Ibhasiki yeemidlalo. Siyaziqhelisela umntwana ukucoceka nokulandelelana

Ukuba ikhaya lakho lingumntwana, mhlawumbi unamathoyizi amaninzi. Kwaye bonke bahlakazeka ngezindlu. Abantwana baqokelela ngokuzithengisa idokodo kunye neemoto, bebeka yonke indawo kwiindawo zabo. Kwaye ukuba kukho ukucoca, kudla ngokuhamba kunye nokukhala kunye neefom. Kodwa kuyimfuneko ukufundisa umntwana ukucoceka ukususela ebuntwaneni. Intshukumo nganye kufuneka ibe nendawo yayo, kwaye umntwana makayayiqonda, qaphela kwaye uyazi. Ukuqeqesha umntwana wakho ukuba awise, abazali kufuneka benze imizamo emininzi kwaye benze zonke iimeko malunga nale nto. Ngokunjalo, iindawo zokudlala kufuneka zisuswe emva kokuba umntwana edlala. Akukho ndlela yokwenza ngaphandle kwebhayisikiti yamathoyizi. Makhe sixoxe ngeliphi ibhasikidi.

Indlela yokufundisa ukuhlambulula kwaye nini ukuqala

Kubalulekile kumama nobaba, ukususela kumntwana, ukubonisa umntwana wakhe ukuba zonke izinto kufuneka zifakwe kwiindawo. Ngokwemvelo, ngelixa umntwana esincinane kakhulu, abazali baya kuthoba ii-toys. Nangona kunjalo, kuyimfuneko ukukhanga kuyo. Mxelele ukuba yonke into inendawo yayo, bonisa kwaye ugxininise indlela okumele ikhangele ngayo igumbi elicocekileyo. Ukuba umntwana uyasetyenziselwa ukuba, egumbini lakhe nasendlini apho ahlala khona, ihlambulukile, ngoko-ubudala, kuya kuba lula ukuziqhelanisa ukuba ziphoqe izinto zakhe.

Kuphi ukubeka amathoyizi

Kukho ezininzi iindlela zokukhetha ukulungiselela indawo yokugcina iipopu, iimboli, iimoto kunye nezitimela. Ingaba yintsimbi yokudlala okanye ibhokisi ephuma phantsi kwebhedi, umzekelo. Kukulungele ukusebenzisa i-basketball yabantwana abakhethekileyo. Ngendlela, ibhasikidi yamathoyizi ilula ngakumbi kunesitya esikhulu. Inyaniso kukuba ihambayo kwaye ithatha indawo encinane. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, iyakwazi ukunyanzeliswa kuyo nayiphi na indawo kwigumbi. Yaye yinqwelo yokudlala eya kunceda abazali ngendlela yomdlalo ukufaka emntwaneni wabo uthando ngomyalelo kunye nococeko. Ngokomzekelo, ngexesha lokuvuna kule nqakrasi ungaphonsa amathoyizi afana nebhola kwindandatho. Ngaba ukulungiswa okunjalo kungamkholisa umntwana!

Naka ingqalelo: iingenelo kunye nokuphazamiseka kweebhasiki zokudlala

Ngokuqinisekileyo, ibhasikidi yamathoyizi ilula kakhulu. Okokuqala, iqulethe izinto ezininzi, nokuba zikhulu kakhulu. Okwesibini, umntwana omncinane kakhulu unokufumana into efanelekileyo. Iqotshuthi enjalo yokudlala inomthombo wasentwasahlobo. Kwanele ukuba amdonsa ukuze athole oko akufunayo. Okwesithathu, ibhasikidi ilula kakhulu. Nangona umntwana oneminyaka engama-3 ubudala unokulula (agcwalise) uyisondeza ukusuka kwindawo ukuya endaweni. Okwesine, ibhasikidi yamathoyizi yenziwe ngophawu oluqinileyo. Kwaye le nto ibonwa njengobungane bendalo. Sekunjalo - uyaqiniseka ukuba uyathanda umntwana. Emva koko, ngokuqhelekileyo wenza ibhasikidi ngendlela yesilwanyana esincinci kwaye siqhakazile.

Kodwa, ukuthetha malunga nokufaneleka, kubalulekile ukubonisa ukungaphumeleli kwebhokisi lokudlala. Kwaye okokuqala sifanele siqaphele ukhuseleko. Ewe, ibhasikidi ibonakala, ekuqalekeni, kuphephile. Kodwa nangona kunjalo kubalulekile ukuba abazali bahlole. Kwaye nantsi i-drawback. Ingubo yocwecwe yocingo oluqinileyo elinceda ibhasikidi ukuba iphoqe kwaye ibambe ukuma kwindawo ebonakalayo. Kodwa ukususela kwintlambo yocingo ngokubhekiselele kwimizimba, izimbobo zingenza. Ewe, ukuba uqaphele ngexesha elithile le nto yayidakile, kwaye ucingo lwaphuma. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuba abantwana bayalimala kwaye bakhankqalaza kwisitshixo esicincileyo sensimbi esiye sahlula ngaphandle kwento.

Ewe, ukuba ugqiba ukuba umntwana wakho akayikho isitya, kodwa ibhaskithi yamathoyizi, uyithenge ngokukhuselekileyo. Kuphela ngexesha lokusebenza, qaphela kwaye rhoqo uhlola imeko yayo. Ukuba ufumana nayiphi na indawo ephosakeleyo, ungazami ukulungisa nokulungisa idiksi. Kungcono ukuthenga entsha.