Dream Ingcaciso: yintoni spider phupha kunye indlu yesigcawu

In yethu amaphupha, isigcawu Kudinga isikhundla edidayo. Yintoni na? Isibakala sokuba spider kuyinto abaninzi kuthi benoloyiko lawuleki, ubutshaba. Noko ke, khangela ngokusondeleyo ukuya kuyo: ibizwa ukudala kakhulu abuthathaka, umoya, libambe indawo oluphakathi phakathi iinkalo ezimbini: umhlaba kunye nesibhakabhaka. Ngoko ke, ukuba andithanga ndikukhumbule unxulumano lwethu neyoyikekayo, le yesigcawu, ngokufanelekileyo, indalo yakhe - web, i uphawu ukuvumelana wendalo. Kwaye ngoku zisondele umba inkxalabo kuthi. Kutheni iphupha yesigcawu kunye web yesigcawu ezosilethela umbono onjalo?

Ukuba ubona olu izinambuzane cwaka eman 'web yakhe kwaye kungekho namnye umchukumisayo, kuquka wena, ngoko oko kuthetha ukuba ngokonwaba sonwabe ixesha lakho, nto leyo iya kuhlala njalo kwixesha elizayo. Kwakhona, xa ubona ezininzi izigcawu baxhonywa isifundo yomsebenzi wakhe, kodwa ke ukuba ningoyiki waza waqalisa ukuya kuwonakalisa, ukuba ukuthembisa engaqhelekanga ubomi ngengozi. Isiphumo sale meko kufuneka ukuziva ngcono, ukufumana ukuqonda phakathi abahlobo, nto leyo mhlawumbi azinazo ngokwaneleyo. Kwakhona sifunda ukuba isigcawu iphupha kunye Umsonto ubukhulu umxhelo. A efanayo umfanekiso ethi iphupha sithathwa njengomnye elikwaziyo ukuzisa ubomi impumelelo yakho ngokukhawuleza, nangona iingozi.

Noko ke, sinikela ingqalelo ekhethekileyo umbuzo wokuba yintoni web iphupha ngaphandle yesigcawu. Kwathathwa ngokwahlukileyo, lo msebenzi mhle kakhulu abe izakhi ngokwanelisayo elula, oko kukuthi, oko kuthetha oliqhophololo ezingeenxa zonke kuni bahambe. Kwakhona kuyimfuneko ukuba anikele ingqalelo ekhethekileyo mizwa ephupheni - xa uziva ingozi ethile, okanye ixhala? Ngapha koko, musa ukulibala ukuqwalasela ukuba mbono ngaphandle mizwa kuya kuba bubulumko. Kusenjalo ucinga malunga web imini yonke, ayithimba le umfanekiso ngokwakhe ebuchotsheni, yaye ebusuku kukhutshelwe kuphela umfanekiso omnye, nto leyo kule meko ongazaliyo ixabiso ngamayelenqe kunye betrayals.

Kodwa khumbula into ephambili imibuzo yethu ngoku ukuchaza ephupheni: waba yesigcawu, xabiso lazo elo anomdla ngayo. Makhe sihlolisise izinto kwimeko apho isinambuzane ndikubonile Uyoyika.

Xa uphupha kuni evela yesigcawu, leyo, kananjalo, ineenkalo yayintle, babaleke bemke, ngoko unga ushiye luck kwi iimeko mnandi kakhulu. Noko ke, ukuba eli phupha ayipheli ngeli xesha, yaye ngoko ukubulala isilwanyana isongela wena, imeko kukusilela nga bangabi namandla. Oko kukuthi, ukuya kule meko ntle, unalo ithuba ukuphuma ngesidima, lokuwina ukusilela.

Kutheni iphupha yesigcawu kunye web, nto leyo ebangela ukoyika? Kakade ke, ukoyika kule meko indlela kufanelekile, nangona kunjalo, ixabiso esinjalo yokusabela - ukungakholwa ukungaqondi yehlabathi. Kodwa ukuba endaweni yokoyika kwakho waziva ukwazi - uloyiko lwakho nokungaqondani uya koyiswa, yaye imizamo yakho iya kugwetyelwa.

Kodwa musa ukulibala ukuba xa uyazibuza ngento zesigcawu phupha kunye web, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba eyona ebuthongweni bakho baya kuba nako ukuwuqonda kuwe kuphela. Ngenxa yokuba xa ujonga amaphupha njengendlela yokusombulula le mibuzo eziphazamisayo ingqondo, ngaphandle akuyi kuba nako ukuqonda ukuba yintoni ingxaki. Kodwa xa usibona kwindawo eyimfihlakalo lwembono, umfanekiso efanayo - wazi bhetele ukuba siqonde indlela iimpawu ezahlukeneyo, yaye yintoni imifanekiso ngcono ilizwe kukwenza ukuba uqonde into afuna ukuyithetha.