5 "ababulali 'enkulu ka ukuzethemba

Kukho iimpawu eziya kukunceda lubalasele isihlwele. It is a ngumbuzo esakha malunga isithsaba sakho ongabonakaliyo, evumela lahla abanye. Imalunga trust. Olu phawu likuvumela ukuba uzivulu lula nayiphi na iingcango kunye ukufikelela kwiinjongo zabo. Kodwa ke abantu abaninzi ndiwuhlutha nje ngokuzithandela kwabo kwempumelelo abaninzi ngokulahleka "ukubulawa" trust. Phambi kokuba ezintlanu iintshaba zakho eziphambili.

uthelekiso

Oku kufundiswa kuzo zonke iinkqubo zoqeqesho kwezoshishino: kufuneka ufunde okhuphisana nabo ngokukhuphela amandla abo. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba sizabalazela ukuphelela, kodwa andifuni ukuba clone othile? indaba yakho yonke - yinto uyilo elikhethekileyo ebonisa zonke iinkalo zobomi bakho. Nyaniseka ngokwakho, funda ukwamkela amandla kunye nobuthathaka babo. Kuphela okusemandleni akho ukuba uzenze ngcono. Kwaye uxhomekeke kuphela ukuba indlela umgudu bathembisa ukwenza njalo. Kwaye xa sele uxakeke ukusebenza wena, akuyi kuba nexesha ukuthelekisa nabanye.

Kugxininiswa iintsilelo elidlulileyo

Ukungaphumeleli zokulinganisa, nto leyo ayikuvumeli ukuba ukuphuma enzonzobileni, ukuba anyukele encotsheni ubukhulu. Yiba luvo ngokuba mzuzu nganto ebomini bakho ezidlulileyo engafanelekanga engenakusebenza ebomini namhlanje ndibuthabathe. Ekuphela kwendlela ukhupha emagxeni umthwalo, ekuphela kwendlela wonditshitshisela amaphiko ezingabonakaliyo emqolo. Winston Churchill wathi "ukungaphumeleli akubulali." Ekugqibeleni, kukho enye into kuphela abangakwaziyo alungiswe. Sele ngokufa. Ngoko ke, akukho nto kuthintela ukuba ntamo gqolo ukwenza inkqubela.

abakakulungeli

Le zo bathi "uloyiso ukulungele uthando". Kukho yonke indlela, kodwa kufuneka silawule ixesha lakho ngendlela eyiyo. Yonke imihla kukunika ithuba ukulungiselela imingeni emitsha. Yenza umfanekiso wendoda awinileyo ubomi apho amandla engundoqo uqhuba iya kuba ingqondo yakho. Ngaba uzimisele ukuya i ngekhilomitha engaphezulu okanye ukwenza into ebaluleke ngakumbi omnye? Ingaba ukulungele ukufumana ekuseni nihlale kude kube sebusuku? Ngaba uzimisele ukwenza oko abanye abakwazi kodwa? Ingaba ukulungele ukuba baphile ngendlela ofuna?

ukwesaba

Kutheni kangaka abaninzi kuthi Nakanye lokufezekisa amaphupha abo? Sikhetha akukho ngozi kunye ukuphila okulula. Ngapha koko, ukuba zonke izinto emgceni, unokoyisa, kodwa unako kwaye udlala ngempumelelo ngokulinganayo. Akakho umntu ofuna ukuphulukana kuye oko, ngoko abantu bayeke uthando lwabo. Ukongeza, izimvo zabanye, indlela yabo yokuphila ngokucinezela nzima phezu kwakho. Xa usenza inkqubela phezu kwendlela sele umgca abahlalutyi eziliqela Tesha wabo nokuzixabisa. Abafuni ukuya phambili kwaye yanelani kancinane. umsebenzi wabo - ukuhlwayela imbewu kwamathandabuzo kuni.

negative

Indlela ukujongana izoyikiso, ukuba mihla le uhlala phezu kwenu? Okokuqala, Ukuqhawula kumaqonga eendaba. Okwesibini, ukuba ukuyeka zonke iingcamango embi efuna ukuhlala entlokweni yenu. iinkolelo zabantu iimbewu ezinamandla ukukhula neziqhamo ezivuthiweyo okanye zibolile kuzo. Naye ninasiqhamo sini na kukungcamla wena ukuba ukulungele ukuba bammise phambi ihlabathi?