Ziziphi iingenelo abantwana abakhubazekileyo ingafunyanwa

Ukuba ukhangela iingxelo lwezibalo abantwana abakhubazekileyo, uya kuba akukho nto ayihlekisi. Inani labo landa unyaka ngamnye, nangona oku akwenziwa rhoqo ukuze uthethe kumajelo eendaba. Unobangela lokukhubazeka ubuntwana ayikho ezithile, phakathi ukukhululwa kunokwenzeka eziphilayo embi, imfuza, impilo enkenenkene lwabazali, ukugula sikanina kakhulu ngexesha lokukhulelwa (ingakumbi zizifo ezosulelayo), zokugonya kunye nonyango onganeno.

Eneneni, xa intlungu sele kwenzekile, iyavakala encinane ukuthetha ngubani na ityala. Okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba balwe ngayo, indlela yokuphatha, yintoni iingenelo abantwana abakhubazekileyo uyakwazi ukufumana, yaye njani abazali ukuhlangabezana neengxaki ninzi. Mhlawumbi kuya kuthi ukuba unina akazange amlahle usana lwakhe, nakuba bekhubazekile. Kwaye apha livela ezininzi iingxaki. Ayizizo zonke iigadi bakulungele ukwamkela lo mntwana, emva kweminyaka emi-6, uninzi lwaba bantwana kukhanye isifundo kwizikolo olungiso okanye izikolo zokubhoda, kwaye ukuba akukho kungenzeka ukuba amalungiselelo kwisikolo ngenxa yokuba ukungabikho kwalo kwaye akukho umnqweno anike umntwana kwisikolo esibhodisayo, kufuneka aphumeze Ukufundela ekhaya. Oku kuthetha ukuba lo msebenzi iya kuba nzima ukuhamba. Ngamafutshane, unina wosana kukho iingxaki ezinxulumene ne-mali yentsapho. Ngoko ke, kufuneka nje ukuba zonke izibonelelo ngenxa yabantwana abakhubazekileyo.

Kakade ke, ukuba kukho utata uxanduva, ngubani na oya kubonelela usapho okanye umakhulu elungileyo, imini ukulungele elide babysit umntwana wakho, uya kudla ubomi lula. Ke phakathi koomama nabantwana abaneziphene oluninzi oomama abangatshatanga, ukongeza, elowo unako ukumelana imeko enjalo entsatsheni. Kwaye free, Ugogo ayikho kwaphela. Ngoko ke, akukho sono ukuthatha uncedo eyenziwa ngurhulumente.

Ngoko ke, yintoni ufumana umntwana okhubazekileyo kunye nentsapho yakhe?

1. Esiza ukhuseleko loluntu, imfundo, okanye isebe lezempilo, ungafumana amatikiti kumaziko kwisimo - kwakhona iingenelo abantwana abakhubazekileyo ebuntwaneni. Ekubeni abantu abaninzi abakhubazekileyo, ukuba itikiti asinto ilula kakhulu. Kodwa musa ukuvumela ukuba oomama stop. Kuba umntwana iya kuphumla kunye nonyango, kunye nokuziqhelanisa lwentlalo. ibaluleke kakhulu Onke amanqaku amathathu.
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Ukongeza kwezi, kukho ezinye izibonelelo abantwana abakhubazekileyo. Kwakhona, wonke ummandla etyiwayo nezinye iimeko ahlukile kubo. Ngoko ke, abazali kufuneka ukujonga zonke iindlela kunokwenzeka, "vuthululani" ukhuselo lwasekuhlaleni zezentlalo umphumo. Kakade ke, akuyi kuba lula kwixesha lokuqala. Sonke siyazi ukuba indlela maxa wambi ukubaleka kunye nemibuzo. Kodwa ukuba abazali aqhubekayo, ngoko emva kwexesha baya kufumana iziphumo ezidibanisayo. Masithi oku kangako, kodwa akuyi kuba naye ononyawo.

Ekugqibeleni ndingathanda ukuthi ukuba iinzuzo hayi nje oomama abantwana abakhubazekileyo ukubanceda ukuba baphile. Around kubo, abantu abaninzi abahlala ubomi zesiqhelo, ukuba nje uzama ngoyaba. abantu esibathandayo, ukuba ezi ntsapho zihlala ndawonye nawe, ugcine ngaphandle! Hayi imali, kodwa ilizwi ngobubele nangezenzo. Akumthathi xesha lide, kodwa kuya kunceda oomama, ingakumbi abantwana babo musa uziva ngathi hermits kweli hlabathi. Ngapha koko, esikhundleni sabo, mhlawumbi ibe nye.