Igorha - njengoko kumele kube njalo?

Enye emide zempilo silwe elikhulu bespectacled wathi: "Ewe, ndiyakwazi ukuginya guts zakho!". Yintoni umoya ngamandla umntu waphendula ngomoya, "Xa kunjalo, isisu sakho iya kuba inqondo ngaphezu entlokweni yenu." Kule bhalo xa iyonke ichaza umgangatho ubuntu olomeleleyo. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba bangaphakanyiselwa sokumpompa ukulwa. Kakade ke, lo "IQ izihlunu bomeleleyo konakalisa," kodwa ngaphandle kwazo yolahleko noloyiso ukusuka ezininzi iingxaki zobomi. Isalathisi lokuqala amandla ithemba. Hayi Ikratshi ajike abe ke andiqhayisi sisiyatha uze saber nezakudala, oko kukuthi, inkolelo wena njengomntu.

Le yimfuneko obuthathaka ukungqina kubo bonke into yomelele nibe ngamakroti. Ngenxa kule hlobo ukuthotywa kwabanye bezama sikhwele emehlweni akhe kunye nezimvo zabanye, kwaye usoloko uzama ukuba nnjalo umqala ukungqina ityala labo. igorha - ubuntu "yena". Oku akuthethi ukuba yena - yokuzingca okanye ndoda. Yena nje akahlali "window lokunxibela." Uyazi ukuba. amandla akhe ebomini ziveza ukuzithemba, kwaye ezi amaza lungabanjwa amandla ngeenxa zonke, nokuba uthe cwaka. Uyazi kakuhle into ayifunayo aze aye usukelo lwakhe, nangona imiqobo. Kwaye oku kubonisa umgangatho olandelayo yakhe.

Le igorha akoyiki ukungaphumeleli. Ngokuqhelekileyo, uzama siyiphephe - apho unako. Ngamanye amaxesha ke lemposiso. Ngamanye amaxesha ehlupheka fiasco. Kodwa usoloko uyakwazi ukufumana phezulu emva kokuwa, kwaye nesibindi ukuze uqhubeke. Abantu abaninzi bafumana kakhulu iintsilelo zabo; aqeqesha babasa ngaphesheya umendo wobomi. Soyika ukudibana intombazana, ngokuba zilityelwe kuthi krwada wala. Eli tyala iliva ohleli entliziyweni, asizise emva elidlulileyo, ixesha langoku, etheni, ndiwuhlutha nje elizayo. Umntu inqaba engaphakathi, ibekwe ngaphezu leempumelelo, oko kumele kube yeyona njongo kwaye kwixesha elizayo, akazange ahlale ixesha elidluleyo.

igorha - a lale. Yena akayi unxibe Iindondo umnyama, kodwa yazi ngokucacileyo iimpawu zabo ezintle nezimbi. Bonke ubutyebi bakhe zobumnini kwindibaniselwano ubenethamsanqa iimeko, kwaye ukusilela ondingcikivayo ngokwakhe. Noko ke, loo mntu unetyala ukuqaphela ngokwasengqondweni, hayi ngokwasemoyeni, oko kukuthi, akukho baqale inxaxheba self-bake, kwaye nokuchaza i imeko, ukuchonga apho wenza impazamo kwaye bafunde izifundo zexa elizayo. Egqithisileyo self-deprecation njengoko usentlungwini self-nanceba - njengenkcitha xesha nomzamo ukuba aba bantu. Baya nje ukuya kwinjongo zabo. Kwakhona, akazange aqale ukuqhayisa kakhulu impumelelo yakhe - indumiso engcono ngaphandle zeendumiso ngokwabo.

A igorha akuthethi ukuzifanisa nabanye. Kwakhe ihlabathi engaphakathi ngoko uyazi yonke kakuhle kakhulu. Wayecinga ukuba avume ukuba kube kubi kunabanye - ngokubanzi, Kakade, hayi ezinye iimpawu. Kwelinye icala, akazi ukugweba kuphela into abafuna ngqondweni ahambe ukubonisa ukuba bathini. Ezihlonipha umntu ngamnye kunye nehlabathi yakhe ngaphakathi, ukulungele ukuphulaphula icebiso, kodwa uluvo yokugqibela emva kwayo. Yena ngokwakhe ngumdali ikamva lakhe. Loo mntu uya njongo ngokukhuselekileyo nangokuzithemba, kunye neemeko ezinzima yaye ukusilela akazange utyhafe.

A igorha asisiniki ngesiphatho. Yena ugcina iimvakalelo zakhe phantsi kolawulo. Loo mntu lonke ixesha ngokungathi sizibuze: ukwenza Ngaba ilungelo? oko kukuthi sisiseko azithandayo zam nangazithandiyo yomntu othile? Musa sikhokelwe umsindo kum? Abantu abanjalo zisingisele kwabanye - ukuba ngaba niyavuma ukuxolela, kulula ukulibala nanzondo. Ukuba namandla, bakholisa ukuxhasa underdog. Kwaye lo ukuzinza, isidima ubukele le mood ezintle kwabanye. A Kumgama onamandla, ziwugqala ngokupheleleyo phambili. Inkokeli azalwe, ngokungafaniyo upstarts ngegqudu, musa kufuneka ukuchonga unqulo, Ekugudeni nokuthotywa kwabanye - kwaye ngoko uyazi kuthatha ntoni.