Ndivuya ndikhulelwe into omele uyenze: ukunqanda ukwesaba!

"Mna ndikhulelwe ntoni?". Ngokuqhelekileyo, le ke into yokuqala ukuya iindaba ezilungileyo. Ngaphandle kwakwiimeko apho ukukhulelwa yaba kudala-dala elindiwe kwaye ubunzima, ngokuqhelekileyo iindaba hlobo isimanga epheleleyo kubazali. Phantse njalo, abantu ukothuka. Kubonakala ukuba kulungile, kodwa kwangaxeshanye kukho uloyiko lokuba ngoku ulindele.

Amantombazana banomdla impendulo yalo mbuzo: "Mna ndikhulelwe into omawuyenze," kufuneka kuqala kuyo yonke inzolo phantsi kwaye hayi ukuba Nokubetha amanene nomkhuhlane. Ngoku kubonakala kuwe ukuba ihlabathi uyachitheka zonke izicwangciso ubomi kunye kufutshane elizayo. Ndikholelwe, kungathatha ixesha elincinane, uze ke umsindo phantsi, cinga ngayo kwaye baqale ngokuthe xiya ubuhle indawo yayo. Abanye abafazi, uthi: "Mna ndikhulelwe yini okulandelayo," qatha engqondweni iingcinga umbuso malunga isisu. Aphoswe ngaphandle ukuzisola. Ukubulala umntwana wakhe ongekazalwa - akukho nje ulwaphulo-mthetho ngakuye, noluntu ngokwayo, akukho sikweni, isenzo kakubi, imiphumo yayo kusithuthumbisa na kuwe ukuba ubomi. Ngoko xa wafumanisa ukuba ukhulelwe ntoni elandelayo, yena akaqondi, kubalulekile ukuba kube ngawo lo mzuzu olona xhaso kunokwenzeka. Oku kunokwenza indoda, abazali okanye abahlobo, konke oko kuxhomekeke ekubeni kuya nokukhulisa lo mntwana kuphela.

Ngoko ke, nina sele uqalile kancinane ndaqonda ukuba ngaphakathi kwenu wazalwa ubomi entsha, ngoku kubalulekile ukuba kanye nabo bonke utshitshise imikhwa emibi, ukuba zikhona. Ukutshaya, ukuselwa kotywala kunye nezinye izinto leyo enokuba nesiphumo esibi usana, kufuneka uyeke. Yaye musa ukuzama ukweyisela ngokwabo ukuba umdiza kungenzeki, okanye ukuba ummelwane emnyango wesithathu yazala ezimbini ndatshaya ngathi kwitshimini. Nawuphi na umfazi azivale kunye ngokwakhe kunye nempilo yomntwana wakhe bale nto. Ukuba akakwazi ukwenza izenzo ezinjalo, ngoko akukho nto ifana ngoburheletyo, ukuzingca, intswela kunye ndini nje.

Phakathi kwezinye izinto, ukuba Wathi, "Mna ndikhulelwe ntoni ntoni?", Kufuneka ubhalise kwi kwikliniki kokubeleka. Wonke umfazi wenza oko kumanqanaba ahlukeneyo yokukhulelwa. Kakade ke, eyona ukususela ekuqaleni ukuya abe phantsi kweliso zonyango.

Ngaphantsi funda iincwadi ezahlukeneyo abafazi abakhulelweyo. Hayi, Kakade ke, ukuze ukwazi izinto ezithile ezibalulekileyo kwaye kuyimfuneko malunga iimpawu kule meko, inkqubo lokuzalwa kunye nezinye izinto umdla yaye iluncedo ufuna. Kodwa ukuba bayathatheka kakhulu, ukunyina kufundwa manqaku, zonke iinkcukacha ndibalisa unikezelo aluphumelelanga, izifo yemfuza, kunye nezinye izibakala ayamtyhafisa ebuthongweni.

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ukuze nenze ngoku, kulungile ukulala, elininzi ehamba umoya ufune ehlise. imisebenzi yasekhaya kudluliselwa kubo esibathandayo, kwaye kufuneka wonge amandla. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka achithe yonke ukukhulelwa wayephethwe cutha ebunzi. Ukuba mvume ezempilo, akukho zinetyhefu, kunye nezinye izigulo, kukhokelela yokuphila asebenzayo. Asinguwe na ugula, elinde nje ukuba usana. Uya kukuxelela kuphela kakhulu, ukuba uya eluhambeni, uya kudibana kunye nabahlobo, uhambo, yiya kwindalo kufumana ngokuqhelekileyo iimvakalelo ezintle.

Ngasekupheleni kwekota, ungaya kwi izifundo abafazi abakhulelweyo. Oku kuya kunceda engqondweni wena emzimbeni ukulungiselela wena ukuba inkqubo inenimba. Kufuneka uthethe itakane, ukubukela iimovie elungileyo kunye neekhathuni zabantwana, kwakunye jonga kwi ihlabathi kunye nethemba enoba kwenzeka ntoni na.

"Mna ndikhulelwe ntoni na?" Indlela ukuphendula lo mbuzo? Yehla, yiba nomonde, uzame ukulandela izindululo oogqirha kunye nabo sele baba ngawo, yaye, ke, ukuba azale. kweenyanga ezisithoba ziya fly ezifana ngenye imini, kwaye ekugqibeleni ukubona usana lwakhe.