Ngesondo kwangoko kakhulu kuyingozi

Ukuba ngaphambili ebhalwe ezindongeni: "ingqondo + Sasha = Love", ilizwi namhlanje, "uthando" lidla indawo elithi "sex". Oku ekuso kakhulu: ulutsha lwanamhlanje ukhetha ukuba "ungenakuwuxhalabela 'ukuba uthando ukuze kwakhiwe ubudlelwane babo ngokusekelwe ubambiswano ngokwesondo. Ngaphezu koko, iminyaka yobudala apho iqala bambiswano liqhubeka lincipha. Njengokuba kwengqondo usapho kuphawuliwe, namhlanje i-avareji abathathu ezine elivisayo ukudibana ngesondo okokuqala xa babefikisa. Girls --avareji yeminyaka eli-16, aba bafana - ngo-15 neentlobano luqhelekileyo lokuqala ngesondo ithatha indawo nabantu ezingaqhelekanga (42% amantombazana kunye 68% nabafana). Kudla ongathandani naye, nto leyo ayithethi ukuba kubekho intsebenziswano esisigxina. Ulutsha ukuya kuba ngenxa ukwazi. Ngenxa yoko, kangangeminyaka eli-19, ngaphezu kwesiqingatha amantombazana basenethuba lokuguquka ukuya kumaqabane 6. sex enjalo kakubi kukhokelela kukuba amawaka abantwana bosulelwa izifo 652, nezifo ezosulela ngokwabelana ngesondo. Oku kuchazwe kakhulu ngenxa yokuba nzala oluthembekileyo isebenzisa ipesenti encinane amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana.

Kukho enye ngesondo kwangoko ingxaki. Kumitha, amantombazana amaninzi ukufihla le nto kwaye uzame ukuba balahle lo mntwana nangayiphi na indlela. iisayikholojisti Family zibonisa ukuba phakathi elivisayo namhlanje rhoqo loo ncoko: esikolweni nentombi ukulibaziseka - mhlawumbi wayemithi. Kule meko kubo izicacele - isisu. neziphumo zayo abadli wacinga. Ngoko ke akukho nto ayimangalisi kwi into yokuba namhlanje eRashiya inani nokuzalwa kunye izisu phakathi abafazi abadala malunga efanayo kunye abafikisayo - 1: 4.
Kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi abajongene nazo oogqirha iisayikholojisti usapho nimane zokubeleka liyingozi, kuba umzimba intombazana eselula sele engekagqitywa ukukhula yakhe ukuyilwa, ngoko ke ukuzalwa komntwana nethala yakhe umngcipheko ezibulalayo. Hayi ngengozi, bafayo phakathi ofikisayo amaxesha 5-8 ngaphezulu phakathi kwabafazi abadala.

ubomi babantu bokwabelana ngesondo kwangoko kubi nje kuphela impilo elivisayo, kodwa psyche lwabo. iisayikholojisti Family Ndibala amanani alandelayo: ngaphezu kwama-25% lamantombazana sisabelana ngesondo elivisayo uphethwe kukudakumba (phakathi kwabo rovestnits abangenazo ngesondo - 7.7% kuphela). Ukongeza, abo amantombazana abaphulukana zobuntombi ekuqaleni kusenokwenzeka izihlandlo ezithathu ukuba ukuzibulala. Phakathi kwamakhwenkwe, eli nani eliphezulu.