Yintoni yobulukhuni? Njani ebonakalisa? Indlela ukuba ayibulale nto?

uluntu lwethu yahluke gqitha kuyo oko leminyaka eyadlulayo. Nokuba iminyaka engamashumi amahlanu emva, abantu ziya kwahluka kakhulu kubantu awayephila zethu. Yintoni umahluko? Kutheni abantu abalahlekelwe ukunyaniseka, elula, ukunyaniseka, kwaye endaweni yoko weza iingqiqo ezifana callousness zabantu, ukungakhathali, ukungakhathali? Abaninzi Walibala ubuntu, akuba kwananwe ngayo ezinye ukubala ubomi, ezifana zemali okanye sokuzazisa. Makhe zama ukuqonda oko abantu baqonde ngelizwi "yobulukhuni".

Yintoni yobulukhuni?

Le mbono sifundwa kakhulu bengqondo. Apha, kuba uchazwa lobuntu, leyo kwabunjwa ngenxa yokuphulukana ubuchule bomntu ukuba novelwano, novelwano, ethe ngokwasemoyeni iingxaki kunye nosizi yabanye abantu okanye nayiphi na enye into ephilayo. Yintoni callousness, wazi ngokuzibonela abo ukujongana nabantu kukutyeba. Ngelishwa, ezi ngakumbi kuluntu lwethu. Sinako ukuhlangabezana sengqondo sokungabi abantu kuthi esitratweni, ezivenkileni, esibhedlele, emsebenzini yaye njalo njalo. Yintoni luqondwa ziingcali callousness yaye yintoni nezinye iimpawu kokuba babedla?

Main callousness Izithethantonye

Yintoni lukhuni, sinokufunda iseti iimpawu yokuziphatha kunye nasengqondweni, nto leyo ke eya kuthi yongezwe ngokunxulumene nabantu. Lo gama kungaba lula neyongezelelwe ezinjalo iimpawu zomntu, njengoko ukungakhathali, abangenamdla, ubukrwada. Ngamanye amaxesha callousness ngazo ukuzingca kunye nentiyo. Callousness - kukunqongophala kothando umntu.

Namnye umntu osisilumko wabuza: "njani na igama elithi" lukhuni "?" ke wathi apho ukuba yobulukhuni na ukungavisisani ngokulinganayo. Ezinye iimpawu ezimbi ukuvakalisa ulwalamano lwabo umntu, nokuba lelikhabayo, kodwa ukungakhathali ubonisa nto, lunciphisa umlinganiselo kunothi, elonakalisileyo lonke iziqalo ezilungileyo ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu. Kuyinto yobuntu kufuneka baqaphele nothando. Ngaphandle imvakalelo efunekayo okanye ezingeyomfuneko, ngokuziphatha uyafa, ngaphakathi batshatyalaliswe. Yaba callousness, ukungakhathali nga ukubulala uthando. Naziphi na iimpawu ezimbi ayinakuze ithelekiswe ne ukungakhathali. Umsindo, intiyo, ukwenyanya ukuze alidanisi, kodwa musa ukukhanyela ubukho womntu, lo mntu. A nobulukhuni ukungakhathaleli yokomfuziselo ukuyijika ibe kwisithuba esingenanto. Abayi behambile nto.

Yintoni enokubangela callousness okanye bachase?

Ezi mpawu yokuziphatha nangokwasengqondweni umntu, eneneni, musani ukwenza nto buhlungu xa efika kuqala. Umntu nebonisa akakwazi ukwenza nantoni na ephosakeleyo, kodwa iziphumo bagwayimbile ukuziphatha akanankathalo. Siyifumana njani zizihlandlo ezingaphi iingxelo: "Ukuba ngaphambili indulumbane ...", "Ukuba wabanceda nje ..." "Ukuba uthe kwangoko ngokuthi uncedo lwezonyango ..."? Eneneni, ukuba kancinci ekuqaleni ukutsalela ingqalelo kumntu, ukuziphatha kwakhe, uyakwazi ukugcina kuye mposiso eziyingozi, ukunqanda ingozi kunye njalo njalo.

B. Yasensky wakhe wathi ibinzana elungileyo kakhulu kulo mbandela. Ebona ngokucacileyo ukuba utshaba kwimeko okubi, uyabulala, nabahlobo kumngcatsha, kodwa abantu bengenamdla ngaphezu kwabo bonke abanye. Banako cwaka avume ukuba ukubulala, ewolo. Wena ndingazi ukuba uyilindele kuzo. Callousness ukungakhathaleli kungakhokelela njengokonzakala emzimbeni, ngokwasengqondweni, ukulahleka intsingiselo yobomi nokufa kwiimeko kakhulu.

Nendlela yokuzifumana yokungakhathali kunye callousness?

Kufuneka siqonde ukuba callousness ezinjalo nokunganaki. Le lock iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo. Ekuqaleni uphuhliso kwezi mpawu isenokuba ixesha yabantwana yasekuqaleni. Izizathu zophuhliso lwabo lukhulu, kodwa ingaba yokuzifumana?

• Kubalulekile ukuba uyeke ukuba Iyanikhubekisa nabani na okanye nantoni na. Kufuneka uziqeqeshe ukuba uhambe ngayo yonke into: abakhohlakeleyo kwanabalungileyo. Inzondo ibandakanya com amagama ekungathethwayo kunye neemvakalelo.
• Kufuneka ukuba bakhuphe imbilini yabo kwezentlalo ngendlela eyamkelekileyo. Asinto ukukhala wentshabalalo, kunye ukukhangela izisombululo ezakhayo kwiimeko eziyingxaki.
• Kubalulekile ukuqaphela kwakhona ukuphuhlisa umgangatho elungileyo. Asikwazi ilunge ngokupheleleyo, njengokuba ezimbi kuphela. Ngoko ke kufuneka iimpawu ezintle ukuphuhlisa, yaye ukuba balahle ezimbi.

Uqeqesho uvelwano, isimo sengqondo ngokweemvakalelo kokusingqongileyo, uphuhliso ezakhayo ngeenxa zonke kuni, uya kuphinda uzive ukungakhathali, callousness and void.