Talk? Okanye nendlela yokufundisa sisikhwenene ukuthetha

Ngaphezu kwesiqingatha abantu umhlaba kufuneka isilwanyana osithandayo okanye isilwanyana. Bakholelwa ukuba xa ubuntwana umntu kaThixo "mhlobo wam omncinane", kungakhathaliseki nokuba ngaba a Hamster okanye inja yasebukhosini, umntwana sele esemncinane wabethelela iimvakalelo ezifana uvelwano kunye noxanduva kusapho. Abantu abanjalo kulula kakhulu ukuqala intsapho kwixesha elizayo. Kwakhona, kukholelwa ukuba abanini izilwanyana zasekhaya ubomi obude bonwaba elide ngaphezu kwabo bantu abenza nto.

Le ziintsapho izilwanyana umxhelo: izinja, iikati, iimpuku, intlanzi, iintaka kunye ezirhubuluzayo. Ukusebenziseka kwale okanye umntu athi ngonaphakade. Kodwa ndifuna ukuqaqambisa ezi izilwanyana, ezifana izikhwenene.

Ngubani ofuna ukunxibelelana ngenene isilwanyana ozithandayo? Umbuzo-impendulo, umbuzo kunye nempendulo ... Ngelishwa, asiyiyo yonke izilwanyana kufuneka ubuchule ezinjalo. Indlela yokufundisa sisikhwenene ukuthetha, kuba akukho nzima ukufumana ezincwadini kwaye kwi Internet. AmaBhunga yolwandle, kodwa isiphumo ongakwazi abakwazi njalo. Nangona ukuba ukunika imfundo ixesha elininzi, njengoko parrot kwi ingqondo, kwaye inqanaba lophuhliso sokuthetha ukufikelela kwinqanaba umntwana kunyaka-3 ubudala. Ayimangalisi na? Ewe, okunene, isilwanyana sakho siya kuba nako ukubiza amagama, amabinzana kunye izivakalisi yonke.

Ngoko ke, wena uthenge sisikhwenene. Umthengisi iipeyinti zonke -ngomtsalane iintaka ezikhethiweyo kwaye usixelela indlela yokufundisa sisikhwenene ukuthetha, kodwa kwathi imihla kunye iiveki, kwaye akukho ziphumo. bekusenzeka rhoqo ngokufanelekileyo. Mistake, kuqala kwiinto zonke, kufuneka ukuba uzigqale. Akwanelanga ukuba izihlandlo ezilikhulu ngemini, ukuba uthi, "Nkosi, wenze kakuhle" okanye "Kesha uyinzwana" umthambo - yinkqubo ende kwaye kunzima.

Musa ukulibala ukuba sisikhwenene kusekho a ophilayo, yaye oko kufuneka ingqalelo. Lilolo mbi ngaphezu kokufa. Ngoko ke, ukuba uthe wachitha imini yonke emsebenzini kwaye zifunwa ngokuhlwa ukusuka qabane ekugqibeleni ukhumbule igama elinye, uya kufumana ndingungantweni. Le Iwebhu kaninzi wabuza: "Indlela ngokukhawuleza bafunda ukuthetha sisikhwenene?". abantu abanolwazi phendula: "Hayi!". Uqeqesho, ukuba ndithe ndithi kunjalo, kufuneka ixesha elininzi. Kwaye phantse ezizimeleyo iqondo italente-qabane lakho. Ekugqibeleni, Kakade ke, bekuya kuba ngokwaneleyo ukuba bathi igama kube kanye kuphela. Kambe ke nantsi eyona nqanaba liphezulu aokusetyenziswa ngoqeqesho nzima.

xa ukhetha indlela yendlela yokufundisa sisikhwenene ukuthetha, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ahlale phezu kwinkqubo imivuzo. Oko kukuthi, ukuba impumelelo ngamnye okanye ukuzama ukuphulula yena aphinde igama elithi ukhuthaza uju ethile, amaxesha amaninzi oko nanjengentlabathi amazimba. Le yerhasi sifanelekile kakhulu njengoko unako ngokukhululekileyo ukusebenzisa zombini abadala kunye nabantu abatsha, nkqu ekugayeni kakuhle. Hi ndlela leyi, khumbula kanye nabo bonke, ungaze ukuqhathwa le sisikhwenene! Ukukhunjulwa ezi ntaka kwizenzo ezinjalo uyazi akukho imida. Ukuba ukhetha kuzo zonke iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokufundisa ngokukhawuleza izikhwenene ukuthetha, kuba le nto, kuba umsebenzi wenziwe. Wena uthi ilizwi - musa ekumnikeni, anike ingqolowa.

Ukuba ukhangela nzulu, kuba iimeko zoqeqesho ezifanelekileyo, cinga oku kulandelayo:

• Izikhwenene ukuqonda ngcono kwaye lokuyivelisa amazwi eziphakamileyo, ngoko abafazi kunye nabantwana ithuba lokuba bafunde ukuthi yentaka ungaphezulu kakhulu kunamadoda. Kodwa kukho nayo ibalulekile trust factor. Parrot uya kuphulaphula kuphela, ngendoda awayimisayo, ayisendim owaziyo abathembayo. Musa ukulibala trust kungenzeki kakhulu. Le ngobubele yaye ngaphezulu kunakuqala uya kuzixhalabisa kwinkqubo yokufunda, kokukhona kuya kuba wena isilwanyana sakho.
• Ngaphandle kokukhetha, le izikhwenene eminye yayo ukwazi yaye baphazanyiswa nayiphi makangakhohlisi. Zama ukufumana indawo kakhulu cwaka ekhayeni lakho uze ukuqhuba uqeqesho apho.
• Ukuqeqesha intaka kuyacetyiswa ngexesha elithile, ngoko ukuthetha, ngexesha yaye akukho ngaphezu kwemizuzu eli-15. Oku kwenziwa ngcono kusasa nangokuhlwa, nje phambi kokuba izidlo.
• Ukusebenza amazwi okuqala alula. Ideal - elithi "molo" okanye "umbuliso". Ayibonayo ophethe birdie a mood elungileyo imini yonke. Ungenile.

Icebiso kakhulu kwindlela yokufundisa sisikhwenene ukuthetha - ukuba nomonde ibonwe. Musa ukuzivumela obukhulu phantsi ekhwaza. intaka ethukile - akayi kuva ilizwi. Zama ukuba kuthi xa amagama isikhwenene ukuba andifuni kuye imbuyekezo kunye ukuva. Akukho nto nakakhulu ngaphezu wemikhosi, phantse akazange fihla kwivaranda ephezulu guest okanye abantwana bafunga Parrot. Funny? Kaloku, oko kuxhomekeke. Parrot ukusola ubuncinane.

Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu benze kwakunye ne ngxaki. Thenga iintaka abadala kwaye siyathemba ukuba ingxaki isibetho "indlela yokufundisa sisikhwenene ukuthetha" ngokuzenzekelayo iya badiniwe. Apha kwakhona yokumpompoza trust. Nangona parrot, ubuncinane, akuseyomfuneko ukuba ukoyika, akuyi ukuchaza iimvakalelo zabo ngokuvakalayo. Ngoko ke, sikhetha qabane enamaphiko ecinga umbuzo, indlela yokufundisa sisikhwenene ukuthetha kunjalo, ukuthenga amantshontsho, kunokuba umntu omdala.

Love abazalwana bethu ezincinane. ukubonga kwabo shushu iintliziyo ezininzi kunye nemiphefumlo iminyaka emininzi yaye abaninzi.