Indlela ukuxhobisa igumbi ukuba ilungu ngalinye lentsapho?

Ukuthenga indawo yokuhlala, okanye ukwenza kwigumbi labo endala salungiswa, ngamnye kuthi ucinga ngale mibuzo: "Indlela ukuxhobisa igumbi leendwendwe? kufuneka ibe yintoni lokulala? Indlela amalungiselelo igumbi ephilileyo ukwenzela ukuba ofudumeleyo kwaye bekhululekile, usapho lwakho kuphela, kodwa abamenyiweyo? Indlela ukwenza ikhaya lakho olufudumeleyo kunye ezimnandi, ukuze yonke intsapho yakho emva yokusebenza lixakekile okanye imini sisikolo Zikhawulezela ekhaya? "

Omnye uya kuthi, 'Yintoni ingxaki? Ukuqasha nomyili, ezinobuchule, ngoko uyazi kakuhle ukuba amalungiselelo indlela igumbi. " Kule ngxelo kukho ingqolowa wenyaniso, kodwa kukho ezinye bokuqonda. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba iinkonzo umyili ziba eqolo, kodwa ukuba imeko yakho yemali ikuvumela ukuba wenze oko, ngoko kutheni na?

Abaninzi bakholelwa, kwaye sikholisa ukuba nemibono yabo ukuba asizizo zonke, nkqu amanqanaba aphezulu kakhulu zobungcali bayakwazi ukuqonda kwaye uzive emoyeni ikhaya lakho. Ngapha koko, indlu - nto nje iindonga zone kunye iibhokisi somthi ifenitshala, kukho ngaphezulu kule enye bonke sengqondo, imbono efanayo zeemeko ezithile, enye zonke zezulu ukuba luphefumle apho kuba lula xa umphefumlo ukuphindisela.

Le meko nokuba nzima ngakumbi xa sicinga ngendlela adwelise kwigumbi usana. Okanye singathi, akusekho umntwana, kodwa hayi njengomntu omdala. Njani kumenza azive kuyo inkosi, angathanda ukuba bameme abahlobo kweli gumbi, musa ukuthandabuza, ngelixa kuye athobekile kwaye asihambelani kakhulu ephakadeni meko? Ngamanye amazwi, indlela amalungiselelo egumbini elivisayo, ukuba ukhululekile kuwo?

Kubonakala ngathi kakhulu kutshanje uye babephikisana ngento pokleit kwi nursery lodonga - ngeebhola okanye Matryoshka. Kwaye namhlanje, le lodonga sele ezityatyekwe iiposta kunye iifoto ezithile ngabantu komhlaba. Kutshanje, ehleli ecaleni kwebhedi na usana lwakhe, ukuba sele ufunde kuye amabali lokulala, yaye namhlanje imeko kobusuku, kwaye awukwazi ukuyisusa ukusuka computer. Izolo yakho imiba ubuthongo umntwana, kwaye iphela ilangazelela ukuba impendulo yakho, kodwa namhlanje wonke mbuzo impendulo yayo.

Wena ke ukuba kwavuyiswana - umntwana wakho wanzonza, Noko ke, okwangoku babe abadala. Ngeli xesha kunzima kakhulu ukufumana into enivumelana kuyo nayiphi na umba, kubandakanywa ukwenza amalungiselelo indlela igumbi kuye. Ufuna oda into efanayo xa umbono wakho ingqiqo nendawo enkulu yokuhlala, yaye kufuneka into "cool", oko kukuthi engaqhelekanga kwaye angaqhelekanga, engqamana izimvo zakhe malunga ikhaya mihla. Indlela ukufikelela ukusilela? Indlela yokwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo?

Xa nelungiselelo igumbi elivisayo kufuneka bathathe inxaxheba ngokukhutheleyo kwingxoxo zonke, nokuba neenkcukacha ezincinane. Kuphela kule meko uya kufumana egumbini amaphupha akho. Predostvte ithuba lokuba baveze izimvo zabo. Musa baqhankqalaze xa esandula vali iisilingi bazoba igraffiti kunye zazityatyekwa ezintsha lodongo iipowusta eziqaqambileyo. Kule meko, injongo yakho - ngendlela echanekileyo ukugqithisa umntwana wakhe amthandayo babecinga ukuba igumbi simkhonze injongo yayo engundoqo - ukuze bonwabe yaye zisebenza. Kufuneka ube konke okuyimfuneko ukuze zokufunda kunye nolonwabo - elukhukweni, edesikeni kunye bookcases ngubo.