Ubudlelwane kwabazali nabantwana. iingxaki Eyona

Ukuba umntwana entsatsheni - ukuba kufunyanwe iwonga elitsha ebomini kunye isiganeko kudala lilindelwe abazali abatsha kuphela.

pipsqueak Little kwakhona mngeni mkhulu elitsha lenza ubudlelwane umama kunye notata. Bafunda kunye ngomonde umntwana aze ndana. Ubudlelwane abazali nabantwana inxulumene ngqo iyangqinelana entsapho.

Umsebenzi ophambili we oomama abatsha nootata - ukuze bazise abantwana abantu ngobubele novelwano. Ukuze wenze oku, ikhaya losapho lwakho kufuneka buzane ngothando kunye nokuqonda, kunye nobudlelwane abazali kunye nabantwana ukuze babe ngobubele, indalo nokumthemba. Bekuya kuba mnandi ukufumana izithethe ezikhethekileyo kunye nemithetho isangqa yakho elimxinwa kakhulu. Ukuba ekuqaleni uwabele imisebenzi phakathi ilungu ngalinye lentsapho kwaye iza kuzama uku phawula nabo ngobubele, imisebenzi umntwana akayi kuba waqonda njengomthwalo ngokugqithiseleyo kubo. Ukongeza, usana ziya kuthanda kusonwabisa abazali bobabini uze uzame ukuba ukuzalisekisa imiyalelo ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokuchanekileyo ukuze bafikelele kwimpuhle yabo epheleleyo. Umntwana uya kuvuya ngokuphindiwe, ukuba unikela uncedo lwakho okanye wenze imisebenzi yasekhaya ndawonye - ezinjalo umthambo ngokudibeneyo ukwakha unxibelelwano olomeleleyo kunye nobudlelwane obuhle nabazali kunye nabantwana.

iindlela zale mihla ngokufundisa isizukulwana esitsha liya kucetyiswa ukuba uchithe ixesha elingakumbi umntwana wakho, ngamandla, kodwa ngesisa inxaxheba ebomini lakhe, ezama ayikokunqamla indawo yakhe. Kukushwabula zisongele ukukhulisa umntwana nje kuphela mnandi, kodwa kunzima. Kid uya kwenza umyalelo wakho lula ngakumbi ukuba kulungile nokumbuza ngayo, yaye ngakumbi ukuze siphumelele. Zininzi iindlela kunye oomatshini ukutyhalela uze ukhuthaze umntwana ukuba enze umsebenzi wakho.

Xa kufikwa ukuzalana abazali nabantwana, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ziinkosi phezu kwabo, ukuze babe nakho ukuphulaphula nangokunyanisekileyo lokuhlolisisa iingxaki zabantwana bakho. Lidla abadala, kwaye thetheki indlela ukuqhula elimsulwa okanye Amazwi oludale aphoswe Kuyinto nemiqhathane, ngenxa yokuba yintoni na usana izokukugcinela isikhalazo iminyaka emininzi.

Kakade ke, kuyo yonke iminyaka umntwana kufuneka kujonge izinto zalo kwaye kufuneka zithabathe ingqalelo, njengoko ubuncwane kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuze ukuhambahamba ngxaki. Oku kuyinyaniso ngakumbi abantwana, abazali umntwana njengowabo. Ezi guys kakhulu efanele imfundo ebubini ngenxa yokungabikho ingqalelo efanelekileyo kunye nothando ebantwini kufutshane usapho wazuza. Ngapha koko, baya kuba sele benamava udandatheko olunzulu ebuntwaneni, leyo kunzima kakhulu lokuphilisa kamva, naphezu kwayo yonke imizamo. Phezu iimpawu zemfundo kunye nobudlelwane abazali nabantwana neentsapho njengowabo kakuhle kakhulu umbhali usixelela Lyudmila Petranovskaya kwincwadi yakhe ethi, "njani na beziphethe okanye amanyathelo 10 ukutshintsha ukuziphatha nzima." Inika iingcebiso ezilula kakhulu kunye nokuziphatha ndincinwe abadala kunye nabantwana kwiimeko ezinzima kunye ungquzulwano. Le ncwadi lujolise abazali besibini, kodwa kukho iinyaniso kubalulekile ukuba isebenza kubo bonke.

Ukuba uphumelele ukususela ekuzalweni ukuya ukuseka kumfowunelwa efudumeleyo kunye nabantwana bakho, soze uya kuva nje malunga neengxaki ezifana nomsindo wobulali, ixhala, izimo kunye nabanye abaninzi, nangona encinane, kodwa okubalulekileyo inkathazo. Ukongeza, i-umoya entsatsheni yakho iya kuhlala kuzaliswa intuthuzelo ezifudumeleyo ubudlelwane obuhle phakathi kwabazali kunye nabantwana baya isiseko esihle ubomi ngakumbi kid. Musa ukulibala ukuba umntwana weza ehlabathini imithwalo yabo neemfanelo, kwaye umsebenzi yabazali - musa kumphazamisa bahlukane lo mthwalo.