Iphupha Ukutolika: kwiphupha lokuloba okanye oko kuthetha intlanzi ekhuniweyo

Ebusuku siphila kwilizwe elimangalisayo lamaphupha. Ngamanye amaxesha ephupheni simtyelela amazwe amahle, sidibana nabantu abade balilibale, bhabha ... Ngoko awufuni ukuvuka xa uphupha! Kwaye kwenzeka nangenye indlela ngeenxa zonke - i-nightmare iya kwenzeka, kwaye iingcinga ezimbi zihlushwa.

Ivelaphi amaphupha ethu? Kwaye bathetha ntoni? Kuza kubekho, kukho iincwadi ezininzi zephupha ezihlukileyo ezingakhange zichazwe ngendlela efanayo nephupha. Kukho amaphupha adume kakhulu, malunga nentsingiselo yokuba phantse umntwana ngamnye uyazi. Kodwa kutheni, umzekelo, ephupheni ukuloba? Makhe sithethe ngentsingiselo yale phupha ngokungakumbi.

Kwamazwe ahlukeneyo kukho ukuchazwa kohlanga oluhlukeneyo lweliphi iphupha lokubamba iintlanzi. Ngoko, e-America kukholwa ukuba intlanzi ibonakalisa umhlaba wezinto zokomoya zomntu, inkcubeko yakhe yangaphakathi kunye nenkolo. Ngokumalunga kakhulu nale nkcazo kunye neenkolelo zamazwe aseNdiya. Ngaloo ndlela, ukuba ufanele ubambe intlanzi ekulindeni iindaba ezilungileyo okanye ufumane umbane.

Uninzi lweencwadi zephupha zikholelwa ukuba ephupheni ukuloba- inhlanhla, uvuyo, into entle. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba iphupha lenzekile ukubamba intlanzi efile, okanye wafa kungekudala, kuyimpawu embi. Kufuneka uqaphele xa ubona iphupha elinjalo, kwaye uqaphele izifo kunye nezifo. Ukuba intlanzi efile iphupha ngumnini- shishini, ngoko iphupha elinjalo lingamisela ingozi kwi shishini lakhe. Kwakhona, kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ukuba xa uhamba ukuloba ephupheni, awukwazi ukufumana nantoni na, okanye intlanzi ivele iguqulwe-oku kuthetha imisebenzi engenanto, imizamo engenamsebenzi, inkohliso kunye nokungcatsha.

Ngoko kutheni uphupha malunga nokubamba iintlanzi? Injongo yokulala, apho intlanzi ithatha inxaxheba khona, inokutolika ngokuhlukileyo kungekhona nje kuphela kumasiko kunye neenkolelo zabantu abahlukeneyo. Okubaluleke kakhulu kunjalo na ophupha iphupha elinjalo-indoda okanye ibhinqa, umntwana okanye indoda endala, umfazi wendlu okanye umdlali ... Umzekelo, kubalulekile ukuba intombazana eselula inokubamba intlanzi ephilileyo ephupheni - kwaye kungekudala iza kukhulelwa. Ukuba ephupheni ukubamba iintlanzi kwakuyimfuneko ukuba ubuhle obungatshatanga-thande ungabi kude !!!

Abaninzi abantu bayazi ukuba yintoni intlanzi eqingqiweyo ephuphayo. Kodwa iphupha elinjalo linentsingiselo ecacileyo - umntu obonayo, ngokucacileyo uzama ukuxubusha ngaphandle kweengxaki, ubunzima, ukuhlehlisa okukufutshane okubhekiselele kwikhoneni elide. Le "ngqabileyo" yenkinga ayinayo inketho, kungekudala iya kupheka kwaye kusekho umbuzo oza kuvela ngembambo! Umzekelo weemeko ezinjalo "ukuvuswa" kunokuba nokuqokelelwa kwamatyala amakhulu ekufundeni kwithemba elithi "mhlawumbi" kunye nokuhlehliswa kokungapheli kokungena kwakhona kwiseshoni elandelayo. Ngenxa yoko, ingxaki eqingqiweyo iyancipha kwaye ikhupha, kwaye umboleki uya kukhutshwa esikolweni.

Intlanzi efriziwe ephupheni ayinakuchaza kuphela ingxaki ekhutshisiweyo, kodwa kunye nolunye uhlobo lwephupha, izicwangciso zihlehliselwa kwibhokisi elide kude kube ngamaxesha angcono, kwaye zilibaleke kamva. Masithi uthembise isihlobo esikhulileyo ukuba simtyelele kungekudala. Kodwa ephoseni lomsebenzi - usapho sele ukhohliwe isithembiso. Kodwa esi sihlobo sele sisele sikhulile kwaye singasilinda uze ukhumbule isithembiso sakho ...

Kwakhona kubalulekile intlanzi ngokwayo - ihlala okanye ifile, inkulu okanye incinci, uhlobo lweentlanzi ... Akukho nto ifanelekileyo ibonisa ukuloba intlanzi encinci okanye intlanzi. Kodwa intlanzi ehambahambayo, enkulu, enhle-ngokuqinisekileyo ivelisa uvuyo kumntu obona ephupheni.

Ukubaluleka akufanele kunikwe kuphela kwiintlanzi, kodwa nakwindawo ejikelezileyo. Ukuba intlanzi ibhukuda ngokucacileyo, amanzi acacileyo, okulungileyo. Ukuba igumbi lingcolile, qaphela izifo! Ubukho bempahla yokuloba, nayo, akuyona indawo yokugqibela ekuchazeni ubuthongo. Inethiwekhi - kulungile ukuba iphelele kwaye ayiyi kuqothulwa. Thatha intlanzi kwi-hook-cinga, mhlawumbi kufuneka ube nokwaneleyo ngokwakho?

Ngaphandle koko, i-gypsies iphupha ngamaphupho esiprofeto. Bakholelwa ukuba kulungile ukubona kwiphupha intlanzi ehamba nje. Ukuba ibanjwe, kuya kuzisa intlungu kunye nentlungu. Kubi nakakhulu ukutya intlanzi ephupheni - awuyi kukwazi ukukhusela eso sifo. Konke okuphambene nokutolika kwala maphupha aseBrithani: udle isitya seentlanzi ephupheni - uya kuvuya, ulahlekelwe intlanzi - kuba yingxaki.

Wonke umntu unquma ukuba uyakholelwa okanye kungekhona kumaphupho oprofeti. Kodwa uThixo uyanyamekela, kwaye kungcono, emva kwayo yonke into, ukuba ungabinamisi kwaye ungalandeli "intlanzi yokulala" kamva.