Imigaqo zonxibelelwano kunye nabantu: lula nangempumelelo

Unxibelelwano - yinxalenye yobomi bomntu. Yonk 'imihla senza udibane nabantu abaninzi - kunye ekhaya, kunye noogxa, amaqabane ezoshishino, abahlobo, kunye nabantu basemzini epheleleyo - evenkileni, sikaloliwe nasezitratweni. Kubalulekile ukuba lo unxibelelwano yaba mnandi ukuba zombini interlocutors, kwakunye nje bengenamveliso. Ngapha koko, yintoni injongo yayo ephambili? Injalo loo nto, ukutshintshiselana ngolwazi, iingcinga, iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo. Kufuneka igxininise igama elithi 'efanayo', oko kukuthi, ngalunye interlocutors kufuneka kuqondwe weva ngabanye, okanye inzondo ezinokuvela kwixesha elizayo, ukungaqondani, yaye ekugqibeleni - kunye neengxabano. Yiyo loo nto ngamnye kuthi kufuneka nje ukwazi imithetho ukunxibelelana nabantu. Yintoni na, ukuba yintoni na - oku kuya kuxoxwa ngazo kweli nqaku, ngoko nceda ufunde ngenyameko ulwazi ngokuqinisekileyo luncedo kuwe.

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Iingcali zengqondo zithi imigaqo yokunxibelelana nabantu - yinto uhlobo ikhowudi ongabhalwanga. Kuyanceda ukuba lokuxoxa enkulu, abanemibono lusoloko wamphulaphula yaye usoloko lundwendwe wamkelekile nayiphi na indlu. Ukukwazi ukunxibelelana nalo kubaluleke kakhulu ngexesha thethwano zoshishino kunye namaqabane. Ewe, kwaye akuyiphazamisi kwi ubomi obuqhelekileyo. Umntu owaziyo imigaqo yokunxibelelana nabantu kunye nokusebenzisa nabo xa befundisa, kusoloko nabahlobo abaninzi abalungileyo kunye nezihlobo, waba nahlala nonwabile.

Phantsi nge kwingcinezelo!

Kodwa i wenza ntoni, ukuba awazanga njani ukunxibelelana nabanye? Naziphi na iinzame ukuba ndithethe loo mntu ndinkwantya kokunkwantyisayo, kwaza, uqala ukuba ndingagevezeli okanye ngokupheleleyo ayilibale into amakayithethe. Kwenzeka? Emva koko landela amacebiso zethu elula. Okokuqala, khumbula elinomthetho wokuqala yaye ibalulekileyo: kufuneka ngokupheleleyo into yokuba babe neentloni abanye. Unako ukunxibelelana nawo wonke umntu ngokulinganayo. Buza imibuzo, cela uncedo okanye ukwabelana ngolwazi. Unxibelelwano - inkqubo zendalo ngokupheleleyo, ngoko ulahle kwizakhiwo ze baqalise ukuthetha nomntu ngamnye. Uyabona, kulula. Kwaye ngoku siza 5 imithetho ukunxibelelana nabantu. Enyanisweni kukho ezininzi, kodwa siza kubalaselisa kakhulu esisiseko.

Imithetho unxibelelwano phakathi kwabantu

Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna ukuba ube elihle lokuxoxa:

1. Mamela ngenyameko omnye komnye yaye musa ziphazamise. Myeke athethe, kodwa ke ungaphawula ubuze imibuzo. Khumbula ukuba umntu ngamnye onqwenela liviwe. Musa ukuthi kuye. Uzithanda wena, xa uthe waliphulaphula ngenyameko, akunjalo na?
2. Ukuba akuvumelani kunye neqabane lakhe, xa kungekho tyala musani ukwenza nto izimvo bakrwada, kwaye musa kakubi ngaye. Zama ukuqonda umbono wakhe. Ukuba sicinga ukuba kuphosakele ngokupheleleyo, ngobunono kwaye ngobubele mxelele ngayo. Zama ukufumana ukusilela.
3. Like Karnegi, wengqondo odumileyo American, uthi imfuneko ukubiza ngexesha lencoko umntu ngegama. Ngaloo ndlela ke kwinqanaba ienjini, bayibiza ukuthembeka kwakho, kuya kuba mnandi kakhulu unxibelelwano. Umntu uziva ukubaluleka kwakhe. Carnegie wathi: "Khumbula ukuba isandi yabantu igama lakhe isandi zibalulekileyo sweet ...". Musa ukulibala ngayo.
4. Yiba athobekile kwaye ngobuchule. Not sibambe ukubuza imibuzo, yaye umele ungafaki umntu ngendlela imeko nzima yaye zihlekisa iintsilelo zakhe, ngokukodwa phambi abasemzini.
5. Unomdla ebomini kunye nezenzo zomnye. Ukuba umntu likuxelela ngengxaki yakho, zama ukunceda avulekile kuye kwaye udinga icebiso, kodwa akufuneki abe kanti izifaka. Xa imfuneko ukwazi nini ukuze ayeke.

Abangabazi babe ngabahlobo

Kukho iimeko xa ufuna ukuthetha ukugqibezela abasemzini. Uze ethekweni ehlanganiswe i umhlobo. Wena bathulula nje iqela entsha esikolweni okanye emsebenzini. iimeko ezinjalo zande. Ngoko ke, kufuneka sikhumbule imithetho unxibelelwano nabantu abangabazi:

1. Yiba nomoya. Musa ukuzivumela amazwi krwada ngenkangeleko okanye indlela yakhe yesinxibo yomntu.
2. Kodwa ngokunyanisekileyo baludumisile izincedisi ezintle, izacholo okanye iimpahla. Umntu ngamnye uya kuba uyavuya xa ukhangela ingqiqo yakhe style.
3. Uncumo, kodwa kwakhona, ngokunyanisekileyo. uncumo Wasolula enza repulsively.
4. Zama ukufumana izihloko for ukuncokola. Kuyenzeka ukuba izinto ezifanayo okanye ukuzonwabisa. Ukuba uyaqaphela ukuba nomntu akukho nto olumanyanisa wena, thetha nje naye malunga iziganeko ezidlulileyo kweli lizwe okanye ehlabathini. Kuyenzeka ukuba ukuqala i incoko. Musa ukuba cwaka uze ulindele omnye ukufumana umxholo. Yiba endixhasa kwaye enobubele.
5. Musa ukoyika yokuhlekisa. Kungenzeka, umthombo uya siqonde imbono yakho uburharha, yaye oko kuya kukunceda usondela.
6. Ukuba omnye lo umntu uthetha okubi ngolwimi lwakho lweenkobe kunye ulwimi lwasemzini niyazi kakuhle, musa ukuthandabuza ukuba athi kuyo. Akuyi kuphela lula umsebenzi neqabane lakhe, kodwa ukubonisa intlonelo kuye.

Khumbula ukuba imithetho ngasentla kulula ukuthetha nabantu, kodwa kuya kukunceda kubomi bemihla ngemihla ngexesha incoko nge nabani. Musa ukulibala ukuba nizenza!