Uyintombazane: ukunakana sibalekele

elide bekungenxa kwabasetyhini akukho wothuka ubukho olu hlobo babantu njenge "uyintombazane." Kwaye kutshanje sex eyomeleleyo abantu ukuba kuwa phantsi oluhlobo, kuba ngakumbi nangakumbi. Kutheni le nto isenzeka, achaze ngokucacileyo akukho namnye unako, kodwa yintoni infantilism sisiphoso unyana wakhe ngunina - yinto inyani. Ingakumbi "iimeko" nokuthantamisa sonnies kwandikhuthaza mummies, abangenazo umyeni. Ngoko ke "shift" lonke uthando lwam kunye nokhathalelo kakhulu ukuba umntwana.

Aba bafazi bakhathele kunye nenzala yabo, ezifana inkukhu iqanda: ukutya, amanzi, ihempe qabane, impahla kunye kawusi azihlambe, elaliswa bacule lullaby. Kwaye konke exutywe syusyukanem, nangona into yokuba lo mntwana sele kudala sekuvele ukususela kwiminyaka emihlanu kwaye baba ngokupheleleyo abaqolileyo ngesondo, indoda ayingaphandle. Kodwa kunjalo ngokwenene ezimeleyo ukuba kway yonke ilawula na? "Musani ukuya khona, ukuze ukuba ukwenza abahlobo, musani ukwenza obu ..." kwaye liza kangangokuba umama isigqibo apho unyana wakhe omncinane ukufunda kubani batshate. Kwaye ingaba ukutshata ...

Nokuba uyintombazane kunye yeGET ucinga nentsapho yakhe, unina ezinye yena ngeke. Ingakumbi ukuba kuchasene iimfundiso zayo, abangatshatanga intombazana, akuba yena. Ngapha koko, nga kotekisa ku yini sweswo? Yena wamvusa umfana yakhe, bayavuswa, zikhuliswe kwaye holila, nobusuku na ulele, kwaye apha ifike "coquette" kwaye wasisusa buncwane. Kodwa kuthekani iglasi yamanzi ebudaleni bakhe? Kwaye uqale (kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ivuliwe) efihliweyo imfazwe nxamnye intombi, lowo uhlamba izitya akunjalo, ihempe ayikho nje omzimba kunye, ngokubanzi, akamthandi unyana wakhe. Kuba ngokwenene kuphela umama bathande. Sagcina uqala ukuba alungise umfazi wakhe Ngokwahlukileyo ephezulu kid.

Le ndoda, Kakade, ekuqaleni owala, kodwa kungekudala awafika njani ilungelo uMama, kunye nothelekiso kunye nonina umfazi wakhe akazange athathe ixesha elide ukuba alinde. Umfazi wakhe umyeni - a uyintombazane, kufuneka yokwehlisa inqindi kuya kuba bhetele-mthetho (oko kukuthi, umgaqo, akunakwenzeka ukusuka kwindawo Ngenxa iqabane) okanye ukuba ifayili ukuze umtshato.

Okwesibini, ngelishwa, yenzeka kaninzi ngenxa yokuba nawuphi na umfazi esinengqondo bangathanda ukuthatha unonophelo bonke ubomi bakhe ukuhlala umntu omdala, ngubani na nkqu ukufumana ukutya kwisibandisi, singasathethi uncedo wasekhaya?

Ngoko ke, ukuba awufuni ukuba Bakhonkxe ubomi babo umntu lowo mama ilizwi - iqiniso eliphelele, kubalulekile ukufunda ukuchonga bayo ngaphambi kokuba ulwalamano zavyazhutsya ezinzulu. Ungakwenza oku ngamanye amaxesha ngqo, maxa wambi - emva kwexesha, ngenxa yokuba ngoku amadoda bobusana zizenze ezithembeke kwaye uzithembe. Ngoko ke, ukuba umhlobo wakho entsha - uyintombazane, iimpawu iya kuba yile ilandelayo:

• Wayedla kakhulu kwaye ngemfesane enkulu ikhankanya wakhe uMama (Mama, mamulenku, unina, njalo njalo) kwaye acaphuke kwaye nomsindo kunye umbuzo wakho nomdlalo ngokuphathelele unxulumano lwayo kunye unina.
• Rhoqo ubiza unina kwaye ikuxelela apho kukuthi, kubani yaye yintoni ixesha ukuza ekhaya.
• Ifuna ukuba 'bonisa "Umama wakho ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka, ukuze, xa kwimeko akakholiswa, musa ukuchitha ngaphezulu phezu kwakho ngexesha elinye.
• Axholiweyo, echazwayo Ekse kuba nje umama wakhe kakhulu.
• Ayawuthanda ezinye kawusi, izikhafu kunye takwabipa kunye nawo (usinxibe kubo, nokuba Bagciniwe ukusuka kwiintsuku zesikolo), kuba umama wam ezinithiweyo okanye ithengwe.
• Oku uyakwazi makanikelwe el le ntombazana ukuba uza kutshata naye kuphela ukuba emva kokuba betshatile baya kwenza umsebenzi ofanayo ngendlela efanayo naleyo umzali intanda yakhe.
• Oku akwenzi phantse akukho okusemandleni ukuba ninikwe, ngokuba priori ethile ukuba sifanele kuphela intombazana oya kuwunyamekela kunye evutha efanayo njengoko unina. Ukuba anazi, ngoko kuya kuba ngumfazi embi kwaye ngoko asifanelanga ukuba uhambo oluya yokutyela (amakhwenkwe emihle isidlo ekhaya), iintyatyambo (bona banikwa unina kuphela ngoMatshi 8) kunye nezipho (izipho zabo kuphela unina ngohlobo takwabipa kunye nawo ).