Indlela ukuphuhlisa intetho zomntwana. Tips for abazali abatsha

Uvuyo kakhulu ekukhuleni komntwana lomzali ngamnye eqwalasela mzuzu xa umntwana eqalisa ukuba bathethe. Kakade ke, sonke iqala izandi ezilula amagama. Eli ke linyathelo lokuqala umntwana kwi indlela wabagagamela intetho. Le nkqubo ixesha elide kakhulu yaye zifuna imigudu hayi kuphela umntwana kodwa abazali - kuba ufuna kakhulu umgudu ukuze kukhuselwe umdla wosana ukuya intetho. Kukho ezimbalwa imithetho elula, njani ukuphuhlisa oko umntwana.

Elinomthetho wokuqala: umele ungaze baqikelele iingcinga umntwana. imeko nganye kwenzeka: yobudala toddler ukusuka kwenye enesiqingatha ukuya kwiminyaka emibini ibonisa, umzekelo, kwi cat kwaye athi, "Kisya". UMama kwangoko uchola ingcamango yokuba umntwana, kwaye iqala ukuba ndithi: "Ewe, u ta va a ikati. Mhle kakhulu. Uyabona, yena uhamba abantu basetyhini. " Umama uthe yonke le itakane, kutheni yena into ukudibanisa? Ekubeni wabuza lo mbuzo, ukuphuhlisa indlela oko umntwana, ngoko kuqala kwiinto zonke, ukuba baqashele iingcinga zakhe. Kubhetele ukuba ukubuza imibuzo umntwana wakho uze ulindele ukuba impendulo, nokuba uyazi kwangaphambili ukuba uya kusabela.

ulawulo yesibini: Qhubeka uthetha nomntwana wakho. Ewe, kunye nomntwana, yaye hayi nje phambi kwakhe umntu. Ukufunda amabali kids, yima ucele oko, ngokwembono yakhe, kuza kwenzeka ntoni elandelayo, ukuba iqhawe tale uya kusabela. Musa ukucinga ukuba xa usana cwaka, ngoko ke ayithethi kwanto. Musa ukulibala ukuba kwakufuneka ixesha lokucinga, ngoko musa sukela ukuwuphendula, kwaye silindele ngomonde. Umba ibalulekileyo njani ukuphuhlisa oko umntwana, kukuvuselela kuyo intetho. Buza imibuzo ngaphezulu. Le abantwana emi-2 - oku wacinga ngokuvakalayo.

Umthetho lesithathu: kuyimfuneko ukufundisa usana ukuthetha umnikelo ekunene. Kufuneka ukuba indlela obucokisekileyo umbuzo njani ukuphuhlisa oko umntwana 2 ubudala ngokuchanekileyo. usana luye amagama okuqala alula, ngoko amabinzana kunye ke idluliselwe isindululo. Yaye nantsi ke umsebenzi nabazali - ukuba uncede umntwana wakho afunde ubugcisa intetho ngokupheleleyo. Buza kuye phambili imibuzo, cela ukuba ukunixelela lwesifundo ifumaneka kwi indlela yokuphuma wakho ukuba uhambe, izilwanyana, iintaka.

Umthetho sesine: ndibile bonke ubusuku nomntwana wakho ngaloo mini kwakhona. Ngaphambi kokuba ulale , athethe kubo ngoko ndikubonile, ngaloo mini. Mbuze ukuba wayefuna ukwenza ngomso, ukwakha izicwangciso kunye. Ukuba usuku kunye, ngoko ke umntwana akuxelele into ayenzayo kwaye nabo, yintoni entsha, wabona waza wafunda. Kwezi zihlandlo, itakane ayikhuli kuphela, kodwa kufunda ukumamela abanye. iincoko ezinjalo luncedo kakhulu abazali ukuphuhlisa kakuhle intetho ebantwaneni iminyaka emi-2 aze abafundise ukuba bacinge ngokuqiqisisisayo ngokuthe ngcembe.

Umthetho sesihlanu: Buza umntwana wakho ukuba ukuchaza into nganye. Nikelani ingqalelo ukuya kuyo zonke izinto eqaqambileyo, mxelele ukuba ubone kunye. Ixesha elizayo ubona umthi entsha, ilifu okanye isilwanyana, cela itakane ngokwakhe ukuchaza oko ngawakho amazwi akho. Usenakho nokucela ukuba enze i ibali enxulumene noko akubona. Oku kuya kukunceda nje ukuba baphendule umbuzo njani ukuphuhlisa oko umntwana, kodwa umbuzo indlela yokuphuhlisa ngqondweni wakhe.

Umthetho yesithandathu: yinto yokugqibela kunye ibalulekileyo umba njani ukuphuhlisa oko umntwana iminyaka emi-2 - ngamaxesha onke bathethe ngokuchanekileyo. Akukho mfuneko SokufundaName nomntwana, bezama ukuzigqwetha amazwi ngendlela yayo. Musa ukuphinda amagama ephosakeleyo uthethe itakane, usoloko asilungise kuye ixelela uguqulelo echanekileyo, kusenokufuneka ukuba uphinde ilizwi elifanayo izihlandlo 10 emgceni, kodwa umntwana uya kuyikhumbula ngokuchanekileyo. Musa ukulibala, kweli xesha umntwana - isipili yakho, ulingisa ngokupheleleyo, yaye njengoko usithi wena, kwaye izakuzama ukuthetha encane yakho.

Sinethemba lokuba la macebiso kuya kukunceda ufundise umntwana kunokuba athethe nje ukuthetha kakuhle, ukucinga ukuphuhlisa ukucamanga kwabo. Kufuneka nje ukuzama ukwenza umgudu.