Indlela amalungiselelo umntwana enkulisa - ingxaki yabazali mihla

Inqanaba elilandelayo usana lwakho yokukhula - isiganeko ebaluleke gqitha kubomi bomntwana kunye nabazali bakhe. Bekuya kubonakala ukuba akuzange kube kudala emva, xa pipsqueak lulele nje wenqwelwana, waza wafunda ukuhlala, wathabatha inyathelo lakhe lokuqala, wathi igama magic "mama".

Ekuhambeni kwexesha, umntwana uba ukuzimela, ukuphuhlisa izakhono zabo, isinika ingqondo. Kwaye ke, ekugqibeleni, kuza ixesha xa usana iyimfuneko ukwenza eluntwini - ukuchaza kuye epriskuli. Kwaye kusenokuba kukho ingxaki, ngokuba indlela amalungiselelo umntwana enkulisa namhlanje kunokuba nzima kakhulu.

ingaba yintoni njengomqobo? Lokuqala - ukungabikho kokufumaneka kweli eziguqulweyo kwisithili. Kule minyaka ilishumi idlulileyo imeko yezibalo kweli lizwe, kwaye sibulela umsebenzi wenziwe urhulumente kuye kwaphucuka kakhulu. Abazali abaninzi, bethembele kwinkxaso evela kurhulumente kusonjululwa xa kuzalwa usana. Kodwa bambalwa abantu kukwinqanam locwangciso kunye ukukhulelwa ngokwayo ecinga malunga ubunzima kunokwenzeka kunye ukufika umntwana nursery okanye abancinane, ungabi ndicinga ukuba kuya kuba ngokwaneleyo ukubhala phantsi umntwana kwiziko bakhethwa ukuba bapase axilongwe kwaye afumane isatifikethi kuyimfuneko. Ngoko ke ulinde ithuba labo lokuba xa kuya kubakho ixesha ukuya esikolweni. Nokuba ndawo kwaye kukho; kulo mzekelo, oko kuthintela ukusasazeka lokuqala egadini kwilizwe lethu kwinkqubo sicengo. Nendlela amalungiselelo umntwana enkulisa abazali yezezimali apho "ukucula iingoma"? Ungazama ukulwa ukunyoba ezibandakanya umthetho, uyakwazi ukwamkela le meko, yaye ulinda ithuba lakho - ukuba unethamsanqa mhlawumbi, kodwa zama ukwenza amalungiselelo olondolozo lwasemini ekhaya. Le ndlela yokugqibela inika ithuba elihle nabanemali intsapho yakhe, kodwa ngelishwa, umthetho lokukhupha iziko efanayo kweli lizwe ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, ngeke isebenze. Oku kunokwenziwa ngokungekho mthethweni kuphela okanye semi-ngokusemthethweni ngokuthatha ngaphandle sisikolo nursery ekhaya njengentlangano, wenza lokuphola abantwana kunye nolonwabo.

Phambi abanye omama kunye abazali ukuthandabuza ukuba indlela amalungiselelo umntwana enkulisa, asivelanga. Umzekelo, kuba iintsapho ezinkulu nabantwana abathathu okanye ngaphezulu, unako ukwenza enkulisa usapho-run ngokwesiseko kamasipala. Ngelo xesha unina wam ahlale mbutho njengomfundisi, yaye abantwana bakhe - iqela leyo kuxhaswa ngakumbi abantwana ababini non-lweenkobe. Eyona nto iphawulekayo kukuba, ukongeza kwinkxaso-mali, unina ityala kwaye amava omsebenzi.

Ngoko ke, cinga ngendlela amalungiselelo umntwana enkulisa, kufuneka kudala ngaphambi indlalifa. Ufuna ukwazi indlela izinto ukuma ngeendawo eziguqulweyo kamasipala, ucacise ukuba kunini umntwana angabekwa kuluhlu lokulinda, yaye xa kuvela ukukhanya - ukuba ukulibazisa ityala. Kwaye ke kamnandi yaye siqinisekile ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuba lilungu ngokupheleleyo iqela labantwana ngexesha kakhulu kangangoko oku kunokwenzeka.