Ebhekiswe - akukho ucinga ntoni

Namhlanje, abantu eqinisa kude phambili, hayi nje kuphela kweli isifundo ezithile, nolwazi lobuchwepheshe, kodwa kakhulu nzulu sifundo ngokwabo. Kwakukho amaninzi amagama amatsha, amaxabiso ezo azisoloko iqondwe ngabantu abaninzi. Omnye wabo, azisoloko isicelo ngokungqinelana ixabiso layo lasekunene - uwenyanye. Eli gama idla ngokusetyenziswa xa iimpawu zabantu, nto leyo ebonisa ukuba isimo sengqondo ophambene amafanasini. Esi sikhundla uninzi lwabantu Omgwebelayo ziyonakala imeko yezibalo kwamanye amazwe.

Phambi kungekho ixesha elithile kuluntu kweekhonsepthi ezifana "amafanasini." Eli gama uye kuphela ebudeni 'revolution ngokwesondo "edumileyo, emva koko kwigcuntswana eli besilwela amalungelo abo. Phambi kweli xesha, imfuneko ukuze aligwebe ukuziphatha zobufanasini yayingekho, kuba heterosexuality kugqalwa norm lwentlalo. A ukuziphatha ezahlukeneyo izibakala zaye ayaziwa kubantu abaninzi.

Abaninzi bathi ngayo njengoba amagama afanayo kunye izenzakalo yokuziphatha mihla. Kodwa oku ezithile, nje umntu namhlanje, njengokuba onke amaxesha, lizama ukuqonda yawo, ingakumbi neempendulo abanye abantu zokuziphatha qiniseka ukuba "inamathele" iilebhile kwacaca ukuba amaSirayeli kunye neziganeko. kunokwenzeka A ekhoyo kwezobugcisa bengcaciso kuvumela inyaniso, yaye ngokufuthi ngakumbi - "ziingceba" izibakala, ukungena kwi ezingqondweni isenesazela uninzi lwabantu pahla kwizigqibo esele zenziwe kunye izigwebo ngaphandle ndicinga intsingiselo. Kodwa ababhali nawaphi na amanqaku amaninzi nje ebekwe izimvo zabo ngethemba lokuba umfundi ngenxa yokuba ingqondo ngamnye enze izigqibo ezifanelekileyo.

Igama elithi "abathandanayo", oko kuvakala ngathi inguqulelo 'ukungathandi (intiyo, ukoyika) ukuba abalingane babo, "lisetyenziswa ukuchaza isimo sengqondo ophambene amafanasini. Kodwa ke xa ucinga ngayo lokoqobo kwekota, libhekisela yinto eyahlukileyo. Kungenzeka, le nto namhlanje uninzi lwabantu oluphucukileyo musa ndlongo wamkelekile ezijolise abantu isini eyahlukileyo kunelazo. Ke igama elithi "homophobe" - oku ngakumbi umgangatho elibi umntu, kunokuba HIV. Kulo mba, ukuba baveze izimvo zabo ngalo mba ube bonke abantu.

abathandanayo ebhekiswe usenokuyifihla iimvakalelo zabo oyinyaniso, kungekhona ukuze lufumane kuluntu uphawu lomntu ndlongondlongo kunye ngendeb '. Kodwa ke, ngelishwa, kusekho iimeko rhoqo kakhulu zobundlobongela engqondweni nasemzimbeni nxamnye nabantu indlela yakhe yokuphila kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Kule nkalo, kwavakala ukuba uwenyanye - ulifanasini afihlakeleyo, abaninzi bakhetha ukuba ukubonisa iinkolelo zabo ngayo. Kodwa kahle ngokungenabulungisa kunye idalwa okungeyomfuneko ihlabathi oku kungenzeki ngaphantsi.

Kucacile ukuba uluntu luya ukumelana, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba basasaze mvume yokuziphatha engaqhelekanga. Xa inkcubeko amazwe ahlukeneyo, le miba baphathwa ngokwahlukileyo, kodwa nolaka nobudlova ayifundisi naluphi na unqulo ehlabathini. Ngapha koko, zesini ngumntu omnye - esi sisixhobo ebixhamla ubuncwane kunene, leyo wamisa kuye nje.