Umthandazo uthando - ndlela ifanelekileyo impilo yakho yobuqu

"... Ndamlumana lowo uthandwayo ngumphefumlo wam;
Nga- naye, wamndulula,
ndide umngenise endlwini kamama wam ... ".
"INgoma yazo iiNgoma"

Siye ndizele ugwebo kweli hlabathi uthando

Wonke lowo uzayo ehlabathini uthando. Man - a ukuba ixhomekeke kakhulu kwi ukukhanya okukhulu yobomi ekuthiwa uthando. Okokuqala, ukusukela nje kwixesha isisu, uzimisele ukuba naye kude nabazali kunye nokusingqongileyo nangoko: amalungu entsapho, izalamane, abahlobo. Ndandikhula, uyaqonda ukuba ufuna uthando lomnye umntu. Olu thando ezahlukeneyo: ezinobungozi, hayi utata-nonina, kungekhona emaqandeni, ezahlukeneyo ngokupheleleyo ... Uthando owasemzini ngokupheleleyo kuba lowo uya uyavumelana ukunikela ubomi babo. Apha kule mzuzu umntu uyaqaphela ukuba ukulungele nje ukwamkela uthando, ukulungele ukuba azinike (kuba uthando - akuthathi uthabathe uze ubanike) unovuyo koku.

Indlela ukukhangela uthando kutheni umthandazo uthando?

Yintoni omdala, xa uvakalelwa imfuneko yokuba uthando, kodwa ubone indawo yakhe, indoda ngubani na uthando kwaye ngubani oya isandla ngesandla nge ebomini? Kufuneka sicele iphela kumntu onjalo. Isibakala sokuba ingcinga zizixhobo - kukade icangcisiwe i inyaniso elingenakuphikiswa. Oku kungqinwa inzululwazi (ingakumbi bengqondo), zonke iinkonzo, bulumko, kunye iintlobo ezahlukeneyo ulwazi eziyintlanganisela uluntu kangangamawaka eminyaka, afundeka ngolu hlobo: ukuba umntu efuna ngamandla into kwaye cela oko, yena qiniseka ukuba ungazifumani nje izinto ozifunayo. Kweli wakha lonke ulwazi zobugqi, ithi uYesu kwiTestamente Entsha: nkqonkqozani, kwaye oko kuya kuvula; celani, niya kunikwa. Indlela ukucela uthando? Oku kuxhomekeke kuwe ababuza, kubani ufuna ukufumana uthando, kwaye ukuba isicelo sakho. Ingaba ufuna ukufumana ukuthanda Imimoya imikhosi ezahlukeneyo engaziwa, sebenzisa yomabophe kunye izihlabo. Oko kuya kunika? Kwimeko engcono - nto. Ngcolile - ukusuka imikhosi unknown ukufumana into engaziwa, ngoko kuya kuba ukujamelana nayo ngokwabo, kodwa imimoya yonke ndandikhangele into elungileyo ngokwakho ... Ilungile kwaye zithembeke ngakumbi sonke - ukucela uncedo oluvela kuThixo, oko kukuthi, cela kuye ngomthandazo. Kufuneka ube umthandazo yothando.

Yintoni ekufuneka umthandazo ngothando?

Ukukhusela isiguqo wonakalise ekungatshatini kunye nezinye maqhinga ezifana nomona amazwe kunye nentiyo kufuneka ufunde iNdumiso 90. Funda kufuneka kusoloko 1 ixesha ngosuku, okanye ubuncinane 1 ngexesha ngeveki. Oku kuya kunceda susa Kwingcingane uchaphazelekayo womGaqo umonakalo, ukuba ikhona, kwaye ukukhusela ekuhlaseleni ezintsha. Khetha umthandazo ngenxa yothando kwincwadi yemithandazo, okanye axelele ngawakho amazwi akho. Umthandazo uye imithandazo umtshato amantombazana kunye namadoda. Ndingathanda ukutsala ingqalelo yakho yokuba akuyi kufumana khona ezifana umthandazo ngenxa yothando womntu, okanye umthandazo ngenxa yothando sentombazana. Uthando besini esahlukileyo ngaphandle umtshato uthathwa lwesono. Becela olunjalo uthando, Kakade ke, awunako akanaThixo. Ngoko nzulu umba wedwa, kuyimfuneko ukuba ukubuza malunga ngomtshato. Ngoobani, uThixo uya kubonisa kuwe. Ukuze wenze oku, nina kuye nokusebenzisa. Kholosa uThixo abe, ngolwimi mihla, ngokungagqibekanga. Nikelani ingqalelo umthandazo uthando:

• INkosi uThixo amantombazana malunga umtshato uphumelele
• Malibongwe Virgin Mary
• Saint Matrona of eMoscow
• Nikolayu Chudotvortsu zomtshato
• uBarbara
• Xenia of St. Petersburg

Kukho kwakhona umthandazo ezimangalisayo yamaKatolika eSt uYosefu, indoda elungileyo. Enye into elungileyo ukucela umama ukuthandazela Catherine intombi umyeni olungileyo. umthandazo zokubelekisa unamandla kakhulu nolusebenzayo.

Wazi njani ikamva lakho?

Omabini la madoda nabafazi, ukuba umntu apho, ukuze uqinisekise ukuba oko kukuthi umntu ongatshatanga athunywe isiphelo ubomi, oko kuluncedo kakhulu awuthandaze kuwe lo mthandazo: Nkosi, ndiwunikela kuwe ulwalamano lwam kunye (igama mntu). Ukuba Ukuze bazuze kum, wuyeke (yena) uya kuba ngumfazi wam (indoda). Ukuba lo mntu, yonke into iya emsithweni - xa sahlukana. Kulo mzekelo, musa ukuzama ukubuyisela loo mntu. UThixo ngenxa yokuba uthi ngokucacileyo - oko elingelenu.

Indlela yokuthandaza ngenxa yothando?

UThixo akakukhathalelanga uthandaza ngayo, loo nto uyithethayo. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo - ukuba uzive. Uyalibona entliziyweni yakho uze ubone yonke into kuphela ofuna ukuyithetha. Ngoko zama ukuba ibe amazwi iingcinga wam onyanisekileyo kunye neengcamango zenza icocekile, kuloo ndawo kuye kuqala. Ngokuba, njengokuba oko, cela ngentliziyo yenu yonke, zonke iingcinga zakhe, kwandula ukwenzeka. Ukuba ufuna uthando, kufuneka ke nazi nize nibone ukuba uhlobo lothando. Yaye ngaba ukulungele ukuphendula nemvakalelo? Ndifuna, kodwa andazi intsingiselo into ezinkulu: musa ufuna ukuyenza, okanye - mna ndidikwe, ndifuna adventure. Khumbula, ukuba inqanawa akazi nalapho ukuya, akukho umoya ohamba kuyo. Yiba happy ngothando.