Ngubani na ukuqikelela nxi

Ngumphunga nje bonke abantu ubuncinane kanye babezibuza ebomini bam malunga kutheni yena uphila ngendlela enye okanye omnye, yaye oko kuxhomekeke. Amaxesha amaninzi abantu abanomdla kunye nabo na ukuxela ikamva ezama ukufumana amathuba indlela nempembelelo ngayo.

Akukho mathandabuzo ukuba ubomi bomntu sixhomekeke rhoqo kwi inani elikhulu zizinto ezifana uhlobo, ubuchule, nemvelaphi yakhe womntu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kukho umntu okwaziyo ukuxela ikamva kwaye uchaze ukuba kutheni abanye abantu babe nempumelelo kwaye nodumo, abanye nto ebalulekileyo abadumileyo kubomi babo abangafikelelanga.

Ukuba umzekelo njengoko ingakumbi iibhayografi ubuntu abaziwayo yembali, uyakwazi ukufumana izibakala umdla kakhulu ukwazi. Ngokukodwa, inkokeli edume kakhulu kwinkulungwane ye-19, UNapoleon Bonaparte ngexesha edabini bakwazi lula ukuhlala ngaphambi yomkhosi wawo enkulu, ngaphandle koloyiko ukuba ngengozi uzidibanisa nayiphi imbumbulu singawi. Kwaye ke, umbuzo wokuba ngubani na ukuqikelela ikamva, nokuba yinto efanele naluphi na ulawulo kulo mba ezifanelekileyo ngokwaneleyo. Kakade ke, oko ungalawuleka.

Namhlanje, kukho uhlobo olwahlukileyo abantu bekwi iingqikelelo qho yobungcali, eziquka abaxeli-thamsanqa, oosiyazi, labavumisi. Umntu wadalwa ekuqaleni kunye nkululeko xa abusa izenzo zakhe, izenzo, iithagethi. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntu enxanwe gqitha, uyakwazi ukunyenyisa ubomi bakho, kunokwenzeka ukuba le njongo kungenzeka ukuba udinga uncedo yabantu, ngubani na onokumxelela bavumisa.

Kukho yokugcina yonke iindlela apho abantu 'abone' ikamva kunye iziganeko eziya kwenzeka kulo. Kulo mzekelo, ukuba usebenzise nayiphi na indlela enye, umzekelo, ukuqikelela bayahlelwa umhla wokuzalwa, ukuchaneka kwale siprofeto akayi nkulu. Noko ke, ukuba usebenzise zonke ngaxeshanye, ngoko ke ukuchaneka isiprofeto liya kuba phezulu.

Nazi ezinye iintlobo kungokuvumisa:

1. bengachani emakhadini ukubhula. Kuba iminyaka eliwaka mihlanu idlulileyo, le ndlela yenye yeendlela uthandwayo bavumise elizayo.

2. sokuzalwa. Nokuvumisa lokuqala wadala ngokusebenzisa imephu inkwenkwezi kunye itshathi natal. Ngakumbi zemo iinkwenkwezi kangangexesha elithile ebomini bomntu, ezisekelwe phezu langa kwiimpawu ngeli xesha. Loo lokuma, njengoko umthetho, zadalwa ngenkqubo nganye iinkwenkwezi.

3. bengachani kwi ingalo. Olu hlobo wokuxela iyaziwa ixesha elide yaye sele iphumelele indawo yayo ngokuthandwa phakathi kwabo bafuna ukwazi ikamva labo, ngokuba akukho nto ingathotyelwanga ngqo ukuphumela njengoko imigca kunye nemiqondiso ezandleni le ndoda.

Yaye ngubani na ukuqikelela ikamva? Imboni, kunjalo. Noko ke, kukho imbono ecacileyo enoba kunokwenzeka ukuba bakholwe uqikelelo zeenkwenkwezi abaxeli-thamsanqa, ayikho. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba abantu imisebenzi ezo zibalulekileyo ebomini mihla, ngoxa abanye kubaphatha isilumkiso, kwaye kwezinye iimeko nkqu unxunguphalo. Kanti abanye bakholelwa bangenanyani kunye itshivela Amaxhamakazi intlungu yomnye umntu.