Kutheni ufuna indawo lwesikhuzo kwi kumatshini

Lo mba kunye sisilumkiso sokuba mafikizolo emva ivili ixesha elide kuvuthiwe. Emva kwengozi zonke wesithathu endleleni okubangelwa abaqhubi ngaphandle ngamava uqhuba.

Kwaye ngoko kwakukho mqondiso "Umqhubi Entsha" ngokohlobo sikwere umbala omthubi kunye umfanekiso uphawu lwesikhuzo emnyama. Kuyimfuneko ukuba abo emva ivili ngaphantsi kweminyaka emibini. Nakuba kunjalo, ukuba kukho indawo lwesikhuzo kwi kumatshini ayifumaneki, awazi ahlawuliswe. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kuza sibe luncedo endleleni.

kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umqhubi ongenamava, hayi ukudala imeko enzima ngeenxa zonke kuye. A isilumkiso ithunyelwe xelela abantu ukuba umntu emva kwevili awukwazi ukufumana indlela yabo, yaye baya kuba ngenyameko kwaye balumke. An uphawu lokhuzo kwi imoto - isiqinisekiso a ride ukuze labaqalayo ekhuselekileyo.

Nakuba kunjalo, kufanele kuqatshelwe kwaye ezi cranks, owathi, endaweni yesikwere emthubi kunye isikhuzo akuxhome window unxantathu ngasemva kunye nabo. Uphawu data - oku "ezinye iingozi". Walatha nengcinga lilishwa kwendlela kunye neengxaki ezingachazwanga kwi khowudi evunyiweyo imiqondiso. Mhlawumbi le nto-kuba abaqhubi sixelele abanye ukuba ukudibana nabo - oko ngumwewe lonke iingozi engalindelekanga. Kodwa ngokuzimisela, kungenzeka, kufuneka bafunde imigaqo, kwaye ezo indawo lwesikhuzo kumatshini ulumkisa izikhewu ezinkulu ulwazi lwabo.

Malunga izihlangu, incwadi mna nabantwana emotweni

Makhe sijonge neminye imiqondiso phezu koomatshini, apho amaninzi zifumaneka kwiidolophu zethu nasezilalini.

Abanye abaqhubi ezifakwe iimoto zabo unobumba Y e unxantathu ebomvu. Kodwa oku akuyonyaniso. Olu phawu inokubekwa kuphela ngezo zithuthi, ezisetyenziswa ngokugxotha izikolo ukulungiselela uqeqesho abaqhubi. Hi ndlela leyi, apho ibekwe phezu kwendlu, iphinde emnyango kunye neefestile. Yaye ukuba imoto yakho asisiso kwabo, ngoko ke uphawu luza kususwa ngexesha lokuhlolwa.

Yintoni ebangela abantu, ukusongela zonke ncwadi? Mhlawumbi bafuna ukunazisa ukuba nangasekhohlo indlela ukufunda, kwaye ezidinga kancinane. Ukuba nantoni na, ukuba akunatyala; kuba kukho "indawo amazwi" kwi kumatshini - ncwadi U! Funda kwisikolo lokuqhuba, abafundi beNkosi!

Kwaye amantombazana bahombise iimoto zabo unxantathu azotywe kuwo lo wezihlangu zakhe. Yintoni na? Mhlawumbi libhekisela kwinto yokuba nenekazi kufuneka ukunikezela. Yinto inenekazi! Kodwa endleleni, dear wentombazana, akukho umahluko ngesondo. Umqhubi - indoda wazi ngentliziyo imithetho ukuqhuba kwaye akavumeli ukuba lowanyathela kuphela kuba kokwabo besini ngokuncipha. A Icebo e ukungalungeli kwimeko, apho eganiweyo, nokuba nzima ngandlel 'ithile. Abafazi ukususa "yezihlangu" ukusuka kwiglasi!

Abanye oomama zokuqaphela unamathele umqondiso "Xa imoto, abantwana." Ukuba ke uthe wayixela nangokuqonda, umntwana kwi imoto, eqhutywa nomqhubi onolwazi ukuba enze yonke imithetho zothutho ekhuselekileyo abantwana, ayikho ingozi. Ngoko ke, Mama, ukuba umane uqabe up ngale mithetho, uze nomntwana wakho uya kuba bekhuselekile.

Konke oku kungentla - Kwakhona "i uphawu lokhuzo kwi matshini," kodwa isilumkiso ochasene - on nankathalo umntu ngaphakathi.

Ukususela iingxaki ulalelwe endleleni, uya gcina kwindawo yokuqala, isizathu nokuchaneka. Kwaye ngoko, abaqhubi oyintanda, akukho mfuneko ukuba ube ethandabuzekayo ukuba iimpawu zokhuseleko.

iindlela okungenamagingxi-gingxi kakhulu ukuhamba!