Abantwana badla ugula - esinazo okanye ukungakhathali yabazali?

Summer lifikelele esiphelweni, yaye isiphelo sawo kunye nexesha ungakhathaliyo zabantwana bethu. Kwakhona, isikolo, enkulisa, ngelishwa, lixesha kwizifo wentsholongwane egazini ukuba balandele enye emva kwenye. Abazali abaninzi kakhulu senze umba ngathi abantwana esinamavili. Kutheni le nto isenzeka? Zama ukuqonda kunye.

Ekuqaleni, masikhe sichaze oko umntwana kunganxulunyaniswa iqela 'abantwana abagulayo ". Ukusuka kwindawo ezinokubangwa lwembono, lucalulo na ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: iintsana abangaphantsi kweminyaka konyaka omnye, abaphethwe izifo ezihlasela zosulele ngokuphefumla amaxesha ngaphezulu kwe-4 ngonyaka, kubantwana abaneminyaka 1-3 ubudala, ukugula izihlandlo ezithandathu okanye nangaphezulu kulo nyaka, iminyaka engama-3-5, lubonisa ukuvela kweempawu of influenza -five kwaye ekuhambeni kwexesha, kwaye abo bantwana zabo ubudala zafikelela kweminyaka emihlanu ubudala ayinakulimaza amaxesha ngaphezulu kwe ezine kweenyanga ezili-12.

Kodwa kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo kwenye into - ixesha esi sifo. abantwana badla ukugula - abo babandezeleka elingephi abandayo ezimbini okanye ngaphezulu kweeveki. Ngaphezu koko, esi sifo iyonke lonke ixesha ukuze babonakale zinto omnye okanye emibini - iimpumlo ezivuzayo okanye ukukhohlela, apho kunzima kakhulu ukuba ukunyanga. Ukuba, ke, ixesha elide kwaye kukho nangecesina, libonisa phambi kumzimba naluphi na usuleleko, ngoko ukucothise unyango akukho mfuneko kwiingcali.

Ukuze aphendule umbuzo kutheni ngumntwana uyagula xa engekho kuni, akukho namnye unako, kufuneka ukufunda, okanye ubuncinane kokuhlola okuphelele. Kodwa ke amaxesha amaninzi isizathu soku ukuhla sifo okanye ubuthathaka. Kuba ubisi iintsana lwebele - icandelo ibalulekileyo ukuze kwakhiwe umzimba owomeleleyo. Ukuba umntwana ngaphambi kwexesha, ngoko ke umngcipheko ukweyela "abantwana badla uyagula" iqela banda izihlandlo eziliqela, ngenxa okukwazi senziwa esibelekweni ngexesha okuthatha yonke. zinto Ezingalunganga zingadluliselwa kunye nezifo ezahlukeneyo egazini okanye isisu, ukuthatha amachiza kunye namanye amayeza womelele, ubukho nezifo ezinganyangekiyo okanye ukophulwa naliphi na ikhonkco na amajoni omzimba, kwakunye ngokunciphisa engalungelelananga kunye ezininzi kwiimeko uxinezeleko.

Unokumnceda njani umntwana wakho ukuba abe 'namandla "? Ekuqaleni kufuneka ukuba ukhathazeke malunga nempilo yomntwana, yaye xa esibelekweni. Ukuze ukuphelisa kukuvela iingxaki namathumbu, kungcono ukuba umntu onjalo ingcali yaye baye ikhondo umbala kunye nokusetyenziswa ngamalungiselelo ezizodwa, kwaye xa umntwana efikelela kubudala beminyaka esi-3 ukuya uqale ukuthatha i izakhiwo afikelelekayo. Akukho mfuneko ukuba siphephe ugonyo, kuyimfuneko ukuseka ukutya okunezondlo, zama ucimayo yonke imihla ukufumana ixesha ukuhamba. Impilo - i imeko ebalulekileyo, ukuba indlu rhoqo umntwana uyagula. Sibhedlela - njengenye indlela ukuphucula imeko jikelele nokuxhasa inkqubo omzimba buthathaka. Ingakumbi kula maziko ekunikeni uluhlu olubanzi amanyathelo ukuthobela zonke iimeko kangangoko ukuba impiliso kunye nokomeleza umzimba lomntwana.