Wedding kwi imiqondiso ebandleni, neenkolelo

Ekubeni iziganeko ezifana kumtshato ecaweni, iimpawu ezahlukeneyo ezinxulumene. Indlela yokwenza lo mbhiyozo waba yimpumelelo, kwaye kwakukho ubomi obonwabisayo elizayo? Kufuneka ufunde ngomqondiso zibalulekileyo ilunge.

Wedding ebandleni: nemiqondiso phambi kokuba isiganeko

Abazali kufuneka akunike intsikelelo. Kuye nefuthe elikhulu kakhulu. Abazali kufuneka unqwenela ubomi abaselula elide.

Ngosuku kulenkonzo, ekuseni, unina nomtshakazi okanye umyeni umele ubeke i lock ukuvulwa phantsi emnyango nasekhaya. Xa abaselula beze umva, yena uyalivala kwaye uphosa isitshixo. Le nto kufuneka igcinwe yomtshato. Kubalulekile ukuba akazange abonise nakubani na. Oku kuya kunika ubudlelwane eyomeleleyo.

Ukuba umendo ibandla uya kubona kakuhle, sihlale naye. Young bangafunga sokuzinikela, ngoko uthando "ongenasiphelo".

Indlela beze emsithweni kwaye ukusuka yecawe ukuba eyahlukileyo. Ngaphezu koko, kufuneka kubalwe kwangaphambili.

Wedding ebandleni ngexesha amanqaku mikhosi

Ngexesha lomtshato, namathole kufuneka sijonge emva, kungenjalo kungekudala ukuba ingxabano mtshato. Makungaze naphantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko kufuneka kudlula nabani phakathi kwabo. Kungenjalo, abayi kuphila ixesha elide. Nxiba amakhonkco wedding kufuneka ngokuzolileyo ngaphandle kungxama. Ukuba akuyi kuwa namnye kubo, musa ukubala kwi umtshato elide. Kulo mcimbi, umtshakazi akakwazi ukuwisa itshefu. Kungenjalo, iqabane inokuba begula, okanye ubomi bentsapho abuyi kuyoluka.

Umtshato akazange enze obandulela ukwenziwa ngoLwesihlanu, ngeCawe kunye ngoLwesithathu kulo nyaka, oko kukuthi, ngoLwesine, ngeMigqibelo kunye ngoLwesibili. Kwakhona akunakwenzeka ukubamba umsitho phambi elinababini enkulu, imithendeleko enkulu itempile.

Ngexesha lomtshato kufuneka ngakumbi ujonge omnye komnye, ngoko kubomi elilandelayo uya kunikwa omnye komnye eninzi ingqalelo.

Wedding ebandleni emva amanqaku mkhosi

Xa inqubo kumtshato ecaweni sele idlule, kufuneka ukunxiba umsesane esandleni sakhe. Phantsi na, nokuba nzima kakhulu, iimeko ungathengisi ngayo ungalinikeli kwiziko ekuveliseni namajikazi, iqabele, kunye izacholo. Kungenjalo, ngokuqinisekileyo ayichithe umtshato. Ukuba ring yothethathethwano oqhiphuke umbilini, ubophelelekile nilindele inkathazo enkulu.

Emva komsitho, ibandla, kungakuhle ukuba ukubulela ilofu entsha ukuba uyisongele ngetawuli yelinen emhlophe. Umphefumlo uya kuba sisityebi yaye kakuhle ukutya.

Wedding ngo-2013: Iimpawu

Ukuba ufuna msitho waba yimpumelelo phambi umthendeleko yomtshato, azivelele inkonzo ubuncinane enye. Ukuba iqabane elizayo ukulandula ngcamango, ngamanye amaxesha oko kubonisa ukuba yena okanye yena lokubandakanyeka 'izenzo black ". Ukuba, phambi kokuba emsithweni na inxaxheba kuwe, mhlawumbi ekhangela isimanga elibi. Abanye baqala ndiba, nivuthulule. Kuyenzeka ukuba umntu uqalisa ukuthetha okanye kunkqangaza bezinye iintlanga, ngelizwi zasendle, okanye ukuphelelwa ekufeni. Ukuba awunalo igama uthembe iqabane ukwenza umthendeleko, ukuba wasamkela. Kukholelwa ukuba abanye abantu 'abamnyama' ngathi dya umthendeleko, kodwa wabeka phantsi kolwimi lwakho kwaye atshicelwe xa kunokwenzeka. Ukuze ufunde inyaniso, khangela apile-Adam. Ukuba flinched, ngoko ke wenza umthendeleko.