaxesha kukhokelela kwiziphumo engalunganga ulindele.

Ngoku kufuneka uzive nayo yonke isiqu sam ukuba umnqweno wakho esele sizalisekiswe. Kufuneka va uvuyo eyeyam enyemba kuphuma. Umzekelo, ufuna imoto entsha. Hlala kamnandi esitulweni ekhaya, uvale amehlo akho, ubeke izandla zakho phezu ivili ngengqondo. Mamela hums motor namavumba isithuthi entsha kraca. I licace unokuthelekelela umnqweno yakho ebomini, le ngcono nangokukhawuleza kuya kuba nako ukwenzeka.

Akukho mfuneko anithandabuzi, kwamathandabuzo xha ngomzuzu yokusebenza.

Ukuba ufuna impendulo yombuzo njani ukuzalisekisa umnqweno, yenza nokuthelekelela ibhodi, apho bancamathisele imifanekiso ocacileyo izimvo zakho nesizixabisayo. Mhlawumbi kuya kuba inja encinane, yaye mhlawumbi indlu entsha enkulu. Enyanisweni, musa na isigqibo ukuba oku - umnqweno elula, nokuba - enkulu yaye kunzima ukuphumeza. Wendalo yonke uya kusabela ngokufanayo nayiphi na isicelo, ukuba kanye uza kuzizalisekisa zonke iimfuno kwaye baya kuba nako ukuva umnini sekratshi obufihliweyo.

Musa ukulibala ukuba kufuneka ucinge rhoqo ngomqweno wakho, ukuba alimise iimvakalelo zabo entle kuwo, luphe into amandla abo.

Rhoqo kangangoko, ndiyaqikelela ukuba yonke into yenzeke, kwaye novuyo kunye novuyo lokwenene kulo. Okukhona bayibeka ezifihlakeleyo, engokoqobo kokukhona kuya kuba. Akukho mntu uthi kuya kuthatha ixesha elide kangakanani na ukuqinisekisa ukuba umnqweno wakho osenyongweni sizaliseke, kodwa musa ukuyishiya mathandabuzo, bangethi amandla.

Ungaze uzame ukucinga nantoni na enokubangela umonakalo umntu. Nokuba ngumntu embi, okanye ikati ummelwane andwebileyo abaye bangena ngumkhwa ekhwela ibhalkhoni yakho. Musa unqwenela umonakalo nabani na, yaye musa ukuzama Impindezelo yeyam. Ukwenziwa iminqweno kufuneka lungabi lubi.

On top of bonke, bendiya kuthi ukuba kufuneka uzive ukuba izicwangciso zethu azaliseke. Kufuneka ukunikela ngokupheleleyo iimvakalelo zabo umnqweno amgxothe yonke kwamathandabuzo, kwaye kugxininisa kuphela neemvakalelo ezintle, leyo zizele uzithembe nolonwabo okuba ukhulelwe.