Ukuziphatha okufana - oko esijamelana nazo yonke imihla?

Ntoni igama elithi "ukuziphatha okufana" - eyaziwa kakhulu kwengqondo abaqeqeshiweyo, oonontlalontle, amagqwetha kunye namagosa asebupoliseni. Nangona kunjalo, le meko sidibana ngqo okanye ngokungathanga ngqo, phantse yonke imihla, yaye abaninzi bethu ukuze baziphatha elivisayo. Yintoni na ukuziphatha njengomoni, kutheni kwenzeka kwaye oko kuboniswa ngayo - makhe ukuqonda eli nqaku.

Yintoni nokungalaleli

ukuziphatha okufana - yinto mthetho phantsi nobutyala: ihambo ngokunxaxha, encinane nobusela wevenkile, kwimarike okanye kwezothutho, ukulwa ngaphandle umonakalo enzima, lalinqumla indlela kwindawo engalunganga, ukuba emva kwexesha emsebenzini. Uninzi amatyala yolawulo zinxulumene ngokukhethekileyo izenzo okufana.

Ukuba umntwana wakho umfundi:

- musa ukuchitha ubusuku ekhaya;

- utshwala;

- balwe, unamathele esitratweni yabantu abadala;

- ukuphuma kwesikolo;

- waphula izitulo kunye oojingi, ubhala ezindongeni;

- ikhetha imali epokothweni ukuze kwencinane,

kokuba lichazwa njenge ivalelwe.

Thina Makangagocagoci phakathi izenzo kunye nokuziphatha okufana.

Izenzo - naliphi na obuyenzile kuphambuka kwisiqhelo, ekuyinto evunyiweyo yi izimvo zoluntu. A ukuziphatha okufana sele egwetyiwe umthetho. It ngomda yokuziphatha yolwaphulo-mthetho, kwaye umda ixhomekeke kubukho ukuhlawuliswa mthetho. Xa ndandikwishumi elivisayo ibhalisiwe kunye namapolisa, yena okufana. Yaye ukuba entolongweni, ngoko iba mthetho.

Njengoko ubona, ukuziphatha okufana kungaba isiqalo lobomi mthetho. Ngokufuthi, umahluko kuphela ubudala ukuba uxanduva yolwaphulo-mthetho ezithile kuqhutywa kuphela emva kweminyaka 14. Adolescence ithatha iminyaka 12-13 ukuya 18-19, ukuziphatha okufana ngoko iwela phantse ngokupheleleyo lingekapheli elo thuba. Ngokutsho UN, ezinye uhlobo onke la matyala zenzeka ngaphezu kwesinye kwisithathu elivisayo.

Omnye weyona mizekelo ziqhelekileyo ubunjubaqa - nto zokonakaliswa kwezakhiwo. Abantu abatsha ngokungenangqiqo kutshabalalisa zesikhumbuzo, betha nje i iglasi, banciphisa. Maxa wambi ubuncinane eziliqela ngonyaka eendaba kukho iingxelo ihlekisa amangcwaba kunye amangcwaba baphuke - konke oku iwela kudidi yokuziphatha okufana.

Kungani intsha baziphathe ngale ndlela?

Amaxesha amaninzi, xa sijamelene iziganeko ezinjalo, siya ubuza umbuzo-buciko: "Kutheni besenza? Yintoni na abanazo? "

Njengoko elisekwe bengqondo, ukuziphatha okufana lokufikisa kwenzeka ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi:

- Ukungakhuli kwezentlalo;

- ukwazi nomnqweno ukufumana injabulo;

- ekungakwazini ukuqikelela imiphumo yezenzo zabo;

- umnqweno oqhele geqe.

Ulutsha senze into yokuba uluntu ufuna ukwenza imisebenzi ethile. Abakakulungeli ukuthobela, ngokwentlalo ke akukabi aqolileyo, kuya kuthathwa ukuba ihlabathi ningabaniki oko kubangelwa. Ngoko ke kukho umnqweno ukugwilika, ukuba nditshabalalise, ukuba athobele iimfuno zentlalo.

Yintoni esiveza iprofayili nangokwasengqondweni i njengomoni, umoni?

Oku zizakubalulwa izinto ezinjalo;

- self-ukuzithemba;

- ubutshaba abasemagunyeni;

- nokuzithemba;

- inzondo nentiyo;

- ababuthakathaka ukuzeyisa.

Ezinye zezi bantu eziphuhliswe phantsi ukuzithemba kunye nombono elibi ngokwabo. Okunye okwenziwe nokugcina ukuzithemba ngokukhanyela ubukho iingxaki, kwaye wokunxulumana nembono ezintle wena kunye nezenzo zakho ezimbi. Ezi ntsha abafuni ukuthatha uxanduva ngoko bakwenzileyo, kwaye ukholwe ukuba 'ukumqumbisa "abanye abantu kunye neemeko.

Kwezinye iimeko, torts owaphule umthetho ngenxa nezifo anzongonzongo, uloyiko okanye amaxhala.

Yintoni na le migaqo okufana umntwana ophilayo?

Iinkampani street Moral ezahlukeneyo kakhulu ukusuka oluqhelekileyo. Ilungu omncinane leqela, esebenzayo kwaye womelele ngakumbi kunaye ufunda amaxabiso zocaphulo ngakumbi.

1. Gcina umlomo wakho ndithule.
2. Yiba ezinzima nengapheliyo
3. Makhe anikezele.
4. Yazi ngendlela yokufumana imali.
5. Yiba nako ukuze siphumelele.
6. Ukuhlonipha mthetho.

Okukhona ofikisayo "amanqaku ndibano" kule isikali imilinganiselo, kokukhona kubonakala ukuba ukuziphatha kwakhe okufana uya kukhula ngokuhamba kwexesha ibe mthetho.

Esi sikolo ngoku akusayi kuba bezise kwiziko loluntu, ngoko ke luxanduva kulele kuphela kunye nabazali kunye nezizalwane elivisayo. Yiyiphi imilinganiselo baphakanyiswa entsatsheni, ethetha ngaye lo mntwana ngaphandle kwasekhaya, leyo ayidlulisele ikhangeleka, ngokufuthi sithetha ngayo? Uhlaziyo onke amacandelo unokuphendulwa: yintoni lokulindela kwixesha elizayo, kwaye ingaba kukho izizathu inkxalabo namhlanje.