Yintoni ukwenza ntoni ehlotyeni ezilalini? Ukuphumla!

"Ndiya kwenza ntoni ehlotyeni ezilalini?" - ngumba Ukwacinga abemi abaninzi ezingekhoyo ubomi "ilula 'zasemaphandleni. Kwelinye icala, bakulungele ukuba badibane nendalo. Kwelinye icala, zityalwa, cinga lukhulu malunga nendlela yokuchitha ihlobo emaphandleni kude konikezelo lwamanzi, kwi Internet, kwaye maxa wambi nkqu TV. Ukusuka iinkolelo zam, lo mbuzo iphendulwe igama nje elinye: "Hlalani!". Enye into kukuba ingcamango "abanye" linentsingiselo eyahlukileyo ngamnye kuthi. Ngokuba lommelwane wam, osebenza ngemibhobho yamanzi umalume Vasya, uhambo ukuya kwenye ezilalini - kusoloko iholide. Oku kuthetha ukuba iintsuku ezithile awukwazi ukuya emsebenzini, kwaye, ngenxa yoko, musa umda ekuthatheni "ulwelo esinxilisayo yemveliso yengingqi," ukuba ", niyalazi" kwi yamandulo esithi igama. Baba Ukholo uyakuthanda ukuya elalini kuba yena uthanda ukuba "libubu" kwisiza - ukumba, ukhula, olindelwe phandle, uze ngokuzingca ukubonisa maladaptive abahlali basezidolophini iitumato kunye ivatala leyo yena wamvusa ngokwakhe. Hi ndlela leyi, umzukulwana wakhe, i Nina kunyaka elinesihlanu ubudala, kakhulu, ngenkoliseko Ulokhwela ekhaya encinane kamakhulu wakhe. Ndabuza ngento onokuyenza ehlotyeni ezilalini. Nina ihlazo, kodwa emva koko wathi, "Kulungile, ukuhamba, intetho kunye ngokubanzi ....". Yaguqulelwa ngolwimi olulula, oku kwakuthetha ukuba, ngokungafaniyo abazali babo, uninakhulu ubiza ikhaya lakhe 22,00. Ukongeza, kukho Ninki admirer ngubani nje akayi linda, kuya kufika nini, yaye ukulungele ukuphulaphula yonke lizwi. Ekugqibeleni, ezilalini, apho kuyimfuneko ukufumana kweentsuku ezimbalwa, kodwa kukho abantu Ninkinogo ubudala, kuba phakathi ngokungathandabuzekiyo trendsetter. Kumnandi ukuba umntu wokuqala, okanye mandithi umfazi, emaphandleni. Kodwa sina, mandenze ntoni ehlotyeni ezilalini?

Sisebenza kwi

Ngaba uza ukufunda IsiNgesi? Ukufumana ukulungele ukuya ekholejini? Okanye ufuna ukufunda cwaka? indawo engcono ngaphandle ilali, ayifumanekanga. Andiyi kubuya ndilikhankanye, umoya omtsha, ngokoqobo isebenze umsebenzi yobuchopho bethu ndidiniwe ntshikilelo ezidolophini. Kule lali, ungaya ukulala kwangethuba, bavuke emva kwexesha (okanye ngokuphendululekileyo), yaye emva koko ngoxolo nenzolo, kwaphulwa kuphela mooing kunye kweenkuku izidalwa kangako eziphilileyo, ukuze bafunde izinto obuzenza kangangonyaka. Yintoni ukwenza ntoni ehlotyeni ezilalini? Dlala imidlalo, bhala izibongo, nje ukuba iin- elide, ancome basike okanye amahlathi.

lechimsya

Umoya omnandi kunye noxolo yasemaphandleni ukunceda ndinciphise uxinezeleko, kuqinise nezifo. Zama ukufaka kule unfashionable, kodwa elula ukutya yesikhumba, ezibukekayo unpasteurized, nje "akhutshwa ubisi amathokazi ', bamthethela umgcini okanye ukuhamba, umsebenzi emzimbeni. Uya kufumanisa ukuba unako ukuphelisa izifo ezininzi ukusuka komzimba kunye nesiphelo kunye nento yokuba esi sixeko ubizwa ngokuba 'bondliwa phezulu. " Kaloku nesithukuthezi kwilali obutofotofo isidalwa, uyakwazi ukuhlaziya ubomi bakho, ukucinga ngolandelelwano kunye nezempilo. Koko, emva kokubuya, kuya kuba kunokwenzeka kunye nemikhosi ezintsha gxwa ephithizelayo yesixeko. Okwangoku, unako ukudada, ilanga, nihambe ezinyaweni kwaye ufumane uyolo ngenxa yokuba abayi mandikhawulezise.

usize

Yintoni ukwenza ntoni ehlotyeni ezilalini? Nceda nootatomkhulu babo. Ndazi umntu akayithandi ukuba cheba ingca, kunye utatomkhulu wakhe ukulungisa ecingweni okanye susa saso (Okubangel 'umdla kukuba, ukuba zisekho ezilalini?). Khawucinge nje ngako oku: Iminyaka kusekho embalwa, yaye nawe uya kuba nootatomkhulu. Kwaye ngesiquphe, kunye nabazukulwana bakho ayiyi bafuna ukukunceda? Yintoni ukwenza ntoni ehlotyeni ezilalini? Ukuphumla kunye nomsebenzi, ukwakha kunye nokuhlakula, kumkhawulela nokunxibelelana, kwaye zinceda ukuba baphumle, ahlale emva ukusebenza ngokwakho, ukuba axhamle uhlobo uthole nesithukuthezi esixekweni. Ngokufutshane, baphile ukuzonwabisa.