Indawo zokudlala zezingane - indlela yokukhetha eyona nto ingcono kumntwana wakho

Ubuntwana ... Zingaphi iinkumbulo eziphakamisa eli gama: iintlanzi ezimnandi, imidlalo yokumemeza kunye nabahlobo-i-pranksters, iipiramidi ukusuka kwiikhilodi, abayakha kabusha kwizindlu ezincinci kwiminithi embalwa ... Amagumbi okudlala abantwana aphethwe nje ngamathoyizi, kwaye ngokuhlwa yonke ingxaki yaphakade yavela - Ubani owagubungelayo? Ngoko liphinda kwisizukulwana kwisizukulwana. Yiyiphi abazali abazange bafike kunye nokufundisa abantwana babo ukuba bahlambulule igumbi labo! Ngexesha lobuncinci bam (kwaye le nto yayingaphezu kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu edlulileyo) emva komnye ukuthobela upapa waletha ibhokisi enkulu yekhadibhodi yamathoyizi. Kodwa ngeveki kamva yayisetyenzisiwe kwezinye iinjongo. Ndiyiphendule kwaye ndifike ngaphakathi, mna nomntakwethu sathetha amabali ambi kakhulu ebumnyameni. Ubawo, ukuxabisa ubuchule bethu, sinqamle kwelinye icala iwindow encinane, kwaye kwelinye - umnyango. Kuvuyisa kangakanani le sakhiwo esibangelwa intombi yommelwane! Ukufika ekhaya kubahlobo, sakha "indawo yokuhlala" yamatafula kunye nezihlalo, siphonsa iingubo phezu kwabo. Kwizitrato, phantsi kolawulo lwabo "abasebenzi bomyalelo" bahlala kuyo nayiphi na indawo enamacala amabini okanye amabini, okunye okuhlanganiswe ngento efanelekileyo: amabhokisi, amasebe, amabhodi. Kwakunomdla gqitha!

Kwiminyaka kamva, kwintombi yam eneminyaka emihlanu eKrismesi, kwafuneka ndijongisise isipho. Kweminye yamasebe esitolo ndazibona iintlobo ezincinci zezindlu, abantwana bedlala i-labyrinths kunye needodoli, uBarbie, owathi wangena kwi-vogue (umntwana wethu wayethanda ukudlala nabo kwiintombi zakhe-oomama). Emva kobu bukhulu, ukujonga kwam kuhleli kwiimpawu ezimnandi zasepinki! Yayiyindlu yodololi eyenziwe ngeplastiki kunye nempahla. Nguye endikufihle phantsi komthi. Uninzi unina uya kundiqonda-ukuba lunjani uthando olubangelwa ngamehlo omnandi omntwana! Nangona emva kweminyaka emininzi, intombazana enombulelo uyakhumbula ukumangaliswa kwakhe.

Kutheni indlu yomntwana

Phantse bonke abantwana bathanda ukudlala kubantu abadala, bazakhele ekhaya. Ukubukela, unokuqonda ukuba luhlobo luni lolwalamano olwenzeka kule ntsapho. Umdlalo onjalo womdlalo unikeza ingcinga yomntwana inkululeko epheleleyo. Kwimpahla yabo abantwana banomuva njengabaphathi benene-bamenywe iindwendwe (abahlobo), baphathe ngokwezicathulo eziphekiweyo. Abantu abadala abanokuthi bangakwazi ukuqondisa amandla abo kunye neengcamango zabo ngendlela efanelekileyo. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ngoku ezininzi iintsapho zikhetha ukuthenga izindlu zokudlala zabantwana ekukhuleni komntwana. Abanye abantu bathanda izakhiwo zeplastiki eziqaqambileyo: zintle kakhulu, zikhawuleza zitshatyalaliswa, zithuthwa lula kwaye zihlanjwe. Kukho ukuphazamiseka: zivame ukuphuka, kwaye akusoloko kunokwenzeka ukucacisa ukususela kwizinto eziphathekayo ezenziwe (ezinye zinefuthe elinamandla kakhulu eplastiki). Kwaye yonke into ejongene nempilo yabantwana, kufuneka sijonge ngenyameko.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukhuseleko

Ikhetho elihle kakhulu liya kuba yindlu yokudlala yabantwana eyenziwe ngamatye, ngokukodwa ekubeni inamandla kuneplastiki. Yaye ngubani oya kubantwana oya kukhanyela ikopi enje, njengaleli fa nekiso: ibhantshi elincinci elincinci elincinci lomncinci omncinci, ukuya kumgangatho wesibini apho ungakhuphulela khona igridi enamandla ngaphandle! Ukwakhiwa kwimiba enobungcipheko yendawo enobungakanani bemizekelo emininzi kunoma yiphi ubudala. Bonke abaselula nabo baphupha ukuba neendawo zabo, apho kungekho mntu uya kubaphazamisa. Bakhele indawo enjalo kumasebe anqamlekileyo, kwaye ukubonga kwabo abayi kukwazi imida. Musa nje ukulimaza umhlobo wakho oluhlaza. Omnye umthi ulungile, kwaye ezimbini zibhetele. Baxhuma ngeendlela ezinamathele kwaye ufumane indawo yokuphumla eyongezelelweyo emthunzini ocolileyo wamasebe, apho iindawo ezikujikelezileyo zijongwa kakuhle. Ukulungelelanisa i-swing, ibha engqambileyo, amasongo - nendawo eyongezelelweyo yemidlalo, ikhuselwe kwimvula. Iidlala zezingane-iindawo zokulala zithandwa kakhulu. Le ngqungquthela yeselula ifakile ingafakwa naphi na ngexesha elifutshane. Ukongeza, iindleko zabo ziphantsi. Ingane inomtsalane nombonakalo: umbala obalabala, ubuciko kunye neefake. Ngethuba elifanayo bahlala bekhuselekile (umntwana akayi kutshitshisa ekhoneni), angathatyathwa elunxwemeni okanye ipikiniki ehlathini (kukho iintente ezikhethiweyo ezixhomekeke kumasebe emithi). Ngokuqhelekileyo banomgca obukhulu, kwaye zonke izivulo zixhomekeke ekukhunjweni-ukukhuselwa okulungileyo kumagundane ezinqwenqa. Ngokukhawuleza xa abantwana bekhula ngokwaneleyo kangangokuba abafuni ukudlala kuzo, izindlu zokhuni, indawo yokudlala yabantwana kunye neendawo zokudlala zingaguquleka zibe yintonga okanye esinye isakhiwo sefama ngaphandle komzamo omkhulu. Yaye iindleko zakho ziya kuhlawulwa!