Indawo elikhusi njenge mda

Ke kaloku abaninzi ekuweveni ibinzana elithi "Indawo elikhusi." Ngolwimi sengqondo, oko kuthetha umntu kokuhlala kwisithuba ephilileyo (zombini ingqiqo ngokwasemzimbeni nasengqondweni), apho iluncedo ukuba, a swi nga va xi namaxhala, yena ikhululeke, kodwa kwangaxeshanye akazange zenzeke, nje umthetho, akafuni ukwazisa into entsha ebomini bam. Kakade ke, ukuze elowo lakhe. Asingabo bonke usukelo olukhulu ukuze bonwabe ngokwaneleyo kuba kubo ingeniso uzinzile, nganye ezinga malungu abantu besebenza imini kunye nobusuku kamabonakude. Kwaye ukuba kukho ulangazelelo omkhulu, ngoko ngokukhawuleza kakhulu iyalahleka. Abantu ezingqongileyo amnyanzele ukuba ukutshintsha kuphela kubangele ubuhlungu, yaye ekugqibeleni athothe ngokuhamba kwexesha.

Kodwa xa Indawo elikhusi ngokuba kuyo umntu iqatshelwa sisithintelo uphuhliso, kuyimfuneko ukuba athathe amanyathelo. Hayi, bonke abantu bayakwazi ukufikelela kwezinye phezulu obalaseleyo, asingabo bonke ngendlela ebalaseleyo, iitalente, asinguye wonke umntu lucky. Kodwa ukwenza ubomi bakho siphumelele kwaye zityeba ngakumbi, ukuphuhlisa iimpawu ezinqwenelekayo, ukuzuza izakhono ezongezelelweyo, ukwandisa okanye ukutshintsha isangqa ekuhlaleni ngenxa nawuphi na umntu, ukuba uthe ephuma zone yakhe intuthuzelo.

psychology Modern inikeza ezininzi iindlela self-ukuphucuka.
Phantse bonke bephela zisekelwe phezu kokutshatyalaliswa engaguqukiyo, ukutshintsha indlela yokucinga,
ukubatshabalalisa endala kwaye ukuyilwa nemikhwa ezintsha. Kubaluleke kakhulu
iingcebiso, Noko ke, asimele zithi, kodwa ukuze ukuyenza isebenze
senzo. Akucaci ukuqala phi? Nge amancinci.

• ukwenza lobeko ifanitshala;
• ukuya emsebenzini enye indlela;
• evuka khunubembe kusasa yatshintsha kokuba ngamandla phantsi umculo esimnandi;
• sayina imidlalo zoqeqesho, ukudanisa okanye izifundo;
• ukwenza abahlobo abatsha;
• ukuya kwi uhambo esingaqhelekanga;
• cinga ngendlela ukujika ikuba ibe njengendlela ingeniso;
• e ukumangala ingcamango entsha okanye wobugcisa womgqomo ababezenzele yona;
• ukutshintsha iinwele yakhe kunye nendlela yokunxiba.

Yinto nje ezintsha minor, nto leyo ibe ekuqaleni iziganeko ezinkulu.

iincwadi ezininzi zibhaliwe kumxholo othi "psychology of ulonwabo" kwi kwiivenkile ezichaphazelekayo, asezikhundleni amanqwanqwa lonke kunye izikhundla eziphambili zixeliweyo yokuthengisa. ngokwenene Abantu bafuna ukuba wonwabe yaye uphumelele, ezo ke Ayimangalisi. Kuphela apha ukuwina apha ke ababhali kunye nabashicileli uncwadi enjalo, kwakunye abaququzeleli bale seminar self-ukuphuculwa, zibiza imali eninzi. Hayi yokuba emva kwezi khosi, bantu ukutshintsha ngesiquphe ubomi babo, yaye emva kokufunda le ncwadi, yaye ngakumbi ke, abantu badla ukukhangela nje unyango ummangaliso, leyo ngokwayo kubo kuya kukhokelela nempumelelo nolonwabo. Indawo elikhusi ke umthetho kangaka nje. Kuba aphuma kuyo akwanelanga ukwenza iinzame kanye okanye kabini, kukho kufuneka umsebenzi rhoqo, kuqala lwalugxile ngokwabo. Eneneni, maxa wambi kubonakala ukuba ihlabathi nje ukuba lobuvila. Kwanokuba ukuhamba ukuya evenkileni ekhethiwe, ungakwazi umyalelo ngefowuni bonke phantsi imveliso indlela.

Inyaniso kukho ingozi eziphambili - ngengqiqo yokuba intlalo-ntle. Xa uyazi ukuba yonke into eyimfuneko ukuze ubomi, yaye yintoni na ke, okanye ayikho ngenene kuyimfuneko, okanye ebendingenakuzifumana konke, ngoko kutheni ukutshintsha into? Eneneni, kutheni? Kulungile, ndiza utsibe iparashute, kakuhle, ndiza kuya tour eYurophu - yaye ngokubanzi yintoni iza kutshintsha? Kwakhona ubukho gray, ikhaya-umsebenzi-gym. Kwakhona liqiniswe zone intuthuzelo. Oku eqhelekileyo, eyona nto ibalulekileyo - musa ukunikezela, musa ukuma, ukuhamba xa nkongomiso lowu. Ngokuthe ngcembe, kuba lula.

Kwaye abaqinisekanga ndiwulahle lo kwisitulo endala ezimnandi. Enyanisweni kuyenzeka ukuba baphumle nje, ebuya ubomi 'enkulu' izele impumelelo, ndlu yayo cute ngoku ngokwenene eshushu, kwaye buthuntu.