Enoba ubudala kunye nexesha, lo mtshato - ukuba sisithethe emangalisayo kunye nembali yalo nyaka-eliwaka, izithethe kunye ngumbhalo. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba zonke izizwe eyakhe, ekhethekileyo bakhe. Pointeresuemsya, njengoko kulisiko eCaweni Orthodox.
Isiko yentsikelelo
Igama elithi "Intsikelelo" libhekisela isigama multi-oxabisekileyo, kodwa enye, imilinganiselo zayo ezinkulu ephambili iyalila "kukuzukiswa umntu okanye into ethile, kuphakanyiswa." Ngamanye amazwi, oku lingumnqweno impumelelo, ithamsanqa, ulonwabo kunye nethuba ukufezekisa izicwangciso zethu, njalo njalo Ukuba eli gama lisetyenziswa umtshakazi nomyeni, intsikelelo kubo ngumnqweno ukudala intsapho emanyeneyo, ukuze aphile uvuyo nothando, nangokuqonda, ukunyaniseka kunye nempumelelo. "Hayi, uyolo lo mfana" - ubabuza? Ngenye indlela.
Xa sijonga imbali, isenzo lenzeka ngale ndlela. Emva ngokuthandana amale, umfana intombazana xa isaziso umnqweno ukuqala usapho, abazali njengophawu semvume phezu kwabo emnqamlezweni, wamanga ebunzi, siyavuyisana. Young okanye ngamadolo okanye bathoba phantsi. Ayikwazanga ukwenza isiko uyise nonina kumacala omabini okanye elinye.
basikelele indlela intsha, ukuba akukho ngabazali? Ngoko ke mission luxanduva abadala kusapho: ootatomkhulu, umakazi okanye uyisekazi, mzalwana, dade. Ekugqibeleni, ukunika intetho ndlelantle ubomi bentsapho entsha godparents esithi kushada elizayo. An caveat ebalulekileyo; kuba eganelwe intshukumo kufuneka ndibhaptizwe. Ukuba ukuzinikela kuThixo omnye wabo akunjalo, ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka ukuya kuyo. Nini yaye njani ukuba basikelelwe ngaphezulu?
ntle yesibini ufumane umtshakazi nomyeni phambi kokuba bahambe kumzobo kwi lobhaliso. Ngaphambi kokuba lo Okusemthethweni yakhawuleza ngokungqongqo kuyimfuneko, kwakukho yokumisela emtshatweni ebandleni. Xa umfana kwakufuneka aye phantsi kwezitulo, phambi kokuba ashiye ikhaya, baphinda wamkela intsikelelo icons usapho, okanye imifanekiso, wayithenga ngokukodwa ngenxa sihlandlo. Ii icon koko banikwa isibini eziselula obereganiya uxolo nolonwabo. Umtshakazi nomyeni izihlandlo ezithathu simlibale Umnqamlezo kunye nemithandazo ezizodwa kunye neminqweno emihle.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, indlela basikelele abaselula okwesihlandlo sesithathu? Kukholelwa ukuba oku kwenziwa emva kokuba betshatile (ukupeyinta), xa entsha ngokusemthethweni wafumana iwonga lentsapho oselula. Ngaphambi kokuba angene endlwini, apho emtshatweni lubhiyozelwa, abazali kumkhawulela isonka kunye netyuwa, ii icon, iminqweno kunye bathi ndlela-ntle. ILizwi ogcina uyise lomyeni, hlebushek - unina wakhe. Sivuyisana Young, umnqamlezo, wamanga. Abo impendulo babulele ndithembise ukuba ubheke abaphezulu kunye nokwakha ikhaya intsapho yonwabe. Kakade ke, nkqu kwikota yokuqala kwenkulungwane yama-20, kwisiko sifanelekile kwaye kuyimfuneko. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, abantu abatsha mihla badla ngaphandle kwayo. Okanye athobele nomba olusesikweni yezithethe. Kodwa kukho ezininzi izibini ukuba amnike umahluko omkhulu ngokwenene.
Icons yokubusisa
Yeyiphi icon umbonge intsha? Lo mbuzo uthanda ibhityile. Okokuqala, njengokuba sele kukhankanyiwe, kunokuba umfanekiso usapho, idluliselwe kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana kanye apha kulo mkhosi. namolennye image ezinjalo sele unayo amandla eyomeleleyo HIV, ingakumbi ukuba umtshato abazali abatsha namhlanje, nomkhulu, njl Kwaba yimpumelelo, elide yaye bonwabile. Kwaye baya kuba usapho abaselula omtsha eziqwini elungileyo. Okwesibini, i icon enjalo ingaba umfanekiso uPetros Fevronia of Murom - abangcwele ezaziwayo yiCawa of nakubagcini ezonka yosapho. More wagqiba ukuba basikelelwe icon kunye noMama bukaThixo wethu, uMsindisi - inkunzi nemazi. It ukuxuma umfanekiso Nikolaya Chudotvortsa. Kwaye ke ubuqili yokugqibela indlela ubusise abantwana kakuhle. Icons kuthathwa ecaweni (okanye unobhala), emva koko axhonywe kwi kwikona obomvu omnye emagumbini endlu apho ezihlala oselula.
Bukela okanye sebenzisa isithethe - njengeendaba zangasese yentsapho entsha nganye. Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukufumana isithembiso ngokunyanisekileyo ngokupheleleyo ulonwabo, ukuba bahlale ndawonye ubomi obude uvuyo - ngcono ukuvumela intsikelelo umzali uThixo abe nawe!