Thina sonke babantu, bonke - abantu, bonke ezahlukeneyo, kwaye ke wonke ubani imbono ukulunga, ubulungisa kunye neminye imilinganiselo yokuziphatha ngentsulungeko. Njengoko kwakunye iinjongo zabo, nto leyo ilingana, leyo guided izenzo zabo. Kakade ke, uninzi abanako ukumkholisa, yaye oko bekuya kuba bubudenge ukuzama ziyeke iimfuno jikelele: kulula ukuphulukana uzithanda, yobuntu. Ngenxa yoko, kuyimfuneko kulo mba, kwelinye icala, ukuba ahlale enyanisekile ngokwayo, yaye kwelinye - ukuzama ukuhlangabezana neemfuno kunye neemfuno iqela reference ukuba loluphi, akayi ngaphaya yemveli, ingqinwe eminyaka imilinganiselo yokuziphatha.
Yiba kuhle kakhulu
Izifundo lokuqala njani ukuba abe yindoda elungileyo, sifumana njengomntwana. Ukunceda abadala kwaye musa ityala omncinane, ukukhusela ababuthathaka bangayeki kwi asiyeyamagorha, zama ukuphikisa win logic, ingqondo, kungekhona amanqindi akhe, ukuba ndithetha inyaniso musani balondolozelwa elusindisweni, ukuba baphendule ngezenzo zabo kwaye wandifihlela sikabani umva ... Musa ukuba bukhali kwaye wabelane zakutshanje kunye nomhlobo okanye ungowasemzini, musa ukwenza meanly ... kuba nobubele izilwanyana ... ukuba uyakwazi ukumelana ngokwabo, ngenxa yeenkolelo zabo ... Olu luhlu elide, kuya kuba echanekileyo, kodwa mhlawumbi ukugubungela zonke bokuqonda ukuba abe elungileyo umntu, ukuba nje akunakwenzeka. Masikhumbule uphendlo olunzulu injongo ubomi Leo Tolstoy nabalinganiswa bakhe, elangazelela ukuba "kakhulu elungileyo", aziphose, nokufuna yokuziphatha, owayo abadala. Namaqhawe Dostoevsky kaThixo? Kwaye ngenene, lonke ezakudala Russian nehlabathi, imizekelo emihle uncwadi isinika imizekelo ecacileyo yomsebenzi kakhulu ngokomoya. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba enye into icacile: ngaphandle ukuzimisela, ngaphandle ukuba "umphefumlo kufuneka asebenze 'ukuqonda thina, njani ukuba abe elungileyo umntu.
Kwaye oko kuthetha - imizamo eqinile-ezithandwa? Ndicinga, oko ukukwazi ukuncama ezabo izinto, ezinkulu okanye ezincinane, xa amathuba okulungelwa kwelinye. Zinongezele apho ndifuna ukuba inyanzelise phezu kwakhe. Idini ukuba ndifuna ukugcina. Ukuthabatha phezu yinxalenye yomsebenzi okanye ezinye iimbopheleleko. Nika iingcebiso okanye nangezenzo. Ekugqibeleni, ukuba enze feat egameni umntu okanye into ethile. Ngapha koko, ubuqhawe, isibindi, ukungazingci - lwalo eliphezulu ingcamango kunyanzelekile "ezilungileyo" yokuziphatha, silandelwa abantu kwiimeko kakhulu.
Imizekelo njani ukuze abe yindoda elungileyo, sibona lonke ixesha, kwaye enze feat kubomi bemihla ngemihla akuyomfuneko oku. Nesakhono kwimibandela ethile kwaye usebenzise ukuze kuxhamle abahlobo, abahlobo nezalamane. Yiba unyana onenkathalo okanye intombi ngokunxulumene abazali abalupheleyo, okanye umfazi ozinikeleyo umyeni - ukuze isiqingatha sayo. Behlonipha abangaphantsi, ukuba uya ukuba anilawule, yaye musa azenze phambi gaba. Ukugcina ingqibelelo ngaphezu bonke abachasene naye - naye kuthetha ukuba umntu. Musa enzelelele imigaqo yokuziphatha ezijongwa esichazayo.
Ke ekugqibeleni, eyona nto ibalulekileyo. Njengoko sele kukhankanyiwe, i "elungileyo" - ingqiqo ayinyani. Umntu zizakujongwa njengo avezwe ekuhlaleni, kodwa kuya kuba kuhle ukuba umntu oye wanceda - ukuba imali engange, njalo njalo Yenza inkonzo abantu bakhanyiselwa, ezifana njengokuba uKristu, Buddha, okanye Mfundisi usisilumko Osho, UDalai Lama, incinane kakhulu, izahlulo million ngamnye. Kunjalo, njengoko iqela elincinane abo benza sa entliziyweni yentliziyo yakhe, njengoko wenzayo Mat Tereza okanye Lady Diana. Kwaye ngoko ke musa ukuba imilinganiselo zobuhle kubo bonke abantu. Ngenxa yoko, umbuzo njani ukuze abe yindoda, hayi kuphela kudidi lixesha, bulumko, kodwa, nithi, iqela elimxinwa. Yakhe "comme il faut" ukho kwindawo yonke reference single. Asiyiyo yonke "bangaphandle" ukuzivumelanisa kuyo, yaye akukho mfuneko.
Okubalulekileyo, mhlawumbi, ukuba ngabandayo, ngokugqithiseleyo, ukuba baphile umgaqo 'akukho namnye ishishini lam. " Zama kangangoko kunokwenzeka nomgudu ukuze baphumeza iziphiwo zabo ezintle.