Yanele ukuba benze ngokwakho! Funda ukuba akwenze phantsi kwaye uqale ukuba baphile

Ayiyomfihlo into yokuba iimvakalelo ezingalunganga yingozi umntu lihlangabezana nazo. umsindo iyambulala kwesibindi, ubuhlungu isisu a nokugaya, ukutyabuka ekuphazamisa intliziyo, ntshikilelo okukhathaza amathumbu ... Olu luhlu akwazi ukuya phambili, kodwa ke eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukwazi ukuba akwenze phantsi kwaye uqale aphile nangona zonke iimbandezelo.

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Wena kuphela abantu baxabana nezalamane, abahlobo okanye abasemzini epheleleyo abantu. Ngaphezu koko, wena akukho yahlukile uninzi epheleleyo. Yamkela njengento enyanisweni. Mhlawumbi ke uya kuba lula ukuba kahle. Umbuzo of ukuba akwenze phantsi aze aqalise ubomi, hayi kanye mandithi, ukuqhubeka ngendlela eqhelekileyo, akukho ngaphantsi ebalulekileyo. Uya kwenza uninzi lwabantu kuqonda, ukuba isigqibo ukuba umdiza okanye, okubi, utywala, uya kuhlawula ngaphandle idubadubekile.

Indlela ukuba akwenze phantsi aqale ubomi?

Ukukhusela bona abantu abasondeleyo kuwe kwimiphumo ebuhlungu ukusilela kuya kunceda umoya enocwangco:

- zisaphila ezintathu - umoya;

- ezimbini umthwalo - ubambe umphefumlo wakho;

- hits ezintathu - uwukhuphe;

- umthwalo ezimbini - ubambe umphefumlo wakho.

Ngokuphawulekayo nokuncedisa ekuguquleni le meko. Kakade ke, akunjalo elungileyo ukuba oya ngaphandle kwelo gumbi, ngokoqobo ukumbakraza ucango, kodwa ngoku kufuneka ukuba ukuzisa ingqiqo umyalelo. Kubalulekile ukuba uye emva engqondweni kumxholo kwiingxwabangxwaba kunye hlafuna elibi umtyiso, bathi, ngoko kwafuneka ndithi, kwaye kunjalo ... Khangela kwi ngokwakho elufeleni, amehlo komnye umntu, ngengqondo phinda: "Ewe, mna nomsindo. Le meko Wandihambisa ngaphandle ngokwam. Kuya kuthi, bonke abapasileyo. I ngokukhawuleza, ngcono ngokuba mna nabantu endithe ndinoxanduva. Andikwazi ukujongana nale imvakalelo, ngokuba mna bomelele kunaye nabani na ukuyisombulula. Ndiyazi ukuba akwenze phantsi aqale aphile ... "

Emva la mazwi, kufuneka nje ukuba wenze into entle ngokwakho. Bayinanze ngani: ikati qabane okanye uqokelele i isipha yasekwindla, ukutya iilekese okanye uthenga Yinto encinane na lokuloba njalo njalo ..

Ukuba - ulikholwa, lixesha lokuba sibuyele ecaweni abasibaneki isibane kwabo sonayo kuye sikhokelwa zonke qwa lakho elibukhali. Cinga ngezi ngabantu abalungileyo, cinga kutheni le meko kuye kwenzeka ebomini bakho, ifundisa into izifundo kufuneka ukuba athathwe ukuba oku kuya kwenzeka kwakhona?

Indlela sokwehlisa aqale ubomi, ukuba ahlale ukuba singqongwe ngabantu ekukruqulayo?

Oku kwenzeka xa iintsapho abambalwa abahlala lavuma okanye umsebenzi-kuhlawulwa, neentloko kwabasebenzi okanye - ubuntu ingxabano. Kulo mzekelo, oku kuyanceda sengqondo uyazehlisa ukuze i "ezintweni". ingonyama kakuhle ukutya akuthethi zingela iimpuku. Khawudedele lo mntu uba uloyiso yakhe encinane, wena - unamandla engqondweni kwaye ke nje ukuba enze loo nto. Awunayo ukuqala barking inja ukuziphindiselela esitalatweni? Kungenzeka kakhulu engathethi ingqalelo kuyo, ide ibe "zosizi emqaleni phezulu." Kukho - le meko.

Divorce: indlela yokuphila?

Ekwahlukaneni soze lula. Ukomelela amava ngokweemvakalelo ukuba umntu ngamnye ufana yedwa, kwaye ke ngeke imithi jikelele kwi siseko. Best zonke, ukuba ufumana amandla kunye nokukwazi ukwenza idinga oyingcali, okanye iincwadi ubuncinane zifundwe kwi sifundo. Umzekelo, like Karnegi "Indlela Yokuyeka Ukukhathazeka kunye Qala Living." Audiobook ebhalwe kulo mthombo akuyi kuphela telela iimvakalelo, kodwa bakho ukuba ukuthatha ixesha. Mamela kuyo kakuhle, ngaphandle kokuphazamisa yasekhaya okanye uqhuba emsebenzini.

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo - musa bayakugculela. Khumbula, unoxanduva lwayo abo ecaleni kwakho.